i truly believe that in todays society we females and males in some cases lower our honor and dignity by flaunting our bodies in unhealthy ways we think that thats the norm that it is cool and fashionable .if you look you can find modest yet flattering clothes to your taste. another point teenage boys may think you ...for lack of other words hot .....true good men will respect you more i read this test most men respect women who where shoulders covered neckline not scantily low and lastly wear skirts this does not mean you cant wear pants i do but it does show modesty look up this website www.modestclothes.com