Posted by XGothisStarX first. Very intresting article
This is all said by a wonderful Bamon shipper on the cw boards her username is ChloeMars and I felt like you guys needed to hear this:
Just out of curiosity, out of the people who "hate bonnie's power trip," who is NOT a Delena or at least a Damon fan? I find that most people who hate Bonnie hate her because she is the alpha female of the show, whether they like it or not. She's the chick who makes the decisions, and refuses to be told what to do by Damon or Stefan, who she doesn't trust. She steals Damon and Elena's thunder, and is constantly antagonizing Damon, and anyone who antagonizes Damon for some reason has to go.
Is bonnie on a power trip? Yes she is. And you know what? She has every right to be. Just because she's not afraid to stand up to people stronger than her, doesn't make her bad. She has an ability, and she's using it to defend the people she loves.