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So. Why do some people dream of the person they DONT want to think about?

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In my case it was something that had recently ended. so this question was my mood at the time, The dream: I always saw him walking away.
SeizeAll posted over a year ago
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i have the exact same question! except for me i keep dreaming about someone who hates me and is a total jerk to me! and in my dream he always ends up as the perfect boyfriend for me! what are dreams supposed to mean?
daddiesgirl posted over a year ago
 SeizeAll posted over a year ago
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sweet_n_silly said:
i think, if this makes sense, that not focusing on what (or who) we don't want to brings more thoughts too us. consequently, we dream of what/ who more.
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penelope001 said:
they dream about the person they dont want to think about because:
dreams are a way, a subconscious way of resolving problems.subconsciously as in, you cant Control it and you have no controll over it. so you are obviously disturbed by this person one way or another and when you dream, its your minds way of wanting to resolve the problem.Or, your minds way of resolving the problem. so resolving the problem in this case is the dream.
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bubblykat91 said:
dreams ARE totally random. i kno i have dreams that dont fit into anything that has happened during the day... i remember the night i had my first dream abt this guy i kindaish like...it made me realize more thing abt my "relationsjip" with him. i've realized he's more a friend than a bf. i think dreams kind of teach u things, or help u decide upon hard things. the dream abt the person who u ont wanna think abt...i think it's your subconscious telling us that the person is someone to watch...that they are meant to be in our life for some reason bc they are invading our dreams....
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but what if your dreaming about someone who hates you and is a total jerk? in my dreams the gut ends up as the perfect boyfriend for me! what is my dream trying to tell me?!?
daddiesgirl posted over a year ago
jariahvue said:
I think the person that they don't want to think about is the person that they can't get out of their mind no matter what they do. Sometimes it seems like you're not thinking of that person but you are acutally thinking about that person so much that that person enters your dreams.
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posted over a year ago 
Bookworm4Lyf said:
i no this is not an answer but i have dreams lyk that all the time...eww lol maybe its our subconscience telling us we lyk them...noooooo!!!!
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Jillywinkles said:
Dreams are random. I've tried and tried to dream about the person I'm in love with---I think about them all day long, I think about them as I go to sleep--and I NEVER dream about them. Don't worry about it, dreams don't mean anything. Trust your conscious mind, not your subconscious. :)
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edwardcullenfrk said:
dreams can be about anything really but usually people say if u go to bed thinking about that person that u will have a dream about them
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RulerL0rd said:
I dream of the person i want to think about not the opposite
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BaybieBetty009 said:
I think what it's trying to tell when you have those kinds of dreams, is people can very well be different than they appear if you'd open your mind a little. I had a dream about this guy I thought I'd NEVER like. He had bushy hair and tried to act cool all the time and was never really nice to me. He was helping me to get away from evil Mickey Mouse(I watch too much TV) and took me to his house to hide. It was kinda nice. I feel lyk I still don't like him but then, sometimes I just think a little... =D
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Sweet_Pants said:
Like attracts like. People are used to thinking about what they don't want, and consequently a chain reaction starts. One thought leads to about 10 more about what you don't want.
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felicity1111 said:
u mite like them even if u dont know that u like them
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ljsb said:
I don't know why but last night i dreamed about i guy i wanna forget forever!!!!!!!!

PS. am a female/girl
is not me on the icon just wanna be clear i don't want people thinking am GAY
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spikes_girl said:
lol, how do u dream of the person u DO wanna think about??
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cuddly-pandas said:
People never control their own dreams.
Sometimes people dream of the last thing they
seen or thought hardly of. If you dream of
something you don't want to think about, then you
can't control it but maybe it's a sign of
something.
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beatles1fan said:
Possiblably because your mind wants you to remember why you hate them so much. It also may be because you want them to behave differently towards you or others and your mind trys to imagine that. (The latter happens to me all of the time.)
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Itsmejordyn411 said:
I took a class about dreams. & it states, That dreams are feelings our souls hold for a specific moment, thought, or person. Some people such as me have completely random dreams. Such as "a person with a walrus head" or something. This could be your souls way of telling you about its feelings.
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xenriquegrl said:
Dreams are usually ur subconscious talking.

You can't control your dreams. Dreams usually are the way you see them when you sleep during events of the day. Som of em are pretty obvious, some of them just, don't make sense at all. But they relate to the events of the day.

Since it's your subconscious, in your head (in your case since you dream about the person you don't wanna think about) it usually goes on with the fact that u either wanna forgive, forget or just randomly think about and so on.

And this is also a way of moving on. Beleive it or not. It's just how your head works.
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prity10 said:
becoz they hate the person so much that even if they dont want to think abt them they keep thinking abt them and slowly it becomes an habbit to think abt them and then they think abt them so much that they start falling for them
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