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Introverts Question

What do you do at big social events, like parties?

I don't know what to do in these kinds of situations. I mostly just wander around, or stay in a bathroom or something, lol.
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When ever I am force to go to a party or just bored, I just drink water or soda & sit in the couch & listen to the music all day
sugarcane15 posted over a year ago
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stay silent at a corner with some foods and drinks... if people ask me if i want anything, i just show my foods and drinks.. don't need to speak...
hulismacked posted over a year ago
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agreed^
Smib posted over a year ago
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The murmur of crowds unnerve me. I am much more relaxed if I get a drink. Wine or a mixed drink. I don't like beer . : )
2bluemoon posted over a year ago
 SouthParkSmart posted over a year ago
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XDRoseLuvsHP said:
I usually stick to a group of my friends. I actually can have fun if I'm with friends and stuff, but I get a headache after a while, and I can't really talk to new people well. But, yeah, I stick with my friends for the most part. If I don't have any friends there, I don't go. I've declined parties before simply because I didn't have any close friends attending, several times, even though I had nothing better to do that day.
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Same here. That's exactly what I do. =]
MrsGuadaJackson posted over a year ago
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That's EXACTLY what I go through, except all my friends at school are pretty much extraverts, and they just forget me. So I usually don't even try to go to big parties because I know all the extraverted people will forget the little introvert in the corner, anyway. I know, it's sad. They're not mean (we actually have a lot in common except for this one drastic personality trait) but sometimes they forget that I'm there, too, because I don't talk a lot at social events.
ArcticWolf posted over a year ago
Vixie79 said:
I wonder to a corner and try to find people I know. I try my damdest to avoid parties, I really hate them.
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me too.
cmrm posted over a year ago
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:D
Vixie79 posted over a year ago
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I do either.
lucy32 posted over a year ago
LoopyLuna96 said:
I try to avoid people, or stay hidden somewhere, like a nice corner.
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ya thats what i usually do
larouxbestfan posted over a year ago
Duncan-superfan said:
If some of my friends are there I'll just sit on the sidelines and chat with them. But if its just me with people who arn't my friends, I just sit somewhere hidden and stay quiet.
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yoshifan1976 said:
Yeah I would just sit on the couch and read a book
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Magica said:
I just don't go to them if none of my friends are going to be there.
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madisonsavanna said:
I agree with yoshifan1976, I just sit in the corner reading, hoping nobody will see me.
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larouxbestfan said:
when i go to events at school that are after school i am VERY shy i will just stay wit hone of my good friends and when i go to family reunions and stuff like that i just stay with my mom or my older brother because im so nervous ive only been to one party and i bareley talked and stayed with my best friend if my friends arent there im not there.it kind of sucks because i used to talk ALL THE TIME and i would talk to complete strangers all the time when i was younger but now i cant even talk to my family.
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EgoMouse said:
I don't really do anything. If there's food, I just eat and stay by myself. If people are playing video games, I either watch them play games or attend (in that case, I might actually open up and be cocky XDD). Other than that, I probably wouldn't talk at all, and just stick by my friends or family, maybe wander around.
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DWLoverTBCEDT said:
I stand in the back and watch everyone else, its so interesting.
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Yea me 2
Tayloraddict-1 posted over a year ago
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ikr? you learn a lot that way XD
para-scence posted over a year ago
para-scence said:
if more than two of my friends are going I'll go. I'm most comfortable if they're with me. Otherwise I just stand near the wall. If my friends leave me I start to have panic attacks, but not really bad ones.
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djsheshe said:
well... i dnt go to any, but if i hve to, like a compulsary school events, like we have danceathons (most horryfying part of my school year) i'll try just dance, but then after a while, i stop, and i ask myself wat the hell im doing, then i panic, go outside and buy food even tho im not hungry.

sometimes i 'll try to dance with my friends for like a minute and then, i like to write and always have a book with me to write poetry, songs, or just my thoughts so last time i didnt hve one so i just wrote it as a text in my phone, outside by myself and saved it to drafts. :P

i look for any oppurtunity to fire my introvertness. makes me comfortable.
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ArcticWolf said:
Well, a lot of my friends at my school are extraverts, and they ALWAYS go to those things, so I usually go along if they remember me...
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taytrain97 said:
Usually it's my friends that convince me to go to parties, so I go with them and cling to them like a baby kitten to its mom.
But if it's just me, I'll sneak a book into my jacket and hide in the bathroom to read.
I can't really do that at school functions, though, so it gets very awkward sometimes...
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SnapeOWNSedward said:
I only go if I know at least one of my friends will be there. Other wise I end up standing in the corner hoping no one will notice me.
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hulismacked said:
stay at some corner with some drink or food (the simple one) and then watch people around...
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LinaHarrow said:
1) Suffer
2) Watch people
3) Read the book I brought along
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thespikedturtle said:
I don't get invited to big parties. I have small parties with friends, and I feel comfortable around them.

But if I did have to go, I would just find one person that seems nice enough, and just talk to them most of the time.
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Same here. I don't get invited to parties, either, unless they're family reunions or something, lol.
SouthParkSmart posted over a year ago
xebbi said:
usually i am not invited because most of my friends know... i don't go... but if i attend these kind of social gatherings... i sit in the corner....

quietly............
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swiddlewiddle said:
I take photos- lots of them(but usually only with people I know)! This makes me communicate with people, without having to party, cuz I just hate dancing or singing and so on! And I'm having fun without people wondering why I'm not doing party stuff.
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I take photos- lots of them(but usually only with people I know)! This makes me communicate with people, without having to party, cuz I just hate dancing or singing and so on! And I'm having fun without people wondering why I'm not doing party stuff.
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POPclogger216 said:
I stick around an exit, with my friends, or near the walls, where I'm not totally surounded by people.
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EalasaidWooster said:
Well, last night I was at a dinner party and I just made conversationwith the people I was sitting with. I'd met them all before, though, so it wasn't too bad. :)

I usually just stick with someone I know and try to be friendly to other people. xD
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misspansea said:
1)i just sit and watch
2)drink water or soda
3)listening to music
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