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Nitpicking your relationships?

How often do you do that? By relationships, I imply all sort of rel...Your mom, siblings, friend, partner anyone? Like...always focusing too much on whether they replied to you or not. Or whether they ignoring you or not. Well, I used to do that when I was a teenager, but I learned that "expectation" is the root problem. At first, I had a tough time not expecting anything. Later I have become totally immune to this. I do love and care about my loved ones, but I really don't care whether they care me/ love me. If they do, then that's good. If they don't, I could care less. My ego is zero. Especially if it's a text based communication, I even care less than real life. That doesn't mean idc about that person, but I don't expect anything from them and neither do I hold myself responsible for their expectation.
 BlueDopamine posted 3 days ago
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THaSlimJim said:
im p chill w that stuff tbh im p easy 2 get along w nd im not vry high maitnence friend
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posted 3 days ago 
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I like you, dude. ♥
BlueDopamine posted 3 days ago
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Not the friend we deserve, but the friend we need
BlueDopamine posted 3 days ago
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aw shucks pal
THaSlimJim posted 3 days ago
JetBlack__ said:
Jet
is a quiet person,I just ignore those things.
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posted 3 days ago 
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<3 mah quiet nigga
BlueDopamine posted 3 days ago
Rihanna312 said:
Overall I`m not really nitpicky. It either works or not. No need to overthink anything. I`m chill that way.
Talking about texting, it really depends on the person and subject. I myself can be both - either answer back asap with long paragraphs or take ages to write back few sentences. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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posted 3 days ago 
Riku114 said:
I dont really nitpick relationships too much cause getting upset at the small things are really just problematic. I do keep an eye out for general red flags cause I really dont want to get stuck in an unhealthy relationship again.
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posted 3 days ago 
Nick3600 said:
i nitpick other people's relationships. When I see one of them use punctuation in their texts, I assume they are unhappy with them, perhaps for something they did or said previously, or when I see that one of them sends a dick pic, i assume they have erectile dysfunction and are simply seeking advice.
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posted 2 days ago 
Zeppie said:
I don't do it.
I feel like it was something I did in my adolescence as I was insecure and constantly needing to find reassurance and value.
I'd say now I've reached a place in my life where I'm confident in the relationships around me and just let them flow as they are.
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