Huddy The Huddy Void

fran2 posted on Oct 10, 2011 at 01:30PM
A place for those who do not want to resign themselves to the evidence and are still in denial.
A place for those who are angry.
A place for those who are in acceptance (lucky people!).
A place for all of us, hopeless Huddies, because we do feel that House and Cuddy have been the most incredible couple we’ve ever known and they are always gonna be the most incredible couple we have ever known.

Trying to survive the season 8 and hoping for a season 9 ;-))).....keep talking and keep the flame burning!


Title credit @bh
Pic credit @huddycat69
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over a year ago fran2 said…
@bh – I’ll wait for your comments after the finale :-)))
@mysusp thanks for the warning! I haven’t read your spoilers…
I worked for a long time to the treatment of troubled families and abused children so I know what you mean and partly because of this, I think for me it’s impossible to imagine a hopeless season finale. When you touch the pain and you have to help someone you are “forced” to become an incurable optimist always hoping for the chance of cure, healing, redemption, changes. Otherwise you go crazy.

I can’t believe that tonight is going to be the end :-(
I’m already crying...
over a year ago Tammy8 said…
Tonight is the finale and I am feeling extremely nostalgic. Through all the things the last years have brought this was my one safe place. We have laughed, held our own differentials, fangirled, and shared some beautiful moments. I can't even begin to grasp how i will feel tonight, I just wanted to express the immense gratitude I feel today for knowing you all.


I still have not given up on a new thread, just still shell-shocked a bit by the ending of House. It's been an honor ladies and maybe we can share some other things in years to come. Meet you back here after the finale.
over a year ago bluehue said…
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Aaah...great to catch up on older AND NEWER comments! HUGS @tammy. Don't cry @fran!

I'll distract you..a little. @fran, Glad you found the latest Hilson episodes engaging, heartbreaking, with a measure of (m)agnificence. For the most part..me too. It’s okay..we are not writing our forum hearts out..cause, as the saying goes.. the “writing..is on the wall.”
@tammy, "feeling extremely nostalgic," I know, I know..yes. BUT, that's a good thing..because we
made memories along the way, quite a special "bonus," don't you think?! Damn, good to see you!


@fran, A bit more..speaking of “delusion,” in the Huddy "Sense & Nonsensibility," I saved a phrase in my head..from BBC Sherlock last week, when Holmes said something like, “when we rule out all that is possible, we are left with the impossible, which is highly improbable!”

Well, I LOVE that thought..makes me think even laugh..and more strangely..have a molecule of hope..even in our “eleventh hour.” Ha.Our Huddy delusions.

@mysusp, You are a brave one..to turn rocks over..looking for ending scenarios!
Again, like Sherlock..and I remember you also mentioned several times..(H)ouse is actually labeled a “mystery, suspense,” in the tv description..so I’ve always thought the ending will be just that. A mystery! ???????????

Thanks @mysusp..for your suggestions too!. YES, after we discuss or leave words on the finale, I will start a new art appreciation forum..making you all read Modern Art History.. there will be a quizzes..each week! Ha ha. Well, and @fran will teach us pyschology through cartoons! Yea. @mysusp..will hopefully give us more jewels of wit & wisdom..a teacher of children..even those who face great odds..the greatest pursuit of all. AND..@tammy is back..to give us peace and
truth..as only she can do!

