Watching "The Murder of One", all I could feel is this strong and intense connection between Bonnie and Damon that some viewers didn't notice. I want to share with you what I believe really happened between Bonnie and Damon beneath the surface and what, in my opinion, makes their connection so powerful.
When Bonnie called Elena to alert Stefan that Klaus had Damon, SHE SAVED DAMON'S LIFE. When Bonnie saved Damon just after he turned her mother into a vampire (even if he didn’t want to), this is nothing else and nothing less than a PURE ACT OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND FORGIVENESS. Bonnie saved Damon OUT OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. What happened for Bonnie to feel UNCONDITIONAL LOVE for Damon especially after turning Abby?
All happened in the Bamon scene.The scene between Damon and Bonnie marks the first time they see each other after Damon turned Abby. The second Bonnie sees Damon hanged and tortured, we can see on her face how concerned and distressed she is. What she sees is Damon's VULNERABILITY, a side of Damon that she has never seen before. Right here, she sees Damon, totally NAKED, with NO PRETENSE, NO MASK, NO ARMOR or NO WALL. Damon cannot hide, run or pretend. Damon is like an OPEN BOOK. Bonnie sees him in his TRUE LIGHT ... she sees Damon's TRUE SELF ... she SEES DAMON'S SOUL ... She sees PURE LOVE. SEEING DAMON'S SOUL INSTANTLY AWAKENS BONNIE'S SOUL.. Something INTENSE inside Bonnie, a TRUTH that was buried in her SUBCONSCIOUS comes right up to her CONSCIENCE … Inside her soul, Bonnie finds feelings of UNCONDITIONAL LOVE and FORGIVENESS for DAMON. Right there,Bonnie is experiencing SPIRITUAL AWAKENING. “It is when one discovers or wakes up to who one really is. Spiritual awakening happens when a human becomes fully conscious of his or her true nature. The awakening unleashes feelings in an individual which were never felt before." The unconditional love she discovers in her soul causes her to let go of anger and resentment and to find forgiveness. When Damon HEARS BONNIE'S VOICE “Oh my God”, he whispers “Bonnie” in a very DISTRESSED VOICE and moans before looking up and meeting Bonnie’s eyes. The way Damon whispers "Bonnie", his moan and his looks at her express all the PAIN he is feeling for HURTING BONNIE, his GUILT AND SHAME for turning Abby, his YEARNING FOR BONNIE'S FORGIVENESS and his DEEPLY BURIED FEELINGS FOR HER. The sound of DAMON'S VOICE makes BONNIE’S HEART JUMP and she is immediately DRAWN INTO HELPING HIM. It's only when Klaus, acting as Bonnie's inner voice, reminds her that Damon turned her mom that she decides to leave without helping him. Bonnie leaving is her way of telling Damon "you still owe me an apology." But in her heart, she has already forgiven him. She wants Damon to know that she is still hurt and he gets it loud and clear. The second Bonnie leaves, Damon hangs his head in shame.
Once outside, Bonnie calls Elena to alert Stefan that Klaus has Damon. Even after Bonnie is reminded that Damon turned her mom, she still wants to save him. This is because Bonnie found UNCONDITIONAL LOVE and FORGIVENESS inside of her for Damon. Unconditional love and forgiveness are interrelated and in order to forgive, you must draw from the unconditional love you find in your soul. Even if Bonnie leaves without physically saving Damon, Bonnie has actually forgiven Damon inside of her. She would have been unable to save him if she hadn’t. This is the FIRST AND ONLY TIME that Damon TRULY, COMPLETELY AND EXCLUSIVELY RECEIVES UNCONDITIONAL LOVE from a woman. That man who feels so lonely and unloved just got a woman who SHOWS HIM that he is lovable despite what he did. By alerting Stefan to save Damon, Bonnie's telling Damon "You are worth saving and loving, Damon". This is exactly what Damon needs to believe in. Bonnie, OVERWHELMED by the DISCOVERY OF HER TRUE FEELINGS breaks down and cries, which is one of spiritual awakening's symptoms.
