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Shadowmarioking said:
Sounds like you've got a bunch of issues. No matter.
I was in the same situation, with the guy I like having a girlfriend. At first, I was rather unsure about how I should feel, but then I remembered that as humans, all we want is happiness. Since the guy I liked was happy with another woman, why shouldn't I be happy for him, I asked myself. So I accepted that he had a girlfriend and secretly wished for the best for both of them.
As for your friend liking the guy you like, there is nothing really you can do about that. It's not anyone's fault that your friend starting liking the guy you like. At some point, we're all going to experience something like this. But like you said, the guy you like has a girlfriend, and judging from the advice I said above, I think this problem will disappear soon enough.
You need to tell your friend that you feel left out about what she's doing. Figure out a way to compromise and equally share your friend with the other person. Who knows, you could gain another friend out of it.
Worst enemy? How so? Anyway, although this might be far difficult, try to befriend your enemy. Try figuring out if you have any similar interests, and if so, talk about them with her. I recall reading somewhere that whether it be a friend, an enemy, or a neutral person, that each person wants nothing but happiness, and does not want to feel pain or hatred. You should see this enemy as a friend rather than an enemy.
Your mother is simply concerned about what's going on with your life. Perhaps you should try and figure out why it is your grades are so low, and then try to fix that problem.
I'm sorry if I didn't address all your problems to the best of my ability. You did ask a lot of questions after all.
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