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How much do you hate Stefan and be honest

I hate him he's annoying and clingy. He won't let elena go anywhere without him that's why elena had to lie to him cause she knew what would happen, and as soon as he found out where she was he went there.

I also don't see what elena sees in him or Katherine it's like their blind
 Delenarocs posted over a year ago
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lizzie_jo5 said:
This is my question!! Seriously I don;t think words can describe the hatred I feel for him.
He's a lying, deceiving, manipulative , father-killing, animal-killing vampire with no sense of humor. He's ugly, cheesy, brooding, boring, self-pitying, judgy, clingy, controlling, selfish buzz killer. I detest him!!!!!!! If I could remove anyone from the show it would be him!!!!!!!!
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posted over a year ago 
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DANG
Delenarocs posted over a year ago
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Yes i agree completely. Saint stefan shld be removed from the show cause of his horrid ways
Aubreykarew posted over a year ago
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LIZZIE , YOU SUMMED UP EVERYTHING I FEEL ABOUT ST STEFFIE NO BALLS, EXCELLENT JOB GIRL!! TEAM DAMON OR LIFE!!!
loveofdelena posted over a year ago
iandamonfan said:
I don't hate him at all. Not even a little bit.
"He won't let elena go anywhere without him"
Well, he let her go to Duke with Alaric AND Damon, with everything that Damon implies because she had to know about her past and he understood. Did he like it? No, he said so himself. Elena offered to stay and help him with Caroline and go another time when he can go with her. But he said she should go either way because it was important to her.
"Elena had to lie to him cause she knew what would happen"
Elena chose to lie because yes, Stefan would've wanted to at least go with her but I think Elena wanted and needed to learn about Katherine's story all by herself. With Stefan there the conversation would've been different with Kat talking to Stefan instead of telling her story like she did.
"and as soon as he found out where she was he went there"
Of course! He's a worried boyfriend that just found out that her girlfriend is in a cave with his vampire ex, the big bad Kat, not to mention her doppelganger.
For the ones saying that he's not hot, he is.
And for those criticizing how he killed his father, made Damon drink blood for the first time, etc... don't be hypocrites! Damon wouldn't be here now, he would've died in 1864 just like he told Stefan that he wanted to. And then we wouldn't have DE... and TBH, if there was someone who deserved to die, that was Giuseppe Salvatore. Maybe not at the hands (or theeth) of one of his sons, but he deserved it.
And beside, I've read some comments about how he used to be bad (Damon-like to be specific) and criticizing that. That's just another sign of hypocrisy... when Damon does it it's "okay" because he's so hot and all but when Stefan does it it's wrong?

And I do see things in Stefan. In fact, if his endgame isn't Elena or Katherine I'd suggest he ends up with me... But I can't explain what I see in him to a person who calls Elena & Katherine blind for loving him.

I'm a big Delena fan, and when I say big I mean BBBBIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIGGGG, but that doesn't mean I'm gonna hate Stefan or see bad things where there aren't. He isn't perfect, no, but he still doesn't deserve all this hatred...