Later, when Damon sees Stefan arriving, he is very SURPRISED to see him. BONNIE is the ONLY PERSON WHO KNEW WHERE DAMON WAS and THE ONLY ONE WHO COULD HAVE ALERTED STEFAN. Damon knows BONNIE SAVED HIM.
Now I want to draw your attention on some signs in this episode that might suggest that BONNIE AND DAMON ARE TWIN SOULS. 1. PARALLELS are always associated with TWIN SOULS. "Twin Flames have a very strong bond and often have telepathy with each other. Their lives even before meeting each other have many parallels." There is a PARALLEL BETWEEN DAMON AND BONNIE throughout the episode. While Damon is tortured physically by Rebekah, Bonnie is tortured emotionally by Klaus. When Rebekah tells Klaus to go and manage his witch, we can discern concern in Damon's eyes, probably feeling it's Bonnie. Later, Bonnie hears someone scream and she feels concerned, not knowing it's Damon. At the end, while Bonnie is all alone crying in front of Klaus' mansion, Damon is all alone, still hanged and in pain, inside Klaus' mansion. 2. When TWIN SOULS meet/connect/recognize each other, they experience SPIRITUAL AWAKENING. This is what's happening to Bonnie. 3. Twin Souls embody the highest form of UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. This is what Bonnie finds in her soul.
I believe that turning Abby will bring them closer together as they are forced to face and acknowledge their feelings for each other. Once Damon apologizes to Bonnie and she forgives him openly, I believe they will get closer as they will experience greater unconditional love with each other.
When Bonnie called Elena to alert Stefan that Klaus had Damon, SHE SAVED DAMON'S LIFE. When Bonnie saved Damon just after he turned her mother into a vampire (even if he didn’t want to), this is nothing else and nothing less than a PURE ACT OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND FORGIVENESS. Bonnie saved Damon OUT OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. What happened for Bonnie to feel UNCONDITIONAL LOVE for Damon especially after turning Abby?
All happened in the Bamon scene.The scene between Damon and Bonnie marks the first time they see each other after Damon turned Abby. The second Bonnie sees Damon hanged and tortured, we can see on her face how concerned and distressed she is. What she sees is Damon's VULNERABILITY, a side of Damon that she has never seen before. Right here, she sees Damon, totally NAKED, with NO PRETENSE, NO MASK, NO ARMOR or NO WALL. Damon cannot hide, run or pretend. Damon is like an OPEN BOOK. Bonnie sees him in his TRUE LIGHT ... she sees Damon's TRUE SELF ... she SEES DAMON'S SOUL ... She sees PURE LOVE. SEEING DAMON'S SOUL INSTANTLY AWAKENS BONNIE'S SOUL.. Something INTENSE inside Bonnie, a TRUTH that was buried in her SUBCONSCIOUS comes right up to her CONSCIENCE … Inside her soul, Bonnie finds feelings of UNCONDITIONAL LOVE and FORGIVENESS for DAMON. Right there,Bonnie is experiencing SPIRITUAL AWAKENING. “It is when one discovers or wakes up to who one really is. Spiritual awakening happens when a human becomes fully conscious of his or her true nature. The awakening unleashes feelings in an individual which were never felt before." The unconditional love she discovers in her soul causes her to let go of anger and resentment and to find forgiveness. When Damon HEARS BONNIE'S VOICE “Oh my God”, he whispers “Bonnie” in a very DISTRESSED VOICE and moans before looking up and meeting Bonnie’s eyes. The way Damon whispers "Bonnie", his moan and his looks at her express all the PAIN he is feeling for HURTING BONNIE, his GUILT AND SHAME for turning Abby, his YEARNING FOR BONNIE'S FORGIVENESS and his DEEPLY BURIED FEELINGS FOR HER. The sound of DAMON'S VOICE makes BONNIE’S HEART JUMP and she is immediately DRAWN INTO HELPING HIM. It's only when Klaus, acting as Bonnie's inner voice, reminds her that Damon turned her mom that she decides to leave without helping him. Bonnie leaving is her way of telling Damon "you still owe me an apology." But in her heart, she has already forgiven him. She wants Damon to know that she is still hurt and he gets it loud and clear. The second Bonnie leaves, Damon hangs his head in shame.
