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why are guys so mean to girls

my exboyfriend is always mean to me
why are guys so mean to girls
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and why are you so sexist?
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You forgot the word "some"
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Emma01 said:
I heard its because they like you.

They just cant express it.

*From personal experience and observations*

Its like little kids; when kids are small the only way to express they like you is by having him pull her hair.

^^

Its called cute flirting.
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I heard its because they like you.

They just cant express it.

*From personal experience and observations*

Its like little kids; when kids are small the only way to express they like you is by having him pull her hair.

^^

Its called cute flirting.
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I agree with Emma01 100% :P
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LabraLege said:
Yes yes, they suck! This is normal, he is your ex. But aren't girls being mean to boys all the time? Sometimes I feel disguse for us, actually. We are more selfish than we think. Let's stop being only victims! Some of us are mean to every boy we don't like. It makes us double!
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Yeah it's totally true. We can be complete bitches to guys and still call ourselves the victims. I totally agree with you.
mercifulgirl666 posted over a year ago
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yea we can be so mean, to be honest thats why most of my friends are guys
skytail127 posted over a year ago
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that is very true.personal experience
phangs posted over a year ago
sweeneytodd9999 said:
Boys who are mean to girls are mean to everyone, and those guys are usually the ugliest ones, who want the others to feel bad and inferior to them. When they discover something "wrong" or just different with that person (like a problem, a crush, a too tall or a too small person, a girl wearing a bit of make-up...)they start being mean and just don't stop! It's awful, I know, but you just have to ignore it. If your ex boyfriend is being mean to you ignore it. If he goes too far and you just can't take it anymore, you smash him on the face or in the dick (it hurts so much that he will definitly stop).
And my ex was being mean to me too. Don't know why, but who understands boys? I wish I could.
I kept ignoring him and now he apologized. but it won't be the same anymore, that's guaranteed.
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True, They be mean to me for some of the reasons :'( (Well NOT most of the boys (; )
poddo posted over a year ago
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ya usualy a bully is just a bully, he's not worth your attention
skytail127 posted over a year ago
Sephisis17 said:
Hey people! I'm a guy, and I'd just like to speak for myself here. I'm not mean to girls. Never were and I'll probably never be. For one simple reason: they're the opposite sex, which means we guys are attracted to girls by nature. And I have to say that most of them are reeeeeaaallly cute. I know that you mean guys in general, but some of us are different. Some of us are kind and gentle to you, including me =D. P.S. That was pretty lame but still :P
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Thats so True
RanmaRaj posted over a year ago
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haha true true not all dudes are the same
latinlover posted over a year ago
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agreed, there are as many mean girls as there are boys, if not more
skytail127 posted over a year ago
Rupa said:
accordin to me guys just r using girls these days....its lyk when ever u need them u go to them
n at other times "i dunno who she is"....be really careful coz its happened 2 me too
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Laurencia7 said:
Because they suck! LOL
It depends on the relationship, try talking if that doesn't work...cut him loose, you don't need that.
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nxtactress said:
Some guys r just jerks! They think they're 'soo cool' and try 2 impress their friends. Some guys don't know how 2 act around a girl they like. And some guys r just doing what guys do, being guys. Only 2 of my ex-boyfriends talk 2 me, the one who dumped me, and the other one who I dumped. The one who dumped me I hate his guts soo much, I can't believe I dated him in the first place; he's selfish, immature, irresponsible, spoiled rotten, and a stupid moron.
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ditto... why do girls like us end up falling for such douche bags? XD
CCSunshine posted over a year ago
daddiesgirl said:
The reason your ex-boyfriend is so mean to you is because he jealous of who ever has stolen your heart. Its not that guys are jerks because not all are its just that he thinks that by being an jerk he can win you back. Just tell him he needs to stop because it just makes him seem like a child. He needs to face the facts that you've moved on.
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Deans_Girl said:
okay did you dump him? if you did he probs still has feelings for you, but just and is hurt that you dumped him, his actions are out of frustration with himself not you.

