Not all but a lot unfortunately for us............... way too much .........

I would look at myself in the mirror before talking if I was you. Such a pity.

^ ??? who are you talking about ? oO

what happen hinata?

I cannot believe the lengths that the Delena fans are going to when it comes to voting in the online polls. Delena fans are trying to cheat by voting for other couples so that Stelena don't have second place position in the PortraitMagazine Couples poll. I mean seriously? Their whole life revolves around freaking polls. They really are a sad and pathetic group of people.

If you would like to help Stelena, vote for them here: link Your help would be much appreciated, Bamonators.

WARNING: The following is an offensive subject matter so if you are sensitive, do not read any further below. This may be fiction, but keep in mind that this subject is also a reality.

SIGNS OF AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP:


You may be in an abusive relationship if he or she:

• Is jealous or possessive toward you. (Jealousy is the primary symptom of abusive relationships; it is also a core component of Sexual Addictions and Love Addiction.)
• Tries to control you by being very bossy or demanding.
• Your partner physically manhandles you and invades your personal space.
• Tries to isolate you by demanding you cut off social contacts and friendships.
• Is violent and / or loses his or her temper quickly.
• Pressures you sexually, demands sexual activities you are not comfortable with.
• Claims you are responsible for his or her emotional state. (This is a core diagnostic criteria for Codependency.)
• Blames you when he or she mistreats you.
• Has a history of bad relationships.
• Your family and friends have warned you about the person or told you that they are concerned for your safety or emotional well being.
• You frequently worry about how he or she will react to things you say or do.
• Makes "jokes" that shame, humiliate, demean or embarrass you, whether privately or around family and friends.
• Your partner grew up witnessing an abusive parental relationship, and/or was abused as a child.
• Your partner "rages" when they feel hurt, shame, fear or loss of control.
• Both parties in abusive relationships may develop or progress in drug or alcohol dependence in a (dysfunctional) attempt to cope with the pain.
• You leave and then return to your partner repeatedly, against the advice of your friends, family and loved ones.
• You have trouble ending the relationship, even though you know inside it's the right thing to do.
• Your partner uses mind games and mental manipulation in order to get what he/she wants from you.
• Your partner forces you to say things that you don't want to say.
• Your partner emotional manipulates you into reciprocation of feelings, even if one doesn't feel the same way.
• Ongoing emotional, mental and physical abuse
• Your partner often snaps unexpectedly towards you and you happen to enable the bad behaviour


Does the person....

• act jealous and possessive?

• act controlling, demanding and domineering?

• discourage or destroy your relationships with friends and family?

• prevent or discourage you from working, interacting with friends or attending school?

• constantly criticize, tease or belittle you?

• control all finances and force you to account for what you spend? (Reasonable cooperative budgeting excepted.)

• humiliate you in front of others? (Including "jokes" at your expense.)

• destroy or take your personal property or sentimental items?

• have numerous affairs with numerous men/women?

• threaten to hurt or harm you, your friends, your family, your children or your pets? Threaten to use a weapon?

• Use intimidation tactics in order to scare you?

• push, shove, hit, slap, punch, kick, or bite you?

• forces himself onto you against your will (i.e. kissing, touching, fondling)

• force you to have sex against your will, or demand sexual acts you are uncomfortable with?


Abusive relationships are progressive. They do not begin with physical or sexual violence. Instead, tactics are used to gain control over the victim before hitting, kicking, biting, pushing or unwanted sexual activity is introduced. The following are signs of an abusive relationship.

• Emotional Abuse (name calling, criticizing, “joking” in a demeaning or embarrassing way)
• Intimidation (uses threats, looks or gestures to scare partner; breaking objects)
• Isolation (uses jealousy to control what partner does, who he/she sees, where he/she goes)
• Denies Responsibility (minimizes, denies or blames partner for emotions and behaviour
• Uses Family, Friends & Children (threatens to harm the friends, family or children or take them away from the partner)
• Financial Control (keeps partner from working or takes paychecks; demands account of all spending)


Do you feel that you can't discuss with your partner what is bothering you without fear or how they might react (mostly violently or out of anger)?