I'll see you after finale. “Everybody Dies,” okay, well can’t argue with that! OR..can we?! LOL.
over a year ago mysuspicionis said…
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Aw nice to see you all :) My satellite is being weird so I may need to come online and find answers hopefully on the episode. I know that is cheating but I do what I can :). See you soon.
over a year ago mysuspicionis said…
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I came into the episode 30 minutes late. Not lying when I saw Amber I hyperventilated thinking there might be another female surprise guest star. I so wish I had mentioned yesterday but I think I've mentioned before on here the Sherlock Holmes faked death scenario. Props to you Shore for going old literay school :). It actually crossed my mind. I didn't even blink when the beam fell on House because I knew on this show when you say I can change you are a goner. I like seeing Houses funeral without the death :). I just got through with a 15 minute text conversation with my Wilson loving niece who named her fish Dr House. I feel a lot of closure actually. I will always feel sad about House and Cuddy and I'm not sure if I can watch old episodes but I do feel this ending does go along with the idea of catharsis wherein whether an ending is tragic or happy it feels that it fits. Had to go way back to 11th grade drama for that :). Good night to all
over a year ago bluehue said…
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Yea...for me, it has been TWO fake death nights in a row!! Having JUST seen Sherlock's on Sunday night..and then House on Monday. Hmmmm...this is giving me an idea..maybe I can get out of all my work deadlines. Ha.

@mysusp, Well, thank goodness you caught most of the finale, and Amber ghost gave you a good gasp..and final pang of hope. Like you perhaps, I'm just happy that I'm not sad..in that, to me..the finale felt right, "it fit."

I am grateful to Hugh Laurie's "Swan Song" too, which helped put the show in perspective and myself in a proper good frame of mind to fall into the finale. I was kind of dreading this ending buisiness..but instead, I had fun...and still humming song words, "enjoy yourself."

After last weeks felony prank, I was thinking, this show has really gone down the toilet..then during finale...okay..it's off to prison lock up. No wait...a heroine overdose. Noooo..House is goin' down in FLAMES!! YESSSSS...after a winding tour down memory lane..then a quick EXIT.. a manly pee off
the bridge..and on down their final road trip. Because these two friends got busy living not dying (just yet)..I was smiling..not crying.
over a year ago mysuspicionis said…
Glad you were happy with the ending bluehue. When I read the recap with the felony prank it really made me feel I had not missed much. When House died I was thinking hmmm kind of early fir him to die but I was taken in. That did not effect me emotionally because it we saw him die saying I can change and that others were affected by his life. Thinking that he gave up everything for his friend brings a lump to my throat though. I saw a comment on one of the finale recaps that said in a way House did find God because there is no greater love than to lay down your life for your friend. Quote from Jesus
over a year ago fran2 said…
Excuse me for the absence but I'm trying to come to terms with the end of H. It’ not easy. I am still processing and that worries me, I admit.
Stage of denial: House is not finished. Sooner or later I will be reasonable.
life goes on, albeit with a touch of bitterness and melancholy.
It's been a hell of a ride. Everybody dies, everybody lies… so mr shore showed us that nobody changes, and he showed us the essence of House who was always there, latent but not invisible to us who loved him immensely.
I always thought that HL would never agree to let a hopeless House.
The final, Sons of Anarchy style. This ending is ... right. I can’t find other words although I would have expected to pay a lot of tears and it would be liberating, at least for me.
A series dies, a character dies, make-believe but dies. And died, perhaps, his way of seeing things, his profession.
So now what? I want him to come back, they could write a new series *givemetheHuddyspin-off*.
Excuse me for the absence but I'm trying to come to terms with the end of H. It’ not easy. I am sti
over a year ago mysuspicionis said…
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Hello Fran, I have missed you all this past busy week. I think of our forum when browsing pInterest, seeing a cartoon and thinking "0h and need to save that and share with everyone later". I'll have to bring my laptop out if hiding so I can post more. By the way I've thought of a new thread title for our on and off topic discussions. I think bluehue will like it because she likes puns. ----Art House--- in reference to our collective love of literature, movies, art, philosophy and of course House. There was a quote by Hugh Laurie I read after the finale that expressed how he felt about the viewers of House. It was so respectful and gave credit to the intelligence of the viewers. I really feel it describes all the people who have met here. Give me a moment and I'll post it. I know what you mean about House withdrawal....I may have to call my niece over and have a guilty watching of Hugh Laurie the cradle robber in The Oranges movie. Infidelity with a girl less than half your age is okay if it's Hugh Laurie, Right?!
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over a year ago mysuspicionis said…
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Credit to Hugh Laurie for the perfect words :). "how I feel about House fans and the House audience is that they are people of rare intelligence and humor and humanity.....I like you and I feel as if I know you".
over a year ago mysuspicionis said…
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Tammy, Bluehue, and Fran I am sending you an important email on here. :). So please check your inbox. :) Hope everyone's week went well. I am off for summer beginning next week. I think a girl on PInterest is a House/Cuddy fan! I added her to my list when I saw all her pins. And she reminds me of someone from livejournal where I read posts but did not write. She liked x files, female actresses, house and cuddy on both sites if I am right. By the way you should join pInterest. The images are gorgeous and we could have fun on there. I play maybe 10 minutes a day on it but I like looking at others pictures of places they want to travel, favorite books etc
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over a year ago fran2 said…
@mysusp where did you find out that HL quote? It's fantastic!
What is PInterest??? O_o