if he dumped you he probs regrets his decision and and want you back, guys heads can be twisted he doesn't understand that being mean inst the way.

either way ignore him and take time to see how he reacts when your around other guys. situations with ex's can be messy and are best left alone.
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summerlynn1978 said:
Its because he is mad at you for breaking up with him so hes trying to et u back.
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Lizzy-ILoveJB said:
It's cuz they like u and r 2 'embarressed' 2 express it cuz he thinks his friends will make fun of him! (HAPPENS 2 ME 2!!)
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RanmaRaj said:
Well I am a guy and can assure you that all guys are NOT mean.
Also the guys that are mean to gals are mean to everyone.
Believe me this is First Hand Information.
('.')
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i think every guy can be mean ... well not mean but they show off sometimes being rude with a girl ... usually the one they like .. WHY? they suckk! aagh haha im a heart broken right noow ... so i hatee guys haha lol
fegzii posted over a year ago
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Well maybe you are right. But I still think that all guys are not mean. I felt that I was mean to a girl yesterday but it was in reality due to her mild meanness
RanmaRaj posted over a year ago
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you know what fegzii girls tend to be meaner than guys, also, they may be playing with you, not understanding that you dont find it funny too! stop being so dramatic and learn to take a joke!!!
skytail127 posted over a year ago
kristinrocks said:
boys are too immature they never call theyer always trying to show off but that is normal
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LinaJC said:
most of the time guys, like in my school, don't think it's not cool to be all friendly to girls so i think that's why they are mean. just to act cool in front of their friends. sucks, right?
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I would understand why your ex would be mean, it could mean that he's either still in love with you or he feels sorry for dumping you and acts mean to help you get over him quicker. Well, if he was nice it'd be like that, but some guys just are mean like that. Some guys might've just been raised up being mean to girls.
jariahvue posted over a year ago
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i don't completely think that. even some guys who are mean to girls, sometimes they show mercy and is nice to girls. and why would their parents raise them to be mean girls?????? seriously!
LinaJC posted over a year ago
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it's not always them being mean, it may be you being dramatic!!!
skytail127 posted over a year ago
Frances_17 said:
They think that women will think they are good guys all big and bad so they will like them,but we girls don't like that. We like the sweet guys taht love you. Not the assholes that treat us like shit.
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agree sweet not shit love is the things we want not beeing treated like shit
e2mma2weasle3 posted over a year ago
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Yeah they think we are Idiots ( temper rising) * evil smile*
anime_lover posted over a year ago
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ya but the problem with that is guys can use that sweetness, and make u fall for them and it sucks cuz its wen u get in a serious relation ship u realize what dick they r
miyaismykitty posted over a year ago
penelope001 said:
your Ex, oviously wants you back!! (provoking) so, its his indirect unovious way of communicating it.. (annoying). but its cute.., not really..
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dsgirl said:
It could mean they like you or they just want to push your buttons. 'cause there was this guy who was always mean to me but he never liked me he just wanted to because it was fun to him. :(. & I don't like him.
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angel-of-power said:
some say a boy makes fun of a girl cause they like her...i think boys think there tough and can push girls around but not all boys r like that
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mhm... Not all boys but many
anime_lover posted over a year ago
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usually the "when a boy makes fun of a girl it mean he likes her" only lasts untill grade 5
miyaismykitty posted over a year ago
123maddie said:
Most people say boys abuse girls because they love them. Sounds stupid, right? Its 100% true. So it means your ex boyfriends still has feeling for you.......
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well not becuz they luv them, its hard to explain, they do luv u but they do it cuz its like a controling thing, they dont want u to leave them, so they feel the need to harm u so u'll stay, somthing like that anyways
miyaismykitty posted over a year ago
Lunzzy1 said:
have you ever heared the saying that when boys are mean to girls that means they like them but it could be wrong boys could be mean to girls because they dont know how to let out how they feel because are suppose to be strong but they just dont know how to say i love you and they hide that from people and they have this ego that says to just be mean dont tell how you feel because of what others might think of him leting out his feelings to a girl.Hope I help :) :( ;) Lunzzy1!!!!!
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have you ever heared the saying that when boys are mean to girls that means they like them but it could be wrong boys could be mean to girls because they dont know how to let out how they feel because are suppose to be strong but they just dont know how to say i love you and they hide that from people and they have this ego that says to just be mean dont tell how you feel because of what others might think of him leting out his feelings to a girl.Hope I help  :) :( ;) Lunzzy1!!!!!
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whitelight1412 said:
Not all guys are mean. You just happen to fall for the wrong guys.
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Abilei said:
I think it goes with the "they broke my heart" thing.

