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Princesslullaby's Response to the Best Role Model Countdown (Part 1)

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10.Ariel
This will be a little different from the other princesses, because I do think the reasons stated for Ariel have a lot of merit. The fact was, she was being stubborn, irresponsible, selfish, and put her entire kingdom in danger. However, I would like to point out that when Disney created her, they weren't exactly thinking "Let's make the worst role model possible, who girls should never model themselves after!" So, from someone who thinks Ariel is a wonderful role model, I want to point out the view I think Disney intended us to see. It's about striving for your beliefs, breaking boundaries, and saying that it's OKAY to make mistakes. A couple people pointed out that she wasn't succesful in the end, but I don't think that was the point. The point was for her to learn to take risks and chances, and honestly I think if Ariel new she was going to fail she would still trade her voice anyway, for her chance to live her dream. By the way, it's how I would act- If someone let me live my dream for a day, but then I would have a miserable life, I would do it. Because life is too short. But this assertion isn't factual, so I'm not too upset about what people had to say about Ariel, as long as they understand Disney didn't intend it that way.


9.Aurora
One thing that really pissed me off was everyone's criticisms that she talked to Phillip. One user wrote: She disobeys an order (which was for her own well-being) and talked to Philip, a stranger. Yet I see VERY little comment about how Pocahontas talked to John Smith, who she had been previously warned NOT to talk to, because he could be dangerous. Not to mention he pointed a gun at her, and all Phillip did was dance with Aurora. Then, no one bothers to comment while she was immediately swept away by Phillip, she remembered her Aunt's warnings and ran from Phillip. But as he is her "true love" (you have to be willing to buy into Disney's true love application to understand Aurora) she's smart enough to invite him back to the cottage instead of meeting him in the woods again. People also criticize Aurora for being obedient. With the high amount of disobedient, risk-taking princesses, it's nice to see one who is obedient. There's nothing wrong with playing it safe. Aurora didn't exactly have a bad life, she had no reason to disobey her Aunts and run away from home. I wouldn't have criticized her if she did (that would have just been hypocritical with all the good points I see about Ariel running away) DEPENDING on what she ran away for. Regardless, I do think her going to the kingdom instead of waiting for Phillip was NOT a matter of responsibility or duty- I truly think it was lack of backbone.


8.Jasmine
I was genuinely surprised and furious that Jasmine was this low. I'm going to reiterate what I wrote on the wall. One time on here (this section), I made a pick asking if everyone would rather have freedom or riches. About 95% of you choose freedom. But then you criticize Jasmine for leaving her rich lifestyle...FOR FREEDOM.So apparently if you're not already rich, it's okay to pick freedom over riches. But if you're already rich, you can't leave your rich lifestyle for any dreams because THAT'S being ungrateful. Then people called Jasmine mean. Why? When was she ever mean? Because she has a temper? I don't see it as a temper, I see it for standing up for what she believes in. She has no choice but to do it in a loud, aggressive fashion- what is she supposed to say? "I quite disagree with your argument that I should be forced to marry someone I don't love, would you like to debate it further? Mmm, yes, quite quite" NO. In her society, no one would take her seriously if she tried to explain in a calm, intelligent manner. One thing I've always wondered is that after she is brought back to the palace, why doesn't she try to leave again? Does she give up that easily? But then I thought, she probably feels really guilty about Aladdin's "death" (which she thinks she caused), so I honestly think that's why she didn't leave right away. Or maybe she realizes she is incapable of caring for herself so she decides to wait until she is more prepared. I'm not just making excuses, it really seems like that's the likely probability. Realizing that makes me love her even more. This ranking on the countdown was utter nonsense and I'm really embarrassed for everyone who voted her this low.


