I've had plenty of experiences with bullying. Plenty.
I used to get picked on a lot from even Day Care when I was around four to seventh grade. Eighth and ninth, I admit I was sort of doing the teasing. I went too far with some jokes with a friend, Rachael (but I did wish she sat me down and told me about it instead of telling other people who got in my face a day later), and last year I called this one boy, "Little Dickless Duffy" because he made me mad about something, and everyone ended up calling him that.
I think bullying is a harrowing epidemic, and it needs to be stopped. In the end, it's not fun being the victim or the bully. As a victim, you go through life thinking you're never good enough or who will make fun of me this school year? As a bully, after you mature a little you'll be aware that you really hurt someone, and that this someone will remember what you did to them forever. I do wish I could have the chance to apologize to Duffy (Yes, that's his name). But I don't see him a lot now.
bullying is actually disgusting and so disrespectful!
yeah, some people are so rude to others, doesn't mean you have to throw it back in their face, they might be going through a rough stage in their life! you dont really know me, you know that girl you just called 'fat' yeah she might be dealing with her weight right now, you just dont know. that girl you just called 'ugly' might have so little self-confidence. and never ever talk about someones family! thats worse than talking about them! i have no respect for anybody that bullys, they are so sick! tbh, how can someone live with themself knowing they're doing this to innocent people? yeah, some of them might be 'annoying' sometimes, doesnt mean you have to verbally or physically bully them, please one day just take a step back, and think about it first!
Unfortunately, I have experience about bullying. I have been bullied quite a bit growing up, and I don't get bullied at school anymore, but I still occasionally get bullied online. I've never been a bully, because I don't want to inflict that kind of pain on others. It is a terrible thing. I don't like it, and I think more needs to be done to stop it.
I hate bullying, it's wrong and no reason for it. I was bullied in Junior High and part of High School. I never realised that I had been bullied until just a few years ago. The person who bullies however, doesn't realise what they say can actually do to a person. But in my opinion a person who bullies others are just insecure with themselves. They feel down about themselves so they decide to hurt someone else whether it's about their apperance, sexuality, home life, etc. Either way, bullying isn't the answer. And what bullies don't understand is that you bully one person or multiple people, you don't make others like you, you make others simply hate you. Where I live, there have been schools that have been banning bullying, they don't want it in their schools. Which I think is a good thing. The teachers need to do something about the bullying that's going on in their schools. Then there's the cyber bullying, now you can't do much about it because it's over the internet. I'm still hoping that one day bullying will cease to exist.
I've been bullied at school since everyone found out my last name was Shepherd (altered spelling), which was the common thing they'd tease me about. I seriously think kids need to get over themselves and realize that making fun of or beating up on others gets them nowhere in life.
I hate it.Ive been bullied a couple times at my school.On the news once,it showed a girl being bullied by to guys,and a couple weeks later,she brought a gun with her to school and when they started bullying her again,she brought it out,i dont think anyone wants that to happen to them.STOP THE BULLYING!
In my opinion, people bully others to make themselves feel important and big. They probably have a low self esteem and want to be known as a srong person....The best thing you can do to a bully is ignore them...if they get physical, tell someone
I've been bullyied since 3rd grade and up *sighs* The girls, at leats most, Are jerks to girls who arent all about make-up or style. I don't really care bout that much, but My friend teased me and called me a "nerd" cuz im smart and I thought that was a little bullying and I have glasses :<
I don't think so, I have stood up for myself before but only a couple times.
I think it's a negative damage to anyone. It can cause low self-esteem, loniness and many other things. I'v been bulied and I think the bully's just want to power up there "own" selfesteem, or they just like to be a Jerk
Most adults and parents see bullying as normal child behavior, as playground bullies. However, the bullying behavior in question is one that attacks another person's psyche.
Compare the situation to TV commercials; the more an advertisement is played, the more believable it sounds. As time progresses the commercial will become more and more convincing. Same with bullying. The more peers call someone a name (ugly, fat, dumb, etc.) the more believable the comments become.
As you can see, this can really mess with a person's head. It becomes harder and harder to brush off the insults as if they were no big deal.
My one and only piece of advice would be to make it look like it is not affective. Like you didn't hear it. Don't retaliate. Don't take it. Carry on with your own life. Focus on something else. Don't let your decisions revolve around what someone might think of you. (i'm not wearing this shirt because it makes me look like a whore--at least thats what she said.)
Wear whatever, eat whatever, and say whatever you normally do. Just don't stoop to their level. Because you ARE better than that.
in my opinion, all teachers and security should watch everything what is happening. I end up in a good place but there was something with the teachers which I hated it I had to deal with it every single I never got there funny silly whatever . they pick on the wrong kid I suffered almost all my life with strong emotions. no wonder some students just quick school , drop out, some are slow learners, some are just extremely shy, but those are listeners, philosophes that will change our lifes our new generation. if you want less chaos please help the youth do not put a negative quote. those can help our community.