If a guy is mean to you during your preteen years there's a chance he likes you. If he's nice to you during your highschool years there's a chance he likes you. But guys mature later in life so guys that are mean mean to you even into your highschool years could still have a crush on you.

(I hope that made sence and helped.)
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Black_cat_ said:
well ex's r usually mean coz of how its ended with u. but otherwise i dont know, im as nice as i can b with girls, not for any purpose ,just to be friends ^_^
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kwnstantina13 said:
casuse they are a******* all they care about is theirselves they are hurting us and they dont care
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hey not all guys are like that, i agree for the majority but not all are arseholes . i do my best to try and make my friends feel as gd as they can and i always try and b as selfless as possible, i dont like attention but like giveing. so keep an open mind coz some guys are the idiots that most people know hun
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felicity1111 said:
i dont know but they always either take advantage of us or are really mean to us. if ur a guy nock it off!
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jeydonfan101 said:
I thought it was because they like u but I could be misken but we can also be mean to them to so we arent the only vics in the siution
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E-rock said:
Yeah its yer ex.
Not EVERY guy is.

Am not. [:
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hey, um im in the process of making a website its going to be called WhatsMilenaSayinNow? anyone is welcome there. If you have any guy trouble, family problems. ANYTHING! im there for you. whatever you tell me stays between you and I no one will know. Im a great girl that would love to give you advice. please help me make this website a success! thanks. <3milena.
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miyaismykitty said:
not all guys are mean, it just seems like that cuz(no afense to guys) there usually not as mature as girls, it takes them longer to mature, but it is true that there r bad guys who r out there, it usaully is because they were raised in bad surrondings, i personaly think that u shud brake up with a boy once he gets controllin, cuz that can lead to a bunch of things
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dearjohnlOv3r23 said:
hey, um im in the process of making a website its going to be called WhatsMilenaSayinNow? anyone is welcome there. If you have any guy trouble, family problems. ANYTHING! im there for you. whatever you tell me stays between you and I no one will know. Im a great girl that would love to give you advice. please help me make this website a success! thanks. <3milena.
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sam_642 said:
Most boys and guys are like that!!
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ljsb said:
Some people think is beause they like u......but i don't really know