ladies lately I'm quite busy but I'm cooking a House Finale recap...with no hurry :-)
@mysusp where did you find out that HL quote? It's fantastic!
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What is PInterest??? O_o
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over a year ago mysuspicionis said…
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hmmm I'm not sure Fran. Pinterest is like an online scrapbook where you can pin pictures from fashion, home ideas, books, basically anything. We have been having internet problems (first time this has been working in days) plus my phone service went out. Lots of people have had problems around here lately with verizon, tmobile and at&t. I'll write again when I can. I've been watching I Dream of Jeannie lately. so silly, and cute in a 60's Rock Hudson Doris Day type style. LOL
over a year ago mysuspicionis said…
by the way the front page is not updating our forum hmm
over a year ago mysuspicionis said…
sunny
My phone is working but not the regular Internet. The wires got wet with the severe rain. Luckily the house is on top of a hill but people in lower areas had flooding. I will have to get my niece to send me the picture of an alligator on the roof of a shed she took to post for you. Hope everyone is having a nice summer. Fran you said you went to sea? Were you on a cruise or staying at the beach in a hotel? I have been stuck at home because of the weather for days but plan on getting some sun soon. Happy early 4th of July and I think bluehues birthday is after that? So Happy Birthday. A cool House related thing happened I have been playing tenor ukulele which is a larger ukulele than the traditional soprano that people think of when they think ukulele. Yesterday I looked up As Tears Go By which is
favorite song. I was planning the chords and began experimenting with the strings when I suddenly found myself playing a walking bass line to it by ear with no knowledge of how to do it from musical training. I was so excited because that is more advanced and eventually I will learn to play I divi Hal notes. Of course now my favorite song is forever associated with season 5 finale. I loved the finale before season 7 finale but it's hard to take the sadness of 5 knowing what awaits at the end. A random thought about 8 finale. Did anyone think Wilson looked so much better at the end with his scruffiness? Fran if you want PInterest I will send you an invitation by email or on the website it says "request an invitation". Sending sunshine, sunscreen and lazy days to all.


over a year ago fran2 said…
hello @ mysusp, lately here it feels a little like robinson crusoe on the island ... right? ;-))))
yes I went to the sea for few days, "house" holidays on the beach. Relaxing.
As tears go by will be inextricably linked to H, forever *crying*
Thank you but please don't send me an invitation for PInterest, I'm already pretty messed up XD!!

and now I have to make an announcement * drum roll * ... I'm leaving for a week in Paris where I'll enjoy HL concert!!!!!!!! Life is good :-))))))

Hopefully I'll post some pics :-)

