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Advice on a crush?

Hello.
I recently had a crush on a boy, but he got a girlfriend and I realised he really had no personality so I got over him. Literally a few days after I realised one of my friends, lets call him Nicklaus, was really cute.
Last week we went to a diner birthday party and I asked one of my closest friends if she thought he liked someone, and she replied that she thought he liked me.
I asked 4 friends if they thought the same thing and they agreed.
I really like him, and everyone is geting my hopes up that he likes me.
I'm afraid that he doesn't actually like me and that I'll be hurt.
What do I do? I know I shouldn't be so negative but I can't help it, whenever I like someone it ends badly for my heart and feelings.
Thanks.
 Momo_Hinamori posted over a year ago
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LGYCE said:
Being male and having some experience with this sort of thing, I think you should go somewhere private and talk to him a bit, and ask when it seems the least awkward. If he likes you then he will either tell you so almost immediately when you ask, or act very shy and embarrassed, and try to avoid answering. If he doesn't like you (romantically; you can be friends either way), then he will say so, or he will think going somewhere private is odd and misleading. The worst that could happen is he will say he doesn't romantically like you. Discovering that early will be far better than trying to find out for far too long, rather than consider someone who might like you back. It may seem embarrassing or make you nervous, but relationships cannot exist without a beginning. The best of luck!
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Thank you, this is the best and detailed advice I've gotten. This was what I wanted in an answer, thank you soooo much! :D
Momo_Hinamori posted over a year ago
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You're welcome. Hope it helps!
LGYCE posted over a year ago
jeannette27 said:
just ask him if he likes you I did that and needless to say a year later we got married. if he doesn't we'll his loss
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EgoMouse said:
Worst that could happen is if he say no.
Worst that will happen if you never ask is a bunch of nervous tension of "What if?".
You'll either forget about him or regret never asking.
So go ask him out.
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angelwings2055 said:
Talk to him
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Catherine51197 said:
I know this has already been said by everybody else & can be easier said than done, but talk to him. Chances are though, that he'll either say no or deny it, but if he shows any of the signs (e.g. blushing, acting awkward, getting defensive) then he most definitely likes you & you should do something; or if your to shy, ask 1 of your closest friends to talk to his best friend in case he told them. Just try not to get too depressed if he honestly doesn't, there's still friendship.
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