Does your partner frequently criticize you, belittle you, humiliate you, or undermine your self-esteem and treat you like you are incompetent?

Does your partner ridicule you for expressing yourself or your personal opinion?

Does your partner isolate you from loved ones, friends, family or groups?

Does your partner limit your access to work, money or material resources?

Has your partner ever stolen something valuable or meaningful from you? Or run up debts for you to handle?

Does your relationship swing back and forth in extreme measures between a lot of emotional distance and being very close?

Have you ever felt guilty, pity or obligated to have sex or admit emotional feelings towards the person, just to avoid a possible argument, outburst or confrontation about it?

Do you sometimes feel "trapped" in the relationship, partnership or friendship?

Has your partner ever thrown away your belongings against your will, destroyed objects or threatened your friends, family, children or pets?

Do you constantly feel guilt, shame or pity towards or when you are in the presence of your partner?

Are you constantly afraid and fearful of your partner and of possibly of what they might do to you or your loved ones?


PHASES OF EMOTIONAL ABUSE:


Phase 1 - TENSION BUILDING:
Tension increases, breakdown of communication, victim feels need to placate and comfort the abuser out of guilt, pity or shame.

Phase 2 - INCIDENT:
Verbal, physical and emotional abuse. Anger, blaming, arguing, threats, constant use of scare tactics, intimidation, displaying of control, dominance and possessiveness.

Phase 3 - RECONCILIATION:
Abuser constantly apologizes to the victim for the wrong doings or the abuse and acts desperate for forgiveness, constantly gives excuses for his behaviour, blames the victim when it's really his fault, sometimes denies that the abuse ever occurred, or tries to say it wasn't as bad as the victim claims or thinks.

Phase 4 - CALM:
The abuse is forgotten. The abuser still continues to apologize and beg for forgiveness. The victim feels guilted into forgiving the abuser. The victim easily forgets and forgives the abuser for his actions out of guilt or pity. Incident is "forgotten", no abuse is taking place.

PHASES 1-4 REPEATED.


COMMON CHARACTERISTICS OF ABUSERS:

* He was verbally, physically, or emotionally abused as a child, or possibly abandoned or mistreated.

* He has an extremely violent and explosive temper, triggered by very minor frustrations and arguments.

* Abusers are extremely possessive, controlling, domineering and jealous. They experience an intense and passionate desire to control their mates in every way imaginable.

* His sense of masculinity depends on the woman's dependency upon him. He feels like a man only if his partner is totally and completely submissive and dependent on him.

* Abusers often have superficial relationships with other people and they display an extreme obsessive behaviour about or over their female partner.

* He has highly low self worth and low self-esteem, though he constantly tries to hide it through power, control and dominance.

* He has rigid expectations of marriage (or partnership) and will not compromise almost under any circumstances. He always expects her to behave according to his expectations of what a wife, female partner and/or girlfriend should be like; often the way his parents' marriage was, or its opposite. He demands that she change to accommodate his expectations and constantly expects to let him be in control at all costs.

* He has a great capacity for self-deception. He projects the blame for his relationship difficulties onto his partner. He would not be drunk if she didn't nag him so much. He wouldn't have an anger outburst if she didn't reject his advances. He wouldn't get angry if only she would do what she's supposed to do or do as he says. He constantly denies the need for support, comfort, help or counselling because to him, he's perfectly fine and there's nothing wrong with him. Or he agrees to get counseling and then always avoids it or constantly makes excuses to not follow through. He might not want her to get counseling because, he reasons, she wouldn't have any problems if she only turned to him.

* He may be described as having a dual personality (with the exclusion of addiction or abuse of drugs or alcohol) -- he is either charming when he wants to be or exceptionally cruel if he doesn't get his way. He is extremely selfish and controlling or generous depending on his mood.

* A major characteristic of abusers is their capacity to manipulate others into getting what he wants out of his partner. He can be cool, calm, charming and sometimes rather convincing, constantly trying to gain sympathy or pity of his partner, especially when he's not going through something significant or problematic: a con man.

