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Advice #3 ~ MissDeadlyMagz

Opinion by bakes2389 posted over a year ago
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"I NEED ADVICE.WELL IN SCHOOL I LIKE THIS BOY BUT, A LOT OF GIRLS LIKE HIM.HE SITS IN MY DESK.I ALWAYS GET NERVOUS AROUND HIM.HE EVEN TALKS TO ME.I WANT TO TELL HIM I LIKE HIM BUT THEN HELL BE CREEPED OUT.WAT DO I DO?" ~ MissDeadlyMagz

Well MissDeadlyMagz, I must say you are in a good spot with this special boy. What I mean is that this beloved boy sits in your desk and talks to you too! You lucky girl! I think you are doing fine. You just need to calm down. Take a few breaths.....right now. Do it with me. Breathe in, breathe out.
Okay....now that we are relaxed, let's get crackin'! It seems to me that this boy is fancied by all the girls, but he has taken a liking to you. That my dear, is a damn good thing! He's talking to you! He must feel comfortable around you. I think if you just relax a little bit and just be yourself, he'll like you even more. Boys can make you nervous. I've been there. You have those butterflies in your stomach, you keep daydreaming about him, and then you don't know what to say and you don't want to sound lame in front of him. My advice would be to relax and before answering him, count to 3, think your answer through, and then just speak casually towards him.
As for the whole "telling him you like him" thing, I don't know if that is a wise idea to just blurt it out. I, for one, have never been the brave and bold type to just blurt out my affections. I'm more of a secluded and secretive crush kind of person. I think if you just flat out tell him that you like him, he might be a tad creeped out, or he might be flattered. Guys can be a bit hard to read and then sometimes they act differently once they know that you like them. My advice for this subject would be to get to know him better. I also would suggest flirting with him and then gaging his responses and watching his reactions. If he flirts back, then you are on his ladder (I'm referencing the ladder theory.....if you don't know what this is, the link is in the link section of this club). If he doesn't flirt back, he may just want to be friends, isn't too good at flirting, or just doesn't know how to gage you. If his responses are off, just give it some more time and a few more times. But if he continuously gives off the "no way jose are we flirting" vibe.....then I would move on to someone else.
I honestly think you are in a good spot with this guy and I think you two have a lot of potential. Just try to continue to talk to him, flirt a little, and have fun with him. Best of luck to you!
If you have questions or concerns, feel free to hit me up.
If anyone else has anything to add.....comment below! :D

~ Bakes
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OK.I HAVE THIS BRO FRIEND AND HE LIKES ME BUT I DONT LIKE HIM BACK-MISS DEADLYMAGZ
posted over a year ago.
 
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bakes2389 said:
Answered it! :)
posted over a year ago.