7.Snow White
Mostly I agree with everyone that she isn't the strongest role model because she really doesn't do anything. However, there are some things I'd like to point out.
#1- Everyone criticizes Snow White for going into the dwarf's cottage. However, she had just been told her stepmother wanted to kill her and needed a safe place to stay. I don't blame her for hiding out in that house. I bet you any amount of money if in the movie she had ignored the house and kept searching around, a LOT of you users would be saying she's stupid for still wandering around the woods where the Queen could be, and she should've hid in the house.
#2- Everyone criticizes Snow White for taking the apple from the old lady. She's 14 years old, give her a break for still being a bit of a dreamer. Another thing is, the damn wishing well worked, so why shouldn't the apple? And also, let me use Pocahontas as an example again: Hardly anyone criticized her for getting out of the boat to talk to John Smith literally ONE MINUTE after he tries to shoot her! I know she may not know that it's a gun, but she has to realize from his stance that he wasn't being friendly. (I'm sorry to keep using Pocahontas as an example, but you'll see later on in the article she's not the only one I use as a parallel against Snow White. I, in fact, adore Pocahontas so it doesn't even matter.) If you had a choice, would you rather eat an apple from an old lady (THAT YOU DIDN'T KNOW WAS EVIL) or go talk to a man who had just tried to shoot you? Anyone with a brain would take the apple.
#3- She is the one princess, who, after losing her prince, doesn't sit around and mope. She keeps a positive attitude and waits for him to come back without depending on him for her happiness, which is REALLY unique for a disney princess.
That being said, I think she is one of the lesser role models.


6.Rapunzel
How is Rapunzel and better than Ariel, let alone Jasmine? This ranking I really didn't understand. She had been taught all her life that the outside world was a dangerous place, she would die, everyone is really mean and selfish. So she goes off with the first man she sees to go see some lights in the sky. To me, that was an equally stupid move as Ariel's, if not stupider and worth less. Jasmine left the palace for freedom, and she had never been taught to not leave the palace because it's dangerous, only that it was too low class. Rapunzel leaves with a strange man to go see lights in the sky, which wasn't even life-changing.. Jasmine was at least leaving to make a difference in her life. Ariel was at least leaving to make a difference in her life. Rapunzel was only going to see lanterns in the sky, and then return back to her old life. She was willing to risk all this for a dream that didn't even change her situtation. This ranking was absolutely baffling to me! I understand she goes through growth and chooses not to come back, she has good qualities too, like she thinks on her feet and cares about others, but she takes a lot of risks that put other's lives in danger, people she's barely met, for something that's not even worth that much in reality. Not to mention she steals Flynn's stuff and blackmails him into taking her places. And that scene where Gothel yells at Rapunzel, she immediately backs down and doesn't try to prove herself, I mean I know what Gothel said was cruel, but apparently it doesn't even matter because Rapunzel chose to do it all behind Gothel's (her mother'S) back anyway. It would have been as simple as just opening the armoire door. I don't know if that would have made Rapunzel's situation better (probably not) but Rapunzel doesn't know that. I promise I'm not being biased, if Jasmine had been ranked higher I wouldn't be so confused at this ranking. In my opinion, Rapunzel should be low on the role model list, if not the lowest. At least Ariel shows that it's okay to make mistakes, as long as you keep trying. And at least Ariel's goal was life-changing and makes a difference (whether or not you agree she should do change her life is irrelevant), but Rapunzel's is just to see some floating lamps. It's not even worth risking her life for. And I do know that it was Rapunzel's "dream" to see the lights and what they meant, but in reality it's just not worth it. Oh, and I realize Ariel going to Ursula is semi the equivalent of Rapunzel going off with Flynn- the difference is Ariel knew Ursula was evil and was doing it as an act of angry rebellion, Rapunzel was just being stupid (not angry, as you can see when she leaves the tower she's conflicted, if she was blindly angry like Ariel she wouldn't have been). By the way, that scene really annoys me, of Rapunzel being conflicted, it further proves to me that she is a bad role model. At least if you're going to risk your life to have a dream, stick by it, don't start second guessing yourself two seconds later. Don't leave unless you're absolutely sure.

PART 2 to come later
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I feel loved. My comment was used. Ha... but countdowns are pretty much just matters of opinion. And Pocahontas and John Smith kinda had that whole "true love" thing going on so she trusted him and believed he wouldn't hurt her... I dunno. I don't really think there is a "right" order of role models among the princesses. They all made their bad decisions and good decisions... meh and Snow White would be worse than Aurora with that whole "strangers" thing because Aurora didn't get hurt from talking to strangers but Snow obviously did... I just don't think sometimes :l
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^I see your point, and like I said, I don't think Snow White is a great role model. I hope you didn't take what I said too harshly.