* The mate is usually a symbol. The abuser doesn't relate to his partner as a person whatsoever in her own right, but as a symbol of a significant other. This is especially true when he's angry. He assumes that she is thinking, feeling, or acting like that significant other -- often his mother.

• Abusers often have bad relationships with women. They don't know how to respect women in general and they tend to be womanizers who have careless, random and numerous affairs with different women. Constantly uses and manipulates women in order to get what he wants from them.


DOES YOUR PARTNER?

1. ignore your feelings?
2. disrespect you or insult you and your feelings?
3. constantly ridicules or insults you then tell you its a joke, or that you have no sense of humor?
4. constantly judge or ridicule your lifestyle, beliefs, religion, race, heritage or class?
5. constantly withhold approval, appreciation, support or affection?
6. constantly gives you the silent treatment?
7. always walks away without ever answering you?
8. constantly criticizes or judges you, calls you horrible names, yells at you?
9. humiliate you privately or in public?
10. rolls his or her eyes when you talk?
11. gives you a hard time about socializing with your loved ones, friends or family?
12. makes you socialize (and keep up appearances) even when you don't feel well?
13. seems to make sure that what you really want is exactly what you won't get?
14. tells you that you are way too sensitive?
15. always puts you down or hurts you especially when you are down?
16. seems energized by fighting and confrontations, while arguing or fighting exhausts you in every way imaginable?
17. has constant unpredictable mood swings, alternating from good to bad for no apparent or significant reason?
18. present a wonderful face to the world and is well liked by outsiders?
19. "twists" your words, somehow turning what you said against you?
20. always tries to control decisions, money, even the way you style your hair or wear your clothes?
21. constantly complains about how badly you treat him or her?
22. always threatens to leave, or threaten to throw you out if you don't do as they say?
23. say things that might make you feel good, but constantly do things that makes you feel bad?
24. ever left you stranded?
25. ever threatened to hurt you, your friends, or your family?
26. has actually and directly harmed or hurt you, your friends, your family (all of the above in extreme cases)
27. ever handled, hit, shoved, slapped, or pushed you, even "accidentally"?
28. always seems to do something awful or stir up trouble just when you seem to be getting closer to each other or fixing your relationship?
29. constantly abuses something you love: either a family member, friend, a pet, a child, an object?
30. compliments you enough to keep you happy, yet constantly judges or criticizes you enough to keep you insecure?
31. promises to never do something hurtful towards you or your loved ones again yet continues to make the same mistake over and over again without ever learning and fixing it?
32. harasses you about imagined affairs or a possible significant other?
33. manipulates you into reciprocating the same emotions as the other to make them feel better?
34. destroys furniture, punches holes in walls, breaks glasses, breaks appliances, destroys or trashes rooms out of anger?
35. drives like a road-rage junkie?
36. constantly acts immature, childish and extremely selfish, yet accuses you of those behaviours as well as enabling them in the person?
37. questions your every move and motive, somehow questioning your competence and your intelligence?
38. interrupts you; hears but not really listens?
39. makes you feel like you can't win? damned if you do, damned if you don't?
40. abuses drugs and/or alcohol? are things worse then?
41. incites you to anger and rage, which is "proof" that you are to blame for what's going wrong?
42. always tries to convince you he or she is "right," while you are always "wrong?"
43. frequently and constantly says things that are later denied or accuses you of misunderstanding?
44. treats you like an object, prop or sex object, or as though sex or physical touching of any kind (including kissing, fondling, etc) should be provided on demand regardless of how you feel?

HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS VS. ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS

Healthy Relationships:

Non-Threatening Behavior

• Talking and acting so that your partner feels safe and comfortable doing and saying things.

Respect

• Listening to your partner non-judgmentally.
• Being emotionally affirming and understanding.
• Valuing opinions.
• Giving freedom and giving a choice.

Trust and Support

• Supporting your partner’s goals in life.
• Respecting your partner’s right to his or her own feelings, friends, activities and opinions.