have a great summer everyone
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hello @ mysusp, lately here it feels a little like robinson crusoe on the island ... right? ;-))))
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over a year ago mysuspicionis said…
Ha know what you mean about already being pretty messed up ;). That is why I never read fanfiction and now why I won't join twitter. I need to keep obsession to a minimum. :) Have an amazing time in Paris with the HL concert especially!! I am envious of you both. In a few weeks I will take my longest roadtrip ever 10 hours and spend a week in the farthest point in the USA--Key West. No Hugh Laurie down there but I will perhaps see some tropical fish snorkeling, iguanas by the pool at the hotel where I'm staying etc. Lately our family has had it's own Houseian problems. My brother who has had two car accidents in two years, the first of which broke his leg in such a manner that he has trouble walking and list his job, the second which added a second head injury that impairs his judgement, reached a breaking point with his prescription pain medication and Xanax. We've discovered Xanax is a horrible drug causing hallucinations , delusions of grandeur, paranoia and apparently is as addictive as heroin according to our research. My parents convinced him to detox with the help of dr and medicine to wean him off slowly to prevent seizures (not to mention the incredibly scary hallucinations). He is very positive and upbeat at this point in time looking forward-- we know the relapses will occur, this is an extremely difficult drug to get off of according to our research. We all can only pray and hope. In the midst of his hallucinations at the hospital they asked "any life changing events in the last year?". And in his confusion but knowing why he had decided to come he replied "I'm trying to do better". I know I've vested off into personal territory but writing is very therapeutic :). I have done great considering the stress stayed busy, called sister, helped my parents with dogs, meals while they were at hospital. :). Very proud of myself and our family.
over a year ago mysuspicionis said…
Forgot to add that one thing I am excited about is that I found a deal on a hotel. Since I am but a poor teacher I have never stayed anywhere very nice. My sister will be stuck with in laws husband and son in a two bedroom condo while my niece and I shall be staying in a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom suite with kitchen dining area, grounds with infinity pool (with iguanas lol) I have an adorable orange and hot pink dress and we play to go out one night go this place where you sing along with the piano players. We will sing till we decide the drunk people are annoying and perhaps do yoga on the beach class at sunrise.
over a year ago mysuspicionis said…
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I have two days of work training, then my vacation to Key West, then the work year begins right after that. I hope your concert with Hugh Laurie was amazing :). I'll have to email you/ or post here to get some (non angst-riden) tv show, books or movies recommendations after I settle into the work routine. Here in the US most people get 2 weeks vacation. I've had 2 months because there is no money in the school budget for trainings this summer. The early morning alarm will be the hardest adjustment. :)
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over a year ago fran2 said…
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@mysusp I hope for your brother everything will be resolved for the better. A big hug :-)

so the holidays are over (at least for me) and this summer was fabulous! Hugh's concert in Paris just fantastic. Throughout the concert I felt this strange feeling: I know this man ... how is that possible? he on stage is fantastic, he knows how to hold the attention, he has a wonderful voice and he is happy.

After the House's end an Italian journalist wrote an iBook, the book ends with these words: "Hugh Laurie needs Greg House because House came inside him, House pulled out his own nature because the two natures coincide. House has done with Hugh Laurie what he had done with all the other characters in the series. He infected him. Upset. Healed. "

And about the relationship between House and Cuddy, he wrote: "genius as a man may be, there will be a woman who is more righteous than him, who has the most guts, who can live in the world better, and knows how to put a order, she, in the existential rubble accumulated by him. House-Cuddy they are soul mates, whether they stay together or not. But Lisa, by herself, can still walk.
Greg no, he just limps."

My dear huddies, come back here hurts a little. But they say that time heals wounds...
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over a year ago mysuspicionis said…
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Aw here you are Fran :). I have recovered well from House I believe but it feels strange to not have any obsessions-- there are no tv shows I watch week to week. I haven't read
Any amazing books or seen any amazing movies in a while. I am currently reading the Night Circus. Vacation was wonderful for me also. I truly think my next stop will be my lifelong dream of Hawaii. It is motivating me to earn money with my two new students. One is nonverbal with autism and the other has no one in the world but a stepfather and I believe expresses some of Thr anger and violence he's seen in the classroom. I love your references. No matter what I believe everyone from viewers to reviewers felt we were right in our assessment of the characters of House and how the story SHOULD have ended. We were far too smart and wonderful in this forum to be wrong, right? ;) I would have had the strangest feeling in that concert seeing HL there after spending countless hours with House the character. Recently I asked a patent if they had ever had their child who has multiple health issues screened for Thyroid Disorder and she said "yes, I had them test for Lupus too because my mom had lupus.". Thank goodness I was able to keep a straight face in the serious situation while the words "it's not lupus, it's never lupus" came to mind
over a year ago mysuspicionis said…
By the way-- things are going well with family
over a year ago bluehue said…
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Warm hello & hug to @fran & @mysusp! I have truly missed our written chats..tho think of you
guys often.

