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if a girl is a virgin and is raped is she still concidered a virgin?

 Cherry9090 posted over a year ago
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renrae said:
If you define virgin as a female with an unbroken hymen (via sex), then no.

If you define a virgin as a female who made the choice to have sex, then yes.
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thank you for the info it helps...i realy does
Cherry9090 posted over a year ago
NCISLuverjk93 said:
Sadly, no. Sex is sex no matter what. So if you're raped then you had sex, and aren't a virgin anymore.
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:((
Cherry9090 posted over a year ago
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It sucks I know. Well rape in general is horrible, whether a virgin or not </3
NCISLuverjk93 posted over a year ago
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.....................:((
Cherry9090 posted over a year ago
cassie-1-2-3 said:
the definition of a virgin is a person who has never engaged in sexual intercourse.

It's also defined as an unwed or unmarried woman.

Those two used to pretty much mean the same thing, a long long time ago..
Now, it's more of the first definition.

People seem to have changed the definition again. It's more like a state of mind now. Think of "bourn-again virgins"..

People tend to follow the first definition.

I guess it all depends on what the girl believes.
If she thinks she's a virgin, she's a virgin. If she doesn't, she's not.

I would think she's not, but it's just a technical term. It doesn't really mean anything.
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thank you for the info it helps...
Cherry9090 posted over a year ago
HunnyBunni93 said:
No...sorry if you were raped
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thank you for ur honesty hun
Cherry9090 posted over a year ago
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Welcome ^^
HunnyBunni93 posted over a year ago
skillet_luvr said:
Physically, no. She went through the action.

Mentally, yes. I believe that someone loses their virginity when they're having sex under their will. If you're raped, you can't really control the situation.

I would still consider her a virgin.
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I agree
Hellohoudini posted over a year ago
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^So do I
skipperfan5431 posted over a year ago
Monrose said:
No.
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green6244 said:
That reminds me of another famous question: If a person is raped, but likes it, is it still considered being raped?

My answer is it depends if she liked it. If yes, then she's nota virgin anymore. If she didn't want to, then shes still a virgin
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Twilight_Dream said:
sex is still sex. no matter what. if it happen'd, it happen'd. physically, the girl is not a virgin anymore. but she can still consider herself a virgin in a way since she did not consent to it in any way.
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larouxbestfan said:
well i kinda think that you are still a virgin but technically you arent.

Virgin:in a state of sexual virginity; pure and vestal modesty; a spinster or virgin lady; men have decreed that their women must be pure and virginal;
noun
a person who has never had sex
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Sooooo.....
larouxbestfan posted over a year ago
pattykirsche said:
It depends. The himen won't be there anymore. She'll need to go to a doctor. But in her mind she's still, for she's never chosen to have sex.

I think being a virgin is over-rated, tbh. Being raped is something awful anyway, and the woman has to overcome the trauma, no matter how or when it happened.

There's some kind of taboo about woman's virginity. Having sex is something that a girl decides to do, it doesn't make her less special.
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rAsberrStrarS said:
I think she'd be a virgin if it was her choice to have sex.
but if she was raped then she'd still be a virgin since it was'nt her choice.
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Lawli-gagger said:
I think if her hymen isn't broken then she is....


But emotionally I think she wouldn't believe she is anymore....
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sugarcane15 said:
depends on the girl
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victoria94 said:
no, she is not a virgin. UNLESS the raper didin't actually put his penis inside u, and just tryed to...like...hump u? lol.....then u just might be okay. :)
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Thank u for answering but no I bleed afterward :((
Cherry9090 posted over a year ago
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omg...well, maybe u have 2 speak with ur doctor
victoria94 posted over a year ago
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I have he said I was ripped bad and I'm messed up bad on my insides
Cherry9090 posted over a year ago
lumforever said:
well no. a virgin means never having sex. raped well means u have but u didnt want it. so sadly it means thier not a virgin
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snapeislove said:
Physically, no.

But for me, virginity is something else. Unless you give yourself to someone you love, then you're still a virgin. :)
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LeatherRain said:
No...
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skipperfan5431 said:
Wow. This is a very tough question....I would have to say know though. :(
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elstef said:
First, I want to say that if you are asking this because you were raped, then I am very very sorry, and I hope you got justice (I know this is kind of an old question)
Second, while she may not physically be a virgin anymore, I personally absolutely consider a virgin who was raped to still be a virgin. Virginity is alot more than a physical thing,and rape is an act of violence so I don't consider it true sex.
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yes i was and no i didnt not really :( but thank you for answering it
Cherry9090 posted over a year ago
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u were? oh im soo sorry. i hope something bad happened to that bastard!
lumforever posted over a year ago
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He's in jail for a long time along with my brother.. It was my dad...
Cherry9090 posted over a year ago
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Thats horrific that must have been the most traumatic experience ever i cant even imagine what you went through.I know what its like to get raped as its happened to me years ago but that cannot compare to what you went through.
dangerdays posted over a year ago
iloveoral said:
Rape is NOT sex. Rape is Violence.
anyone who says a rape victim looses her virginity is a sociopath on my opinion.
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