Honesty and Accountability

• Accepting responsibility for self and mistakes.
• Acknowledging past use of possible violence and/or emotionally abusive behavior, changing the behaviour and learning from the mistakes.
• Acknowledging infidelity, changing the behaviour.
• Admitting being wrong when it is appropriate.
• Communicating openly and truthfully, but also respectfully, acknowledging past abuse, seeking help for abusive relationship patterns.

Responsible Parenting

• Sharing parental responsibilities.
• Being a positive, non-violent role model for children.

Shared Responsibility

• Mutually agreeing on a fair distribution of work.
• Making family decisions together.

Abusive Relationships:

Using Intimidation

• Making your partner afraid by using words, looks, actions, gestures.
• Constantly smashing or destroying things in front of partner.
• Destroying or confiscating your partner's property.
• Silent or overt raging.
• Displaying weapons or threatening their use.
• Making physical threats towards person or their loved ones

Using Emotional Abuse

• Constantly belittling or putting your partner down and making them feel less than worthy
• Making your partner feel bad about himself or herself.
• Calling your partner awful, offensive, inappropriate and teasing names.
• Using mental manipulation in order to get what they want or playing mind games on the person
• Emotionally abusing and manipulating the person in order to get what they want
• Constantly interrogating your partner mentally, emotionally and/or physically.
• Always harassing and/or intimidating your partner.
• Obsessively "checking up on" your partner's activities or whereabouts (not to be confused with being concerned, worried or being protective)
• Constantly humiliating your partner, whether through direct personal attacks, teasing or "jokes".
• Making your partner feel guilty.
• Feeling constant shame, guilt or pity around partner or person.
• Shaming your partner and constantly judging them, making them feel emotionally little or unworthy.

Using Isolation

• Constantly controlling what your partner does, what they say, who he or she sees and talks to, what he or she reads, where he or she goes, etc.
• Limiting your partner’s outside involvement or getting involved in situations, believing you to be incompetent or incapable (this is not out of concern or worry but out of dominance and control)
• Demanding your partner or the person remain home when you are not with them or in their presence
• Cutting your partner off from prior friends, activities, and social interaction with others.
• Constantly using jealousy to justify your actions. (Jealousy is the primary symptom of abusive relationships; it is also a core component of Love Addiction.)

Minimizing, Denying and Blame Shifting

• Making light of the abuse and not taking your partner’s concerns about it seriously.
• Saying the abuse did not happen whatsoever, or wasn't even that horrible or that bad, whether it was towards you or your loved one(s).
• Shifting responsibility for your abusive behavior to your partner or the other person. (i.e: I did it because you ______.)
• Saying your partner caused it or enabled their bad or abusive behaviour towards you or your loved ones.

Using Children

• Making your partner feel guilty about the children.
• Using the children to relay messages.
• Using visitation to harass your partner.
• Threatening to take the children away.

Using Male Privilege

• Treating your partner like a servant or a slave.
• Making all the big decisions for them without any regard for what they think or have to say.
• Acting like the "master of the castle."
• Being the one to define men’s and women’s or the relationship's roles.

Using Economic Abuse

• Preventing your partner from getting or keeping a job.
• Making your partner ask for money.
• Giving your partner an allowance.
• Taking your partner’s money.
• Not letting your partner know about or have access to family income.


The Abuser:

The emotional abuser in a relationship assumes the position of a bully. This role, stems from an insecurity, desperate need to get attention and an inferiority complex. The abuser does not understand that, respect has to be commanded and not demanded. In order to get respect, the abuser troubles the other person to an extent where all the respect is lost. At this juncture, the abuser begins to harass the other person for not respecting. Ironic, but true! This is how the mind of the abuser in an emotionally abused relationship, works. The bottom line is, emotional abuse breeds from fear.

The Victim:

The victim in the relationship, out of love, need or fear puts up with whatever emotional abuse comes his/her way. The victim constantly believes that someday things will be normal in the relationship and things will be OK, but fails to take up the responsibility to ameliorate the things in the relationship. The victim generally ends up believing that he/she is doing a good job by hiding the feelings in front of kids, family and friends. Conversely, by doing so, the victim is just adding fuel to the fire. Emotional abuse is very difficult to take notice of. Thus it's very important to know what are the signs of emotional abuse in relationships.