But besides this comment: I'll wait until everyone writes their comments to write my responses. Instead of just commenting everyone's comments.
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ClassicTV said:
I agree with bubbles4u22. What's the point of these countdowns anyway? They're all based on (often biased) opinions. And like I said before, some pick answers without even commenting. Or some misread the pick and get the results messed up. I like to participate because it's fun, but still. I don't agree with this list too much, but it's not mine, so...xD

ANYWAY. Princesslullaby, I really agree with your comments about Jasmine. And I also take back what I said about Jasmine being "spoiled" and a "feminist little Missy-Prissy Pants". I guess she's just spirited, that's all. Plus, she WAS willing to give up being a princess to marry for love, which is very nice. I actually like Jasmine a lot better than Aladdin! She's higher on my list now, thanks to this article and some deep thinking. :-)
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CuteDiana said:
@bubbles4u22, i -for one- really don't think that there should be ANY ranking about this.

it's just stupid, each one of the princesses is a good model in a way, but this countdown OMG, like princesslullaby said, all countdown in this sit became a fucking popularity contest, and i totally agree with Punz being higher than Jase and Ariel, though i love her, but this whole ranking and REASONES are absurd.
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Well, I agree about what you wrote. Especially about Rapunzel and Jasmine, those ones angered me so much.

But I don't think this countdown as countdown is bad, I don't remember who did last one about role models, dweeb or princesslullaby, nevermind, but that one was done good.
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ppv said:
I agree with some of your points, especially about Jasmine.
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I get what your trying to say, but I don't really agree with any of it xD
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ppgbelle4 said:
*claps for you* BRAVO. My god, THANK YOU. I agree with you 100%. I actually find it really absurd that Rapunzel is so high, because she didn't want to make a difference in her life. I also find it ridiculous that Ariel lost to Aurora, because like I stated in a pick, Ariel tried to change her destiny and her life, and everyone should do that. It is okay to make mistakes; that is why I love her so much. It makes her the most realistic. With Jasmine also low, I also agree with that. I NEVER voted for Jasmine in the first place, and really, she was also trying to change her life and fight for her rights, while other people worshiping Punz kept her there. So yeah, I agree with you , definitely.
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DreamyGal said:
Holy mother of Mary!! Take a damn chill pill, or better yet, lemme fed ex you some of my Xanax, lol....just kidding.

I absolutely agree with you. Looking back, I kinda regret taking part in this countdown. Thing is, all of the, have good qualities, and bad. We are tough on some of the, for their choices...like the Philora Pocajohntas comparison. Lots of us...including myself, judge Aurora for talking to him, yet we sometimes overlook Pocahontas's meeting with Smithy. I admire your ginormous balls for posting this :D
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Omg great article!!!!!hmmm I kinda change my mind on Ariel I think I like her a little better and thank you for your points on jasmine overall this is just an awesome article!!!!
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JonnaSe said:
I agree with about everything you said. And I´ve never thought about the whole "Poca totally trusting John just moments after the he tried to shoot her".
You are really good writer,and very funny. Great article ^^
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the problem is, that most of the people don't analyse anything. they're just biased in these countdowns.
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actually, Snow is a very good role model for reasons you mentioned, but other stuff. all that abuse, getting nearly murdered, being unloved by her only family, losing the one person who DID love her (at least temporarily) yet she isnt whiny or bitter- she is so emotionally strong, like Aurora, who put duty over desire even though it totally crushed her. They are stronger than any other characters (but cinderella) and are SO underrated.

but very good list (although I kind of disagree about Jasmine, she's still a spoiled complainer who doesn't trust Aladdin in the sequels and uses her body to seduce a man instead of her mind). I think people just really like her and Belle for their looks and other shallow reasons. then they accuse Aurora fans of the same thing.

BTW, love that you called Pocahontas out! seems she isn't allowed to get criticism, much like Belle.
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