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No actually! it's stefan always getting aways with everthing that pisses me off! and yes, when damon does it, at least he has reasons; to do it, stefan doesn't.
loveofdelena posted over a year ago
tashea said:
I don't hate Stefan. I do hate how condescending and righteous Stefan tries to act towards Damon. At the end of the day both brothers have done some really fucked up things and not one of them can reserve the right to judge each other. I also really hate how every one constantly makes it a point to say that Stefan is the better choice for her like Damon, Klaus, Rose. I would love to know why Stefan is thought to be the better choice. He's a ripper which means he has completely torn body pieces to shreds. Innocent women, men, and children have all been ripped apart by Stefan throughout the years. He killed his father. He faked an attempt to kill Elena even after he wasn't under Klaus compulsion. He's done some really fucked up stuff. And please don't think i am not aware of ALL Damon's past indiscretions because I totally am. Damon has FUCKED up monumentally. But to me the distinction between the two brother is Stefan tries to lie about who he really is and what he likes whereas Damon is upfront about everything he does. No Stefan didn't kill Damon's best friend but he DID kill his fake/girlfriend. He's not any better than Damon. And at least Damon could give Stefan his props by saying "I dont deserve you Elena but Stefan does". Whereas when the shoe was on the other foot Stefan blatantly told Damon "you don't deserve her" and it took a lot of nerve for him to say that when he TRIED to kill her and DAMON was the one there for her all those months he was gone and not him. I like both brothers like I said I just don't appreciate Stefan playing the role of of the martyr and acting like he's the good brother. He's no better for her than Damon is. Because at the end of the day both brothers are flawed, fucked up, and have a dark side to them.
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BittenGirl said:
i agree with all of you.
he is just so anoying.can't stand him because he always judg damon for everything that happend.he's always like˝i am so good and you damon are the meanest person on this world˝...seriously he doesn't leave elena alone, she can't go anywere without him and he always have to know where she was-if some miricle happend and she goes somewhere alone..itc.and always when damon saves her he is like so jealous and then he star telling elena how mean and dangeorous can damon be and that she can't trust him and all that shit!and he is so boring person, i think that he don't have any personality and no sence of humor!
well ok, i see that i wrote a hole novel about how annoying stefan is...but i can't help myself;)
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"seriously he doesn't leave elena alone"... well, truth is Elena likes to be with him, around him. Why would he be her boyfriend if they aren't togeter all the time, if he or she wouldn't want to spend time w/ each other?
iandamonfan posted over a year ago
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well that's true yes, but when she want's to be alone he doesn't lean her.IMO
BittenGirl posted over a year ago
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seriously??? he follows her around like a little puppy dog!! and if he's not doing that, he's to busy pitying himself!! GROW THE FUCK UP SAINT DOUCHEBAG!!!
loveofdelena posted over a year ago
epicdelena4ever said:
he can be annoying sometimes. i dont like that he thinks that he knows whats best for elena.....other than that hes ok.
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KATIE4DAMON said:
God , I absolutley HATE him . He's just to annoying and isn't even funny or hot .
Also , I really don't get why Elena and Katherine are so crazy over him , Damon is WAY better than Stefan .
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God , I absolutley HATE him . He's just to annoying and isn't even funny or hot . 
Also , I really don't get why Elena and Katherine are so crazy over him , Damon is WAY better than Stefan .
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yes we are lol!
epicdelena4ever posted over a year ago
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you are so right katie!he is just boring and he's got no sense of humor like damon does..and in one episode he says:no, i just don't have any damon humor--.--...wtf?that pissed me off!damon humor is what he needs!
BittenGirl posted over a year ago
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I agree with you !!! TEAM DAMON FOR LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!
KATIE4DAMON posted over a year ago
Ritaprodz said:
How much I hate him ? 0. I really like him :) And with Katherine even more :') <33 If only they would end up together..
But not with Elena, gosh Stelena is soo boring -.-'
Elena is for Damon :)
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agree
topazEYEs91 posted over a year ago
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TOTALLY!!
loveofdelena posted over a year ago
Crystasorrow said:
Tbh, I don't hate him even tho I sometimes say I do. It's just his behavior and 'saintness' that annoys the crap outta me. Stefan is a creepy stalker, hypocrite, self-righteous, self-pitying, lying, brooding, ungrateful, jealous dolt. I HATE him and Elena together. Stefan's brood is rubbing off on Elena and she needs someone like Damon to restore her fire. Elena becomes like her old self around Damon.
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Roxxi_luv_Vamps said:
Honestly... I used to be in love him! But after i started realizing how.... AMAZING Damon was, I saw that he was just another Edward. No doubt though, I love the sparkles!! he was me first Vampire Love (but damon's bumped Eddy down a bit). I still had a little heart for Stefan. He was cute... and sweet. But lately, I've been gathering up a annoious for him. I noticed (not recently, but it came back to me) that Stefan is way more selfish than he seems. and that, he wants every to like hime and think he's the safer/better brother. He uses Damon and anyone else to make himself look better to Elena. And he's stealing all of Damon's credit!! I seriously dont think he deserves Elena anymore, seeing how much he's a liar. He's more of a liar than Damon, and i just cant wait for elena to see that! And for once, maybe give Stefan a nice slap across the face. And he IS clingy! I feel so wrong saying all this stuff about him, but I'm being honest!!
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posted over a year ago 
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BUT!!! I dont HATE him...
Roxxi_luv_Vamps posted over a year ago
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voted best answer!!!
topazEYEs91 posted over a year ago
tininha94 said:
I totally agree with you...I really can't stand him o.O (believe me I already tried) and it's not just because he is with elena...