Signs of Emotional Abuse in Relationships

Here are some signs of verbal and emotional abuse in relationships that go unnoticed until it has made indelible damages.

• Constantly ignoring your feelings
• Constantly or always disrespecting you
• Ridiculing and insulting you in public or in private
• Withholding appreciation, support or affection
• Criticize and label you with horrible names and abuses
• Be uncooperative about socializing with your family and friends
• Make sure that you don't get what you want
• Go on hurting you when you are especially low
• Threatens you over and over again and uses constant intimidation tactics
• Leave you stranded somewhere
• Make unreasonable demands and emotionally blackmail and manipulates you
• Use your words against you
• Threatens to harm or hurt your family and loved ones
• Constantly manipulates you into getting what they want
• Questions your every move
• Puts down several unrealistic restrictions on you



Any of this sound familiar? -Coughs- Delena -Coughs- DELENA ARE TOXIC TOGETHER AND ELENA BETTER RUN THE OTHER WAY FAST, BECAUSE SHE IS TRENDING IN DANGEROUS TERRITORY.

I think one person who may be deemed full compliance with the above conditions. Pascual Ordoñez, an antagonist of a Colombian series, is a reckless man, ruthless and powerful.

act jealous and possessive?
Yes his jealousy and possessiveness go way beyond gestures. He tortured his first wife, heroine of the series Alicia's former boyfriend and decapitate his arm then kill him. After he found out his second wife (who is also an vicious person just like him)engaging in a secret affair with one of his right hand man Gonzalo. He killed her and buried Gonzalo alive (who luckily is saved by a farmer). Also, after he learned that Alicia (who faked her death to escape him) is alive and has a loving and happy relationship with the hero Simon, he used any humanly possible way to separate them (i.g. spread malicious and false rumors about Alicia).

act controlling, demanding and domineering?
Absolutely. He constantly tried to control Alicia and his colleagues and allies' lives. A little dissatisfaction would turn into intimidation, physical abuse or even murder. Anyone who dares to oppose him, will meet his fatal fate.

discourage or destroy your relationships with friends and family?
Well he ordered his minion have Alicia's mother kidnapped and murdered.


prevent or discourage you from working, interacting with friends or attending school?
Yep he is extremely conservative who think of women as trophies instead of human beings. He despise feminism. He locked Alicia up to prevent her from participation in feminist movement and interaction with progressives.

constantly criticize, tease or belittle you?
Not in public because he doesn't want to damage his "charismatic and friendly" public image. He's a very manipulative and clever politician.

humiliate you in front of others? (Including "jokes" at your expense.)
often in private. But he strapped one of his partners-in-crime in front of others once.

destroy or take your personal property or sentimental items?
Yep this guy obsessed with power and wealth. He annexed private property into his estate.


have numerous affairs with numerous men/women?
During the time of male dominance (50s Colombia), it is normal for men to engage numerous adulteries with females. Pascual is no exception. In fact, he thought male having affairs elevate men's pride.

threaten to hurt or harm you, your friends, your family, your children or your pets? Threaten to use a weapon?
He did numerous time to Alicia, her mother, his minions, his allies and strangers in private. For him, psychological torture and bodily harm are common occurrences in punishing those who dare to fail or challenge him.

Use intimidation tactics in order to scare you?
Well he did

push, shove, hit, slap, punch, kick, or bite you?
Physical torture is one of his favorite tactics. Sometimes he let his minions to do the dirty work. Sometimes he did it himself. Whip is his first favorite tool for personal torture and knife is the second favorite. He lashed at Alicia and some others.

forces himself onto you against your will (i.e. kissing, touching, fondling)
Yes far beyond that. After Pascual kidnapped Alicia in the final episode of the series. He learned she's pregnant with Simon's child. Then Pascual calls for a doctor and ask him to perform an abortion on Alicia despite Alicia's begging to spare her unborn child's life. Also, Pascual told the doctor to either obey his order or to be killed.

force you to have sex against your will, or demand sexual acts you are uncomfortable with?
Yes he forced Alicia to "consummate" their involuntary marriage. He demanded Alicia to strip for him once.