Once outside, Bonnie calls Elena to alert Stefan that Klaus has Damon. Even after Bonnie is reminded that Damon turned her mom, she still wants to save him. This is because Bonnie found UNCONDITIONAL LOVE and FORGIVENESS inside of her for Damon. Unconditional love and forgiveness are interrelated and in order to forgive, you must draw from the unconditional love you find in your soul. Even if Bonnie leaves without physically saving Damon, Bonnie has actually forgiven Damon inside of her. She would have been unable to save him if she hadn’t. This is the FIRST AND ONLY TIME that Damon TRULY, COMPLETELY AND EXCLUSIVELY RECEIVES UNCONDITIONAL LOVE from a woman. That man who feels so lonely and unloved just got a woman who SHOWS HIM that he is lovable despite what he did. By alerting Stefan to save Damon, Bonnie's telling Damon "You are worth saving and loving, Damon". This is exactly what Damon needs to believe in. Bonnie, OVERWHELMED by the DISCOVERY OF HER TRUE FEELINGS breaks down and cries, which is one of spiritual awakening's symptoms.
Later, when Damon sees Stefan arriving, he is very SURPRISED to see him. BONNIE is the ONLY PERSON WHO KNEW WHERE DAMON WAS and THE ONLY ONE WHO COULD HAVE ALERTED STEFAN. Damon knows BONNIE SAVED HIM.
Now I want to draw your attention on some signs in this episode that might suggest that BONNIE AND DAMON ARE TWIN SOULS. 1. PARALLELS are always associated with TWIN SOULS. "Twin Flames have a very strong bond and often have telepathy with each other. Their lives even before meeting each other have many parallels." There is a PARALLEL BETWEEN DAMON AND BONNIE throughout the episode. While Damon is tortured physically by Rebekah, Bonnie is tortured emotionally by Klaus. When Rebekah tells Klaus to go and manage his witch, we can discern concern in Damon's eyes, probably feeling it's Bonnie. Later, Bonnie hears someone scream and she feels concerned, not knowing it's Damon. At the end, while Bonnie is all alone crying in front of Klaus' mansion, Damon is all alone, still hanged and in pain, inside Klaus' mansion. 2. When TWIN SOULS meet/connect/recognize each other, they experience SPIRITUAL AWAKENING. This is what's happening to Bonnie. 3. Twin Souls embody the highest form of UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. This is what Bonnie finds in her soul.
I believe that turning Abby will bring them closer together as they are forced to face and acknowledge their feelings for each other. Once Damon apologizes to Bonnie and she forgives him openly, I believe they will get closer as they will experience greater unconditional love with each other.
Hi there!
Look what I've found!
What do you think? ;)
Julie: There's a reason that we've sat the sitting order, that's it's the way it is tonight.
Ian: Damon's up with Julie.
Julie: The evolution of the love gang.
(Ian pointing his finger in Kat's direction, but not looking at her. Kat pointing in Ian's direction)
Kat: Ah ah ok.
Ian: Oh wait a minute.
(Ian and Kat looking at each other)
Ian: Wow!
(Everyone looking at Kat. Ian clapping his hands)
Ian: I like where this is going.
Julie: ... The season maybe should has a choice to make.
Paul: I'd really like to know what that means.
Soo? what the hell was that?
Watch it yourself!
link
Minute : 12.22 :)
Look what I've found!
What do you think? ;)
Julie: There's a reason that we've sat the sitting order, that's it's the way it is tonight.
Ian: Damon's up with Julie.
Julie: The evolution of the love gang.
(Ian pointing his finger in Kat's direction, but not looking at her. Kat pointing in Ian's direction)
Kat: Ah ah ok.
Ian: Oh wait a minute.
(Ian and Kat looking at each other)
Ian: Wow!
(Everyone looking at Kat. Ian clapping his hands)
Ian: I like where this is going.
Julie: ... The season maybe should has a choice to make.
Paul: I'd really like to know what that means.
Soo? what the hell was that?