he gets on my nerves with quotes like "I am the GOOD brother" (yeah right) or when he starts judging damon AND katherine (btw in the end he is always wrong)
and wtf is wrong with elena?! he basically admited that he was watching her FOR MONTHS...how creepy is that? oh wait...it's romantic -.-'

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posted over a year ago 
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xD i think the same thing , but as is stefan it's romantic! -_- 'and after some people says that it's Damon who is obsessed by elena :p
delenafrenchfan posted over a year ago
dogsroc07 said:
i dont really hate him but hes a good guy the hot sexy bad boy is always better i just cant resist the hot bad boy oh i love damonn lolz stephen is not as hot or as bad it is just the way it is
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Ianrocks said:
Yeah he is clingy i'm suprised elena hasn't dumped him yet and go for damon it's like every girl in mystic fall is under his compusion
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nsk said:
i LOVE him <3 if elena isnt with damon its her fault not stefan O_o he didnt forbid her to see damon or something
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ChuckJenny4ever said:
I don't hate Stefan. I don't like him either, but I don't hate him.
I just want him to stay away from Elena!
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INLOVEWITHDAMON said:
I love Stefan...just not anytime he's with Elena. With her he becomes boring and he's just not the right guy for her. Stefan was what she needed after her parents died...I don't think the independent and fierce person that that Elena is (which is a part of her that died with her parents) matches well with Stefan.
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Absolutely agree ^^^
traceypharm posted over a year ago
tvfan5 said:
I don't hate him at all. I just hate him and Elena...they bore me.
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Anna_JH said:
... what Joanna said, haha!

except I don't hate him AS much. It's that contradictory thing that I hate the most. He tells Damon he's horrible, evil, he has no capability to do anything for anyone else... yet as soon as Damon does a good deed, Stefan shoots him down saying it's an ulterior motive for Damon to get something he needs.
Basically, he wants Damon to be good. As soon as he is.. well, he's still an evil vamp doing it for his own benefit.
Wake up and smell the Bambi-blood Stef, Damon's getting in touch with his humanity, kid! Now jog on and try to do a better job of convincing us that you hate Katherine.
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DanaxDavvero said:
you said to be honest , ok i am !!!
i never hate him cauze he is aweosme you guys don't like him cauze you guys just living in you little delena world and won't see the truth stefan is good for her he gives her save and love you are so obsessed with delena that you don't see what elena wants and this is stefan NOT damon you just wan't d/e cauze of your damon thge guy that kills humans and don't care to be honest i liked always d/e too but if i see your bashing and how hatefull you guys are makes me to HATE d/e not cauze of d/e cauze of you , you guys that don't have hobbys just bashing bashing bashing you should not sit in you room the whole day and wait for delena and bashing you should go abck to real life and aczept what the fact is and you now what the fact is STELENA elena wants stefan so just let her and stop bashing and care about your own things you can love delena of course you can but stop bashing if you don't have hobbie's than look for some and stop bashing and just aczept what the fact is and wait what happens but not BASHING !!!
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This is not for all d/e fans just for some people that can nit stop bashing !!!
DanaxDavvero posted over a year ago
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YEAH PISS OF BACK TO THE PUKE WORTHY LAND OF ST STEFFIE NO BALLS AND HIS LITTLE LOVELY LOVE SHIT!! LEAVE US DELENA FANS TO OWN OPPINIONS!!
loveofdelena posted over a year ago
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and if stefan wasn't so fucking ANNOYING!!, we could like him!! but since that's not possible...HE IS A PUSSYFAGGOT!!!
loveofdelena posted over a year ago
xIXIxRSBxIXIx said:
I dont hate him because he is an ok character but I notice that his character sort of changes when he's around Elena so I don't like him when he's with her. I like him better when he's sometimes with other characters like Caroline. And when he acts like a desent brother to Damon. But its mostly when he's with Elena that I don't like him at all!
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Melisey said:
If I am going to be completely honest. I do not hate him. I sometimes do not like him. He very often irritates me. But sometimes he is ok. But he is not a complex enough character for me and a little self-righteous. He will probably never become my favorite. But he is important to the show.
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danna85 said:
no
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StarrieNites said:
I don't hate him.. lol I just want him to be with CERTAIN people.
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christin44 said:
I hate Stefan. He's so clingy and he's like too girly. He's not strong, he cries, and drinks animal blood out of guilt? gross. too edward. I hate him. Always have. Personally, I like Damon and ELena, becuase he doesnt force her. He lets her make her own desicions, and he knows whats best for her. He'll only intervene when her life is in danger,and he'll do what he can to make her happy. She has this feeling for him thats so forbidden, and its deeper then Stefan's i-know-you-a-week-and-i-suddenly-love-you-crap. It was a buildup, and i hope this doesnt dissapoint and leave off with stelena. 80% of followers are delena, it would be like twilight. forbidden love is the best. theres nothing forbidden about stelena. is gross, repetitive, and annoying. I HATE STEFAN. he needs katherine
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"he's like too girly" LFMAO XD i dont why yr saying that O_o
nsk posted over a year ago
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he's like too girly: are you high or something?; he cries: SOO? what's the big deal??; drinks animal blood: yes, because he doesn't want to kill or use people...
iandamonfan posted over a year ago
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YEP! he's cries a little too much!! seriously stef, your a vampire not a wimp!! grow a pair of balls, and quit acting like an emo little kid!!
loveofdelena posted over a year ago
bratski2192 said:
I dont hate Stefan. He comes out of his shell when hes around anyone but Elena. He is quirky & caring (in a friendship/reassuring way) when hes around Caroline & smiles more, he is snappy, sarcastic & funny when hes around Katherine, hes supportive when hes around Bonnie, & defensive plus almost has one-liners when hes around Damon, but when he is around Elena, he gets all angsty, broody, & mushy while being cuddly & static. Theres so much that can be done with him besides being with Elena.