Based on Gonzalo's confession and evidences to the court, Pascual is found guilty for death of 1400 individuals.

Oh Boy. I am so glad that there is a site where a ranting spot does exist. Unfortunately wherever you go there is always the demand to behave in order to keep the supposed TVD Family united. Which family, I ask? Damon-Bonnie fans get constantly harassed by other fans.
We're mocked and insulted without a reason and this bothers me so much. Haven't we the right to ship and support whatever we want to? Bonnie and Damon are fictional characters and therefore allowed to be shipped with anyone. They're not owned by anyone. When I see Delena fans complaining about Kat-Ian shippers I can understand because I do admit that shipping real life couples hardcore is not sane. They're always people and besides I find Ian-Nina very cute and Kat with her boyfriend as well.

But I don't get the hate that Bamon gets. There are so many AU ships in the TVD universe (see Stefan-Caroline, Klaus-Bonnie, Matt-Bonnie, Elijah-Elena) and I could go on and on. So excuse me if all the whining I hear bothers me.
I don't like fighting. Especially about TV shows. But the maliciousness is exaggerated..we always get so little scenes between them. In 9 episodes we can count exactly two scenes, and one of them which was pretty much insignificant. So why can't they just leave us alone? :(

And the fact that Kevin Williamson left the show is no good as well. He is a good showrunner and especially not a fangirl unlike Julie Plec. He likes to focus on the plots and I do believe he appreciates all the ships on the show, from Stelena to Delena.
But now that Julie Plec has the show in handy, and I think we pretty much all know what a Damon-Delena fangirl that woman is, it's all been screwed up. Paul finally had his storyline and the credit he deserved, but did they really have to ruin Stefan's character by doing that? When I watch Stelena scenes, it's like it's not them anymore. Elena is shallow and delusional while Stefan's depth is completely gone. I can't see his love for Elena anymore..hers, yes. His? Not so much. And Stefan and Elena are supposed to be epic. We all know this god damn triangle was going to happen but honestly there could have been other ways. But no, being the Delena shipper that she is Julie Plec had to turn the show into the Damon-Elena diaries in order to please herself and their obsessive fans. I could write you an essay of why I dislike Julie so much and all her clear preferences, but I don't feel like bitching more than this.

I just wish the show could have headed more towards the books and their plots. Especially the Bonnie-Damon dynamic, not reducing Damon into being Elena's puppet.

Sorry for the long rant.

@Bamonista

*Claps*

Love how you think girl!!!!!!!!!!

@Bamonista

I agree but KW did not leave TVD, he's still very much involved, TVD comes first for him then TSC ...Andrew Miller is the one that is mostly involved in TSC.

I don't think Damon is abusive to Elena, if he was, I wouldn't bother shipping him with Bonnie. Once an abuser always an abuser!!! Honestly, I think Damon has been a good boy this season....

Yeah Sure He Was sssssssssoooooooooo ggggoooooooooddddddddd!!!!!!! = ssooooooo bbbooooorrrrriiiiinnnnggggggg!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@Kurenai24 I wouldn't know about that. Of course he's still an executive producer but it doesn't mean that he's active as before. He has TSC which has way less fans so they kind of need him there. And I heard he's getting a show on FOX too.
Besides why all we hear is from Julie Plec? And not him? I'm not pleased about the spoilers-interviews. All she seems to think about is Damon and Elena and them getting closer. Not even once I heard from her about Stelena, or if their love would survive or something as that. Those are the questions that people should ask her and she should reply, too. Not only Delena. But the woman is clearly biased since we all know how much she loves Damon and most likely Delena.

And let me say that I hate how they treat Bonnie's character. As if she was some weapon or plot-device. I'm glad she's getting a mom, but considering how long guest stars on TVD long (see Caroline's father..) I doubt they will explore it that much. It seems to me that they don't like to write for her as a person, but just as the "witch" of the group. And I'm sad because she has so much potential. Therefore, I can't see the writers being interested in Bamon, if they don't even consider Bonnie as they do with Elena, Katherine, or Caroline.