I know, I know..it has been many a moon..since I've stopped here. Thank you TWO..for keeping a little fire burning.

I happily read over your posts..and glad you both had some Summer vacationing..& fun in the sun.
@fran, That is SUPER..you were able to see HUGH Laurie perform. I bet that was meaningful..in a most unique way, considering you are a most SPECIAL fan!! :) WOW!

@mysusp, SORRY a million times..for not getting back with you..after your kind messages! PLEASE forgive, nI have been away..for a long. long while..work related..in NYC. I'm so glad
your brother/family doing better, after suffering accident x 2. Must be very difficult coping & trying
to get back to feeling strong & healthy. Sending positive thoughts..encouragement. You sound like a wonderful..attentive sister!

NO comparison..though suffered my FIRST broken bone..a few weeks age. I broke my right arm, the radius on Aug. 12th..just slipped in our pond..on mossy rocks..and crashed full speed onto a stone wall. Still in cast..tho hoping to "get out" soon. So..in a MUCH, MUCH lesser way, I feel your brother's pain. It is hard..when you can't do basic..routine things per normal. I did not take pain meds..just iboprofen. Pain meds can slow healing..because they can fool the body. Good he is pulling away..detox..from prescription narcotic..very scary real.

I'll be sure to check back again..to see if anything new with my forum girl peeps. LOVE, bluehue.
over a year ago fran2 said…
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@mysusp – glad for you and your family :-)
@bh – fine to read you again, I hope you get well soon.

Girls! Take care of you! Now we are few, right? But sometimes it's nice to come back here and chat :-))))))

Random thoughts…
Downton Abbey season 3 started, beautiful! At some point a character says to another (I don’t go into details as not to ruin the surprise for those who watch the series): "You two are meant to be together ..... you will not be happy with anyone while she walks the Earth. "
Congratulations to the writers, great dialogues, great scenery, great actors. I thank them for helping me to fight my House withdrawal.

Instead - be careful! SPOILER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - Castle ended last season with a kiss and two clasped hands and it will start this season in Now What style. Really???? It's a shame that House is over, the Castle writers will not know what to copy then. No ... wait a minute ... there would be still Bombshell and Moving On ;-))))

By the way ... is it September? Then Wilson is dead * evil grin * ... what a shame XD XD XD (just kidding, no one kills me)
Cuddyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!! Forget toothbrushes and garbage! Come Back!! You don’t really want to miss October / October!!! ahahahahahahahah

@mysusp – glad for you and your family :-)
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@bh – fine to read you again, I hope you get we
over a year ago mysuspicionis said…
First of all--wow great to "see" you bluehue. I'm sorry for your arm though. NYC sounds exciting and glamourous. I have a friend who is more of a friend of a friend who told me to come visit her sometime during my teacher work breaks. I need to take my niece because she's 19 and to her England is the promised land but she would settle to see Broadway in NY. I mention her a lot because she is the one I can be nerdy and obsessive about movies, shows, and books. I love my friends but families have the same mental disorders ;). My laptop still has a cracked screen so that had cut out my OCD quite a lot :). Fran your shows sound great! I want downtown Abbey to end after 3 seasons so I can start watching it withOut worrying if it will end unhappily :). You should have seen my face after scrolling through iTunes the other day and seeing the list of dramas. It was as if I were Hiuse being tempted with vicodin. I was very sad the other day when I turned on the radio and found out my favorite radio station and the only radio show I've listened to Kidd Kraddick in the Morning was gone! The top 40 rock/pop/alternative station is now Christian music. In my mind I thought I need to not get so attached to things..well in art as in love is it better to have loved and lost than never to have loves at all? Hmm
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