My thoughts are make a difference or become aware of the bulling and teach your family about virtue,communication and individuality because this is what defines us from animals. I say this because parents get confused and put limitations on there family that only holds them back from finding purpose in life and reasons to make a difference, if they were tought how to listen to there inner voice that tells them they don't like what's going on to them or others and had the ability to express them selves as human beings and not resort to retaliation of repetition of words and actions that have no solution to the ignorance at hand, of what is the right way to treat each individual and how to get rid of ones self pride so there able to accept ones own ignorance
Because we all know nature always shows us SIN dose not exist, it's survival of the fittest, for animals that is. but because nature dose not aply to just the word and meaning of animal but the whole world we live in, it only goes to show the more reason to show more intelligence and less ignorance towards life and how we can advance as a intelligent race and not as survivalist on a crash cause with death.
These so called destiny's are killing us in our tracks before we make a difference, don't try to tie individual's around you in to your Grave, because every ones cup is different in size. But remember that nothing works in order, like how a small cup should fill up first before the big cup. It goes either way.
Also when some one reads what I have come to know through trial and error. understand that when you believe you know or have the answer , it only shows your ignorance as much as your growth and that the next elevation of the same problem makes my truth seem wrong because it dose not solve the next question. I know that what I have typed to be correct and to be a step in the right direction. if your ignorance proceeds you, and you still proclaim I'm wrong. you are saying my whole life of trials and found purpose in life is wrong even though you know little about what it mean to be human your self. Now if you still don't agree let me ask you this do you believe in the potential of humankind. If so then you will understand there is more than one solution to a problem because we are not alone ...
1.) Yes, I have experienced bullying numerous times. Especially in junior high school. I was known as the weak, unpopular kid that everyone looked down upon. Everything about me was a flaw in their obnoxious perspective. In their eyes, I was grossly overweight. Which leaded me into being called pregnant. All of the bullying I went through back in junior high led me into the suicidal ideations that directed me almost to hell countless times and self-harming as well.
I was once in a residential for self-harming and attempting suicide. I met a girl who was bullied severely for "being afraid to take showers" as the girls at the facility said. I felt so bad for her because I was the only one who actually knew why she didn't take showers. She was overly insecure and despised herself so much. So she thought taking showers wouldn't make a difference. The girls at the residential intentionally tried to make the poor girl cry. And every time she'd cry, it'd break my heart. She was a very beautiful and intelligent girl, but because of all the bullying back home and at the residential, she saw nothing but ugliness and stupidity when that's not even what's there.
2.) Shamefully, I will have to answer that question with a yes. I was an "off-and-on" bully to a guy who is now a very close friend of mine. To be honest, I believe it was because he threatened to push me down the stairs and wrote songs about me fucking every guy I meet. But we're okay now. Just fine. x)
3.) My blunt opinion on it is that a lot of people deserve a swift punch in the throat. If they really get the enjoyment of harassing weaker and smaller people with their idiotic point outs, their obnoxious insults and rumors, and how they intentionally and cruelly leave others out, they must still have the brains of an eight-year old.
I think bullying is disgusting ! I don't get why people do it and I don't see the fun and joy in making people feel like nothing making people feel like they should just die and leave or there friends and family behind!! I've been bullied by so many different people even some people in my family.
Bullying isn't nessary it's pointless , bullies are just disgusting people who to get a grip of reality and realise that what they are doing isn't right and they need to put and end to what they are doing because one day they will be responsible for one of their poor victims death
Bullying is disgusting and uncool. Only uncool, insecure, cowards bully people. They are just insecure themselves and they make fun of other people to make themselves feel better about themselves. There is NEVER an excuse for bullying.
Sadly, I have experience about bullying. I have been bullied since I was a little kid, and I still get bullied every now and then. In fact, I was beaten a couple of days ago. I've never been a bully. I was taught better than that. I think bullying should be put to an end. It's not cute, it's not funny, and it means the person is insecure.
I had gone through a lot of bullying when I was on Elementary and Junior High School.
Of course, it's wrong. A terrible thing to experience. Lately, I have seen many educational programs trying to increase people's awareness about the subject. Unfortunately, there is still much to do !!!!
I think, no I'm sure, that bullying is stupid and useless.
I have experience in that:
This year, for exemple (I have many other experiences), I am in a really bad class. There are kind of 5 or 6 guys who are bullying the others. And the others are not doing anithing!
Well, it changed, because I couldn't stay like that and look my friends being bullied by those stupid guys! So, when one of my friends came to me and when I saw that she was crying a lot, I went to see the "bulliers" (they are one year older than me) and I shout on them, and said every thing I thought on them. After (nobody in my class moved so I did it), I went to see teachers and I told them the problem. During many hours, the director went in my class and scolded every one. Many of my classmates cried and some ran out of the room. After, I did a hug to all of them (no matter if they were girls or boys XD).
They were all happy and the "bulliers" (I did hugs to them too, even if I don't like them) said they were sorry to everyone and said thet they won't do it anymore...
^^ So if you're bullied, you should do something. If you're a bullier, think of what your "victims" might be feeling and STOP, and if your a bystander, talk to someone else, do something, and if you want give hugs to every one!!! <3
In 7th grade in 1st trimester I got bullied. It was always in every period. He made fun of me for being so happy all the time, so I stopped being happy for weeks and felt suicidal. But I wanted it to stop, so I talked to a counsiler, and she heped me, I also stood up to myself, I asked him "Why are you so mean to me?" "What did I ever do to you?" He did not reply. He stopped and now we are best friends. He told me he is sorry. It's not cool to bully. It is always ok to talk to an adult and don't be scared. Have fun and cherish the moments in your life. If you need help from a friend or family member its always ok to ask- Even if you are scared.