Watch it yourself!
link
Minute : 12.22 :)
Ok so this is my first article here.And I just wanted to show how sweet kind cool gorgeous amazing people you are!
A few days ago I got a Dedicated Medal in this spot.Yes,a little one,it's not even important.But,being my first one,I wanted to share the happiness with you,so I posted on the wall.I was shocked because so many people answered.I thought that no one care,but you guys showed me once again how united and amazing you are!
Seriuosly,I've seen other ships and,none can compare with this.I mean,about the fans.Some of the shippers in any show are so jelous or they are always trolling and complaining and fighting on other shippers' spot.I mean,that's really rude,but I haven't meet any rude person here,and I really come every single day on this spot,knowing that my day will be better thanks to you and our awesome couple!Thank you all!
A few days ago I got a Dedicated Medal in this spot.Yes,a little one,it's not even important.But,being my first one,I wanted to share the happiness with you,so I posted on the wall.I was shocked because so many people answered.I thought that no one care,but you guys showed me once again how united and amazing you are!
Seriuosly,I've seen other ships and,none can compare with this.I mean,about the fans.Some of the shippers in any show are so jelous or they are always trolling and complaining and fighting on other shippers' spot.I mean,that's really rude,but I haven't meet any rude person here,and I really come every single day on this spot,knowing that my day will be better thanks to you and our awesome couple!Thank you all!
I was on Tumblr and found this short interview part from Kat. Loved it :
Katerina Graham @ The Teen Choice Awards 2010
Reporter: What’s like a funny behind the scene moment that fans never saw?
KG: One thing about Ian Somerhalder is that don’t hiccup around him ‘cause he’ll try to scare the bejesus out of you to get rid of your hiccups. i got the hiccups a couple of times and he’s just jumped out of places and scared me and I still have my hiccups but he still scared me. So, we’re always like jumping out and like scaring each other or stuff like that and um, I love stuff like that.
Seriously? Why don't we see something like that?
Ian and Kat are having so much fun together!
Don't get yout hope up Bamonators! Bamon is going to happen!
xoxo Ella
Kat Graham stated that Matt & Bonnie were a Tweet Trend AFTER the 3x05 episode. I've never heard of Bamon being a tweet trend at any time unless I missed it somewhere as I'm more invloved now than I've ever been, but I was trying to figure out how Monnie, who isn't even a main AU ship made a tweet trend when we Bamon's have such a strong fan base & have been supporting Bamon for the longest??? This isn't any hate towards Monnie or Monnie shippers because I actually like them and enjoyed their scenes in 3x05 too, though I prefer them as friends, but this is about making Bamon a tweet trend as well. So come 3x07, I pose a challenge to all Bamons to make Bamon a tweet trend that day starting directly after 3x07 episode throughout October 28th till midnight and beyond if possible, but I'll settle for crazy Bamon twitting all night and next day after 3x07, which will be our first Bamon scene since last season.
Can we do this Bamons??????????????????
Can we do this Bamons??????????????????
Hey Guys! I was looking for new Bamon stuff on facebook and found that!
Confirmed Bamon scene in Episode 7 :D
NIGHT OF ILLUMINATION — As Mystic Falls prepares to celebrate the traditional Illumination Night, the town is invaded by spirits of the dead. After a particularly violent encounter with an angry spirit, Damon asks Bonnie to find the reason behind the ghosts’ surprising power. Elena convinces Jeremy to use his connection to the other side to help her find a new way to reach Stefan, leading Jeremy to a terrible choice. Finally, Alaric discovers a long-hidden clue to the past. (airs October 27)
OMG, I can't wait! :D
Confirmed Bamon scene in Episode 7 :D
NIGHT OF ILLUMINATION — As Mystic Falls prepares to celebrate the traditional Illumination Night, the town is invaded by spirits of the dead. After a particularly violent encounter with an angry spirit, Damon asks Bonnie to find the reason behind the ghosts’ surprising power. Elena convinces Jeremy to use his connection to the other side to help her find a new way to reach Stefan, leading Jeremy to a terrible choice. Finally, Alaric discovers a long-hidden clue to the past. (airs October 27)
OMG, I can't wait! :D