In the books, I loath him. Hes too static & nothing about him is appealing. He is more like a victim than anything else in the books instead of the hero (getting stuck in the well, taken by Shinichi). His relationship with Elena has NO buildup compared to the quickened buildup on the show. Too sugary & cheesy. Icky.
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yeah i dont like him in the book too! so boring! but i LOVE stefan in the show!
nsk posted over a year ago
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indeed book stefan, is just as bad as show stefan, and that's saying something!!
loveofdelena posted over a year ago
tellymaster said:
I don't hate him at all. Just with Elena. He's so BORING with her. Not to mention stalkerish, lying, overbearing, self-loathing, brooding, and just annoying.
Without Elena, he's a much more interesting character. I love it when him and Damon are just being brothers. He's a lot more fun with Caroline, even though I would hate it if they got together, and I love him when he is with Katherine.
So Elena, stay away from Stefan. You're ruining his amazing character.
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locaxox said:
I'll have my moments where I loathe him because of his influence over elena and some of the stuff that he says sounds really conceited but there are other times where I can't help but love him
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galato said:
well, actually I don't hate him. He's ok, but sometimes I think, he wants to be like Damon ... He wants to be funny be he isn't. That's a lil bit exhausting.
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topazEYEs91 said:
i dont hate stefan i like his character but i just dont like him with elena, i think him and katherine have chemistry they belong to each other... i like damon and elena, but sometimes i just want damon to find someone else some one that he really deserves idk but yea i dont hate stefan
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delena91 said:
I don't hate him, he's in the way but i'd like him to be with katherine
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liberty_walk said:
How could you hate Stefan? Huh, why?

