LIFE PATH ISSUES

----Health

    Most 30/3s, especially those with suppressed emotions, experience vulnerability in the throat area due to blocked expression. If 30/3s feel a scratchy throat or a blockage there, they need to ask themselves “What do I need to express that I’m holding back?” Often, once they express what they feel, their throat quickly recuperates. Music that opens the heart, touches the emotions, and enlivens or uplifts is always healing for 30/3s, whose health or illness reflects their emotional state.

    Their heart and knees also feel sensitive and vulnerable at times. Those who have problems with misunderstanding, which 30/3s are prone to because of their issues with expression, often get energy blockages around the knees, which over time affect the circulation and eventually the physical structure.

    Those working 30/3 need to eat and exercise according to what feels right to them intuitively – what feels emotionally as well as physically good. But they need to take care not to be run by their moods or to seek emotional consolation in the form of food or self-pampering when they are feeling lovelorn. When they are feeling blue, expansive exercise to music lifts their spirits.

----Relationships

    Nearly all 30/3s have a needy emotional quality that says, “Appreciate me”; they look for this emotional support in the outside world rather than in themselves. Although they sometimes expect a lot without giving back in return, they also have a great capacity to give.

    Although 30/3s can appear unemotional, even coldly rational, as a reaction to their sensitivity, they have an extremely large and sensitive emotional energy field. Their voice usually reveals their feeling nature, and their ability to tune into others’ feelings enhances their relationships.

    Despite appearances to the contrary, 30/3s are romantics at heart. They love to fall in love, and they periodically get emotional “crushes.” They need to be very direct and straightforward about this tendency with their partner if they have one. When they feel free to express feeling attracted to someone, this helps clear any obsessive tendencies toward the current attraction. In other words, they can have more lasting relationships by acknowledging and expressing, but not acting upon, infatuations that pass through their lives. Sometimes their emotions run them, and they get involved in promiscuous situations or infidelities (whether real or imagined) and then wonder what happened.

    The emotional aura or energy field of 30/3s is their primary “erogenous zone.” If their emotions are shut down, sexual technique doesn’t help. When in a loving mood, however, they are moved by passion – technique is secondary.

    Relationships, for 30/3s, present a monumental opportunity to work through issues of honest expression and emotional vulnerability. They do well to view relationships not only as a form of consolation and nurturance, but as a form of spiritual practice.

----Talents, Work and Finances

    With their inner gifts of expression, sensitivity, and intuition – and their developed expressive abilities – 30/3s help to uplift and nourish others around them in their immediate world or in a larger arena. They may choose to be teachers, salespeople, writers, or lecturers – any role that reminds people of the feeling side of their lives. They have inherent gifts in any form of teaching, counseling, healing, performing, or creative expression due to their ability to tune into people and subtle dimensions. Those working 30/3 can also follow a social service path, and they tend to make good managers. They can be successful in any field, but they feel mot fulfilled in their work offers opportunities for self-expression.

    In addition to their emotional sensitivity, those working 30/3s also have a superb depth of intuitive intelligence that cuts to the heart of some of life’s core issues. Therefore, they do well in any field that involves clear logic and reason.

    Any lack of money relates in some way to self-doubt. If 30/3s use their gifts and expression in the positive, money follows.

SOME WELL-KNOWN 30/3s

    Bill Cosby (comedy actor)        Miles Davis (jazz trumpeter)
    Ella Fitzgerald     (jazz singer)        Jodie Foster (actress/director)
    Andrew Jackson (seventh President of the United States)
    Joan Rivers (TV personality)    Carlos Santana (guitar player)
Barbara Walters (TV personality)    John Wayne (actor)

KEYS TO FULFILLING YOUR DESTINY

    If you are working 30/3, this section can help you manifest your life purpose by focusing your attention on core issues and by generating specific action to transform key areas of your life.

GUIDELINES AND RECOMMENDATIONS

•Treat self-doubt as a hurdle to be overcome, not a stop sign.
•Give of yourself emotionally, even if you don’t always feel you get back in equal measure.
•Allow and express your feelings in the moment.
•Trust and use your refined intuition and special resources.

USEFUL QUESTIONS

1. Reflect on the following questions:
•Have I held back my drive to express out of self-doubt?
•Do I express my feelings and needs directly?
•Am I sensitive to the needs of others?
•Have I fully utilized my sensitive “internal guidance system” or other inner gifts?

2. If these questions generate any insights, how might you put these insights into practice?

SPIRITUAL LAWS: THE LEVERAGE TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE

1. Read about each of the following laws:

•THE LAW OF CHOICES: We can choose to express our energy and emotions in positive or negative ways.
•THE LAW OF HONESTY: Acknowledging feelings to ourselves and others is primary form of honesty.
•THE LAW OF EXPECTATIONS: Our lie unfolds according to our hidden expectations and assumptions.
•THE LAW OF FAITH: Only when we find faith in ourselves can we have faith in others.
•THE LAW OF ACTION: To overcome self-doubt, we need to acknowledge our vulnerability but act with confidence.

2. Do the exercises you find for each of these laws.

3. Consider how you might apply each law to your life.

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