@Bamonista

*Claps*

AGAIN I LOVE HOW YOU THINK!!!!!!

Thank you so much @lilou265 :) I'm just in the mood of ranting my heart out for how the show is going. It is not even neutral anymore, how much biased the writers are towards Damon-Elena and their rabid obsessive fans is not even possible.
When I talked to a Delena fan about this she told me the worst things. She actually said that Julie Plec doesn't give a shit about Damon-Delena and only loves Stefan-Stelena. And I was like you serious? They should stop whining and complaining for the tiniest thing...I wish they could be in our shoes for once. How does it feel to have two scenes of one minute in 9 episodes. Be in our shoes and then maybe you can talk Delena fans.

OMG My twin tell me the same (she is a DE fan) that JP just do her job and that she didn't give a fuck about DE just stelena and i was like do we really see the same show or did mom just let you fall once!!!! and i have the say that in season 1 i didn't really give a fuck about heating DE it just DE fan that make me heat SSSSOOOO MUCH DE!!!!! i get it, it piss me off too when you done with one episode and you have that big disappointed about and you tell your self that next week maybe but all you gat is a bitch who make her self act innocent and game with some stupid,pathetic guy feelings!!!!!

WOW first off it's a darn bloody shame what the JP is doing she reminds me of Smyer and her love for Bedward I mean come on, Bacob couldve happen though likly as it seems I think they've couldve made it. I want hold my manky breathe for anything DB becuz it seems my mum and I were right TVD is offically doomed lets see what, how they survive then.

^^ don't be so pessimistic I'm pretty sure it happened hope they'll do it soon or else I will have to use my voodoo doll!!
Believe me no one want that LOL!!!!

Vodoo doll I'll just use the chinese doll Osaki-san got me it's suppose to be some chi vampiresoulsucking vamp in chinese lol.

^^ We'll do that together it will work better sure thing mate they better watch their backs!!

LOL yes two crazy DBmates are on the loose with killer dolls lol were gonna make sure JP will never get nowhere.

Yup that's it she won't know what's happening to her!!!
Ah ah ah!!! Evil laugh miss will us some BAmon soon or else?!
She doesn't want to know what is else LOL!!!

*laughs like Mr. Malfoy* um may b Im alil off meh mends mate?

LOL!!

Come on S Meyer killed Bella and Jacob romantic ship when she did the most awful thing ever I mean making him imprint on the Bedward kid (baby), ew so sick in so many level. I needed to say that. I love Jake and Bella together, but seriously doing that it's just the most disgusting thing ever. I've always hated Bedward after New Moon but the Renesmee/Jake relationship is an abomination. That's my thoughts.

I have to disagree with Bamonista89, I don't think Stefan's character was ruined, I mean even if I have a huge dislike for Elena (that's why I can't ship SE) I have to admit he actually really loves her, I would love to deny it and blind myself but I don't think being delusional would make any sense. Klaus had to compelled and made him turn his emotion off for him to actually stopping to love her, and since it wasn't from his own will and all his actions was because he loves Damon and Elena to me he's still very true to himself in a way.
Even ripper Stefan couldn't hurt Elena. (I'm still mad at her how dare she say to her that he owed her? How can she? She didn't understood that all he's done was to protect her gosh!)
Julie Plec, how I dislike her my gosh, since Kyle XY I have a huge dislike of her, she don't think with her head but with her fangirl heart and that's pretty sad. For Kevin Williamson, I don't know, all I hope is that he'll be pragmatic at least.

For the abuse comment, I have to agree that the DE relationship is indeed abusive in both ways. He's trying to make her love him, she's using him and now I'm pretty sure she'll take him as Stefan's substitute.

All I hope is that Damon regain some good sense and stop being someone's else carpet and being his own self without being an inconsiderate jerk and actually act like the Book Damon (even if I think I'm a little dreaming for that part!)

LOL@hinata @helomusic I agree Bacob couldve made it Bella as a vampire is way hottier her and Jake couldve steam it up in bed lol instead, of leaving the sheets crystal icy.

Hum hum naugthy young lady LOL!!