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I KNOW RIGHT? !
nsk posted over a year ago
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IT'S HIS HIGH AND MIGHTY SELF RIGHTEOUS ATTITUDE TOWARDS DAMON THAT PISSES ME OFF!!
loveofdelena posted over a year ago
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HOW CAN YOU NOT HATE HIM??!!! HE IS VERY DIFFICULT TO LIKE!!
loveofdelena posted over a year ago
Bnstinsley93 said:
I don't totaly hate him but i don't like him either but i can love him if he just stay away from elena ! But you're right katherine and elena are definitely must be blind how can they choose him over Damon!
DELENA FTW !!
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ninaa1983 said:
I hate him passionately he is the most annoying and one-dimensional character in the show after Bonnie. and when I think that it's absolutely impossible to hate him even more he does something really annoying or stupid. I got mad when he asked Alaric in the last episode why he was doing dirty work for Damon WTF Stefan??? it's called friendship when you support and help each other in hard times. IMO Stefan is one-dimensional jealous asshole.
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yasmeen40 said:
well .. i have to admit that in their case he is MR. Perfect to them which is kinda right but we ship
DE cuz they have everything a couple could have from undying love to fighting but stefan to elena or Katherine is a gentleman i can't deny that considering that damon could be a jerk most of the time that is why we all do like damon besides he is a HOTTY with the leather jacket and those blue eyes yes i don't like stefan but i can't say i hate him either

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well .. i have to admit that in their case he is MR. Perfect to them which is kinda right but we ship 
DE cuz they have everything a couple could have from undying love to fighting  but stefan to elena or Katherine is a gentleman  i can't deny that considering that damon could be a jerk most of the time that is why we all do like damon besides he is a HOTTY with the leather jacket and those blue eyes yes i don't like stefan but i can't say i hate him either
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i mean what's not to hate about saint stefan!! i think his pose in this picture says it all!!! ARROGANT ASS HOLE!!!
loveofdelena posted over a year ago
jasmintwilight said:
I hate stefan for what he did to rebekah! Like if you agree with me!
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clairmxxx said:
honestly, i REALLY can't stand him, before it was just like who cares about him, i didn't really have any feelings on him, it was just Sefan.. But now i really really can't stand him atall!!!!! who knows why, maybe its because he thinks he's better than Damon and he thinks he is better for Elena and he is just not! simpy as! he is on his bunny diet and thinks its the best because he isn't hurting humans well he has no control!!!! then when he does go all rippery he is hurting humans whereas Damon has control so her can stop.... But anyway he just annoyings the heck outta me, all saint like and that, i don't buy it. pfffft
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girl!!! i LOATH him!! he acts like a childish brat!!
loveofdelena posted over a year ago
loveofdelena said:
oh damn... let me tell you!! i can't even begin to describe my hatred for this guy!!! yes...i LOATH him with a passion!!! and im not ashamed to admit it!! everything from his rediculous animal diet to his annoying holier than tho attitude towards damon, to his constant sucking up to elena!!! seriously??!! JUST GO THE FUCK TO HELL STEFAN!!!! and leave elena to someone who knows how to handle her!! TEAM DAMON ALL THE WAY!!!
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AriaJade said:
alot
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thisthat12 said:
I can't say I exactly hate him, because to tell the truth, his character fascinates me. He's just so psychological damaged, it's just fascinating in the worst way to watch him. I do hate many of his character traits, and I desperately want to see character growth with him, but the writers just won't give him any.
I find myself hating on him a lot, though. His attitude towards Damon and Elena is just horrifying. What's worse, is that nobody realizes it, and they both feel like they deserve that attitude. I just want him to face how horribly he treats them, for once.
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I also see it basically like that!
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stringsandpages said:
I don't like him. He's boring and Elena and him don't really have chemistry together. I ship Delena! Damon for the win. ;)
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mia_32112 said:
I hate Stefan he was jealous when Elena found out she loved Damon and Stefan locks Damon in a sell and says too Elena to stay away from him I HATE HIM SOO MUCH SOMEBODY KILL HIM KLAUS PLEASE KILL THE BASTARD
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milkshaklover11 said:
I personally love Damon because he has the kind of personality that everybody loves. Elena loves Damon because he is always there when Elena needs him
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posted 9 months ago 
iamthebest200 said:
I don't like Stefan at all. He's so boring, he doesn't make jokes . He's agressive, you can see that clearly in the two first seasons. example: Jeremy tried to kill himself but he survived and he slapped him ( not so har but he did) and held his hand on his jaw hardly and said something like "why did you do that?" aggressively.
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