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How do you know when your ex hates you?

We ended on a good note, it wasn't a bad break up or anything and he even said he didn't want it to end. But he hasn't spoke to me in a month and he said he would still talk to me and meet up with me and stuff and he hasn't....yet, anyway. And also like 2 weeks ago i went on facebook and as soon as I went online he went off, do you think he hates me or what? i'm confused. I haven't done anything either. Cause when he left me he told me he loves me but the relationship has to end cause he could end up hurting me. Do you think he hates me or do you think he still likes me?
 RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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cookiehead101 said:
i dont think he hates u i just think he needs some time or he just feels awkward cuz after all u r his ex so maybe he just feels awkward or needs some space just leave him alone if it continues next time u c him ask him if anythings wrong or if u did something 2 offend him
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posted over a year ago 
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I have left him alone, I haven't bothered him at all.Like I said I haven't spoke to him in a month . And I will
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
Karthigesh said:
Sweetie, let me speak to you from a guy's perspective. I doubt it is easy for him to talk to you normally now after breaking up. It's always hard for exes to stay friends, especially during the beginning stages where it is just plain awkward. This awkwardness can however go away if the guy puts in the effort to be a little more mature about it and talk to you....

Truthfully I think he is still isn't quite over you yet, maybe that is why he is avoiding you. You should give him some time, and see if he talks to you soon, because when he is ready he will. If he still doesn't then you are better off, just not talking to him altogether because it is a matter of mutual respect and friendship.

One last thing sweetie, never ever, blame yourself and think you are the one at fault. I know you are quite confused about his behavior but you have done nothing wrong so do not think that he hates you. He has his own issues and he needs to work through them, trust me, if you are important to him, he would work hard on it and be friends with you, like what a proper gentleman of a guy should do.

Never let yourself feel second-best okay? somewhere out there is a guy who will treat you as his priority, and give you the love that you deserve :D keep your head held high always
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posted over a year ago 
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I know, but he promised to still talk to me and meet up with me, do you think he is just giving it time and that he will talk to me? and I won't thanks for the great advice :)
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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Guys are always cautious about a girl's feelings. I think he is nervous and a little afraid to talk to you, because it is a big change, from couple to friends. He just needs to realize that he can still love you as a friend and watch over you and care for you and be there for you when you need a shoulder. Most of all he will want you to be happy. I can see he means a lot to you so I really do hope he works up the courage and be friends with you again. Any man can make a promise sweetie, only a real man keeps it...
Karthigesh posted over a year ago
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