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Debate Question

What do you think about remaining a virgin till marriage or finding true love?

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I think its true love but still after marriage when both person are mature enough to take such a decision (rather than at a random party for fun)
Lisa02127kj posted 11 months ago
 Lisa02127kj posted 12 months ago
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bri-marie said:
I think it's a personal choice, and there's nothing wrong with choosing to wait, or not choosing to wait.
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posted 12 months ago 
PlayingWithFire said:
I think that it's the person's choice. If they want to wait for religious/spiritual reasons or because they're not yet ready for sex, that's okay. If they don't want to wait till' marriage, that's okay too. Even though I do think that it's better to lose your virginity to someone you love rather than just anybody, even though I lost mine to someone I didn't love, in fact I didn't even know her. I think it's up to the person but I don't really see premarital sex as a big deal.
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posted 11 months ago 
Roxas1314 said:
I think it's a commitment that will make your love stronger if you wait, and it sure does help eliminate a lot of drama during the teenage years!
Of course, it would have worked for me if I had known that I was even able to marry who I love...but it's not going to happen any time soon with this government. -_-

So I think it is a good idea, but it shouldn't be a requirement to do things that way.
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posted 12 months ago 
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cheer up Roxas, im sure you'll find the right guy someday :)
coriann posted 11 months ago
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I think Roxas is more interested in finding the right girl ;)
Sappp posted 11 months ago
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^Then I wish you and her the best! :)
DarkCEpitome posted 11 months ago
coriann said:
uhm, honestly idk, but remaining a virgin can help to reduce unwanted pregnancies std's and the growing population ;) i think....well...i don't really have a life, so when i get one ill come back and decide :P
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posted 11 months ago 
DarkCEpitome said:
I think it's more of a personal thing than a black-or-white or blatantly-wrong-or-right-decision kind of deal, and I'm tolerant of and respect anybody who goes down that route. :)
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posted 11 months ago 
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so...what do you want to do?
coriann posted 11 months ago
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For me....whatever happens happens.
DarkCEpitome posted 11 months ago
mrsspencereid said:
I'm waiting for marriage. Honestly, it disgusts me to think of the man I will marry having sex with other women. So I'm returning the favor. I have nothing against those who choose not to wait, though. It's their choice, and I can respect that. As long as they aren't having sex with people they hardly know at a young age, I see nothing wrong with it. I just think that it'd be more meaningful if you were married and going to spend forever with that person afterwards instead of having to take the Walk of Shame.
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posted 11 months ago 
Tarabear16 said:
I believe it is your choice but I won't. I am a Christian and we don't do that or atleast we shouldn't. So I'll wait till marriage when I believe I found the right person.
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I believe it is your choice but I won't. I am a Christian and we don't do that or atleast we shouldn't. So I'll wait till marriage when I believe I found the right person.
posted 11 months ago 
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Same here. You shouldn't give your virginity away to just anybody.
mrsspencereid posted 11 months ago
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agreed
Tarabear16 posted 11 months ago
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Its totally right that one should wait for the right person, instead of losing it to a total jerk :)
Lisa02127kj posted 11 months ago
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i know right!
Tarabear16 posted 11 months ago
Book-Freak said:
I believe that it is a persons own choice, and respect whatever choice they make.
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posted 11 months ago 
blackpanther666 said:
I think it is purely up to the couple to decide. Personally, no, because I found a person I liked enough for that to happen.
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posted 11 months ago 
whiteflame55 said:
There's no reason why either can't exist. Remaining a virgin till marriage is something a lot of people do, and there's nothing wrong with that. It's a difficult thing to do, but that's a small issue. As for finding true love, I can believe it, however unlikely it is.
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