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Some people think is beause they like u......but i don't really  know
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Miranda-Cullen said:
o well i think they r mean cause they like you i mean i guess it prob depends on the age you are cause middle skool guys use to b mean to the girls they liked yet i thnk as we get older guys find diff ways of telling a girl they like them
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ellie_bellie135 said:
They're not. Only dicks, ex-boyfriends, and guys who like you. Course there will always be people who flat out don't like you. But it's possible your ex is just at his anger stage of grief and just hasn't healed properly. Or flat out does,t like you. You can never tell. Rrrrr -.-
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jeftelover said:
that happend to me.i broke up with my
ex and now hes alwase yelling at me and saying
i hate you!lol...
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borg3 said:
I can tell u
we re flirting with u girls and that's why we re doin it ;D
We re doin it because we like u girlz
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iloveBTR said:
they either like you or are jealous of you. i personally don't see what they have to be jealous of; we're the ones that go through pain and agony, giving birth to their children while they just have a fun time getting into our pants
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autumnstander said:
when someone is mean to u that means they have feelings for u still
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when someone is mean to u that means they have feelings for u still
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cuddly-pandas said:
Not all guys suck. Some are really sweet. But
sometimes when a boy is mean to a girl, it's
because they like them. They try to get attention
from the girl even if it is negative.
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posted over a year ago 
shadrack said:
There are many resons i'll just quot a few
[1.]sometimes a guy wants to inpress the girl he is with so much that he puts his wants aside for you he may send you little hints like my buddy went to see so and so in concert last week i think that is so cool he mite say, if this sounds fimillyer then he is looking for your input not 2 say this is every guy and this depends on both the guy and or what kind of relisnship you have with eachother but some of us guys have seen abuse towards women and don't want to be that guy so we try hard to inpress and leave ourself out,
[2]It mite not concern you at all maybe he is going trough a tuff time, this is not a excuss at all what i am saying is that thourghout history a man is showed and or told what makes him a man and the one i have a hard time with as a man we to be strong for a women when somthing is bothering me, it,s like if i talk to the oppisit sex then i may not look the part of a strong and smooth super hero type anymore,and the same is to talk to my buddy about it, so where do i go mom or dad maybe i want to inpress them too most likly i just think it out in my own little head untill i have a solution and thean i'll shear what was going on at that point.
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lolipop120 said:
hu...i think that his way of loving u or showing that he is storng and showing that he loves u im not good giveing advies
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hu...i think that his way of loving u or showing that he is storng and showing that he loves u im not good giveing advies
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jbeatty5336 said:
As I was told by an "ex" (the dumper)..."I'm trying to forget you". Nice! This was from someone who made me promise to be a friend forever. I tried to be a friend and catch up on news but he verbally attacked me and patronized me. I'll never speak to him again.
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xenriquegrl said:
Cuz, they like you. They might deny this but guys have this strange way of expressing their feelings. Some of them is because they really like to show off. But no matter how mean an ex is with you, just know that it's so not your fault.
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iliveingallifey said:
guys r to stuped to show there feeling or they r scard to be rejected
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RnBStar13 said:
Because they are arseholes!
Kick him in the balls!!!!!!!!!
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That 2. U go girl!
xenriquegrl posted over a year ago
dxcfan said:
Because boys don't know anything, especially when they see a girl they like. Boys are their meanest when they see a girl that is pretty, and it's also because of their egos. All boys have egos, some bigger than others. Sometimes egos can make boys be jerks to girls, even to ones they like.

Some boys are just mean because their jerks.
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kairi13050 said:
the guys that are mean to girls are either just mean or douche bags. but you all act like all guys are mean. you people are disgusting. not all guys are that mean. i've never met a guy that is that bad ... except this one kid ... but he's crazy ... O_o

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141516 said:
some are butts some r not
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larrah111 said:
Not all guys are mean... someguys are mean I've had guys be really means to me but most guys are really nice. I would assume that if they're mean that they either hate you or Really like you and don't know how to show it :)
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shivers-zimmy said:
I wouldn't say all boys.

I think your ex is being mean to you because he either still likes you, or he misses the times you guys spent together-and trust me theres a big difference. But the guy is trying to cover it up so he's acting like a complete jerk-off in hopes that no one will see through his game. Lucky for you, I do.

Trust me on this though, just ignore him.
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writer67 said:
some guys find it hard to talk of how they feel when they hurt, and its easier to say the words to hurt another, and to show feelings isnt a sign of a good guy, got to be tough strong and macho, dont have to talk much. but most guys when they get older and have daughters we realise, how we were, and there is no way that is going to happen to our daughters. and for a guy to let his gf now of himself, can lead to betrayal at times of parture. samson and delilah. blame is easier than acepting the responsibility of acceptance of the wrong. its easier to say its your fault, SOME will say they are wrong and makeups can begin to mend two broken hearts, to either become freinds or partners or to part as mature persons to go their seperate ways.;-]
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Saku15 said:
The guys've a very evil and mean side, but usually they're very kind.
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