Unlike love, Fanpop is not a battlefield. You don't have to gear up and amass an army to command in a war against everyone who's ever wronged you. I recognize that things get said on this site by several different people that are hurtful, cruel, insensitive and just plain troll-ish. Depending on your personality, you might get a little hot-headed if someone says these things to you or your friends. But there are civil ways of dealing with these situations that don't involve flamethrowers and mustard gas. Conflicts can be resolved peaceably, or at least can be curtailed before they escalate...
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