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How can you tell if a guy likes u??????????I mean I get all the if he smiles at u but I really like this guy but I dont know if he likes me back because I dont see him that often HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

 jeydonfan101 posted over a year ago
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Jamie86 said:
Guys need more time to acknowledge and understand their feelings. So when he has developed feelings for you, it doesn't mean that he is already ready to act upon those. In a way, that's a good thing, because the time he needs to adjust himself to the idea of liking someone, you can gradually get to know him better. Just be friendly, be yourself. When he's ready he'll give you something more to work with. And because you got to know each other a little better it will be easier for him to show you his feelings. But, just like you, he might be insecure wether you like him or not. So, give him a clear signal every now and then. Flirt a little with him. The fact that you dare to flirt with him shows that your quite confident, something guys like in a girl. And remember, there's nothing wrong or embarrassing at being in love, and being able to make yourself a little vulnerable by showing your feelings, makes you more mature.

You know when a guy likes you when he tries to act all manly aroundyou (I think it's some remainder of our cave men period). He might get a little jealous when you're with another guy, he might talk to you more (even though what he's saying doesn't make much sense) or he might talk less to you, because he's shy or uncertain. What also works great for you, is to make sure that his friends like you. That will make it easier for him to confess his feelings for you and when you are dating you won't have trouble with his friends.

Hope this helps! Good luck!
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posted over a year ago 
CullenProperty said:
Well... you never really know what a guy thinks until you lay your feelings out on the table. Do you like him? Cause if you do & you think that you could have something together, then you shoudl tell him how you feel. (I know that's what I had to do with my guy:). And be ready for anything that he can throw at you, just because he smiles at you and acts all nice and caring and sweet, does not mean that he'll only want to be friends. (Like with what happened with my guy.) You have to give yourself preperation to get rejected or accepted. If he likes you, then awesome possum!! But if he doesn't, just breath and think that there are other guys out there.

To answer your question is to more like ask you another one: How do you feel? And if you like him then go for it. If you don't, then just try to be nice to him and if he confesses that he likes you, then (like what my guy did), ask him if it's okay if you can just be friends.

I really hope I helped because I know what your going through; It's hard not to know how a guy feels for you, especially if you like him. If he's giving you mixed signals and then rejects you, just breath.
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thespikedturtle said:
Well, if you don't see him very often, it's really hard to tell. But if I liked a girl, I would get really shaky around her and mess up what I say, look for signs like that. If you look up and he's looking at you, but looks away, that's another sign.
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nawww cute.
Deans_Girl posted over a year ago
blue_eyez said:
just be urself!!! if he really luvs u he will make a move, if not then u will stay friends. But the one thing u should never do is ask him if he luvs u/ask him out ESPECIALLY if he is with his m8s,coz he will say no, and u will look really desparete, soz if its harsh but its happened 2 me and i don't want u 2 make the same mistake!so just flirt a little, and show him what fun u r 2 be around!!! hope it helps! xxx
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just be urself!!! if he really luvs u he will make a move, if not then u will stay friends. But the one thing u should never do is ask him if he luvs u/ask him out ESPECIALLY if he is with his m8s,coz he will say no, and u will look really desparete, soz if its harsh but its happened 2 me and i don't want u 2 make the same mistake!so just flirt a little, and show him what fun u r 2 be around!!! hope it helps! xxx
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