@DamonsLilBird: hahahaha you killed me crystal icy!

Hate administration!!!!!!!! Aaaahhhhhhhh!!!!!

@Helomusic lol thanks mate but isnt that what their basically saying Edward and co is ice? @hinata huh?

I've to go searching for some papers for my car. Really to people where I went were a real pain LOL!!
Yup I bought my bamobile yesterday ;-)

LOL Im still tryin to get the BamonROver lol

^^ I cross my fingers so you'll have you BamonRover soon. Mine is an BAMOpel

THIS IS BIG!!!!!!!!!!!! BUT WE ALREADY KNOW THAT!!!!!!!!

Looool who the heck wrote that?

LMAO. I can't stop laughing at that one. What kind of reason is that seriously it's so dumb that I can't stop laughing.

Yup bamon will be great. They're so dishonest it makes me laugh LOL!!! DEnial never help anybody!!!!

can someone help me find a book romance between a slave and her master PLEASE I JUST CAN'T FIND ONE!!!!!

something tells me that DE will kiss and Damon will indirectly make Stefan leave town yet again...mmmOHHHH OHHH and that the writers are absolutely baised mmmmmmmmmmm

how could the writers possibly have one of the hero written off? That's impossible. btw do you have link to this news?

The Vampire Diaries: Ariannagirlq1: How about some Vampire Diaries scoop! I’m dying for the show to return.
And some of you fans are gonna be dying when you see an epic kiss scene that is happening very soon! Confession: I squealed a little when I heard about it. Any guesses who who’s puckering up? In other news, a main character we know and love is leaving Mystic Falls, thanks (indirectly) to Damon.

It dosen't say if it is Stefan who will leave nor if is DE who will kiss. Wich is pretty obvious is DE and honestly, thank God. This thing needs to move already. I can't stand the se two anymore.
And It says someone will leave the town... I don't know why it would be Stefan. I think it will be Matt because he dosen't want to be involved in the supernatural and probably something affected him or Jeremy cuz I want him gone Lol

it's a MAIN character, neither Matt or Jeremy are main characters :P

Maybe if we could move from that desastrous emotional that is this blabla drama shit maybe we have something better.

I totally agree with Thedarkestar . Highly offense. Kat Graham is insanely sexy( I am girl and straight) . I honestly like the fact that Kat is AFRICAN-AMERICAN. Being African-American myself it gives us something to look up too. Most character that are my race live in bad neighbors and things happen to them I can't relate to. I live in Colorado. So to have Bonnie be this strong and proper speaking , is awesome. I love it . Besides the producer and casting directors knew what they were doing they look freaking amazing together. As for the fact that they are not together will that is just sad. :( . They posses more chemistry then the honors chemistry class next door to my class. ( Bad joke) I love them and I will continue writing and reading fanfiction till it isn't just fanfiction anymore.

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oh thanks God that this thing coming cause now this "epic" kiss is coming "epic like hell it going make me throw up" than it's mean what we all Bamon fan already know it's not going last at all and really the true is i wont that Stefan leave and than just stay in contact with Bonnie it will be AMAZING and that Katherine 2.0 will be soo damn jealous i wont someone els in the spotlight Caro,Bonnie just someone els because this B*TCH is the most boring character sins Joey in Dawson s'creek and damn i heat it her just like i heat Katherine 2.0!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think everybody was boring in Dawson. You're right she boring as hell. Bro fight for a girl it's no no no
!!! Fighting for that boring which is not the first one copy and maybe be the least accomplished one it's more than ridiculous!!! Truth is that she's nothing special . Why all the drama?!

i so agreed with you if it was me i will have let her die a long time ago!!! i don't understand why they let all those people die just for her the live the only problem was that they let her live!!!!!! and come on the Bro live like for 160 years and they stop for WHO a BAD Copie of Kat seriously!!!!!!

^^ or has she the "heroine" she could have done it herself LOL!!!
A ce niveau la c'est de la contrefaçon de la fausse fourrure. Tu crois qu'elle a été conçu au maroc il parait que c'est la ou ont fait les meilleures contrefaçon?! En Chine aussi mdr.