read these tips on how you can ruin a date so you can avoid ruining one in the future.
1)DO NOT OVER ANALYZE THE RELATIONSHIP
most guys freak when they hear the word relationship in the early days of dating. they think "oh no why did she have to go spoil things by bringing this up?!"They also often think that when a girl wants to talk about a relationship, she really means she wants to pick him apart, expose all his flaws, and make him feel like a toad. If you really feel you need to talk about the relationship, try a softer approach. Avoid issuing an order like, "We need to talk about us," which most guys find terrifying. Instead, try a more specific statement like, "For the last week or so, I’ve noticed this has been happening, and so I've been thinking this. How do you see it?" By staying low-key, you may help your guy to open up and recognize that talking about feelings doesn't have to feel weird.
2) OBSESSING ABOUT YOUR APPEARANCE
When a guy hears you badmouth the way you look, he feels trapped in a no-win situation. He knows that if he says, "Well, yeah. You could stand to lose a few pounds," he's going to upset you. And if he says, "C'mon! You look fine to me," you’ll think he's just saying that to make you feel good. So why even ASK appearance-related questions in the first place? Probably because you're looking for some kind of reassurance from him. A hint that he finds you attractive. Or that it's your inner beauty — not your outer physique — that's won him over. While there's nothing wrong with wanting a compliment, it's best not to fish for one. Guys get tired of hearing girls ask lame, obvious questions like, "Do you like my hair this way?" or "Does this dress look dumb?" or "Do you notice anything different about me?" It makes them think that a girl's insecure, and they don't want to feel responsible for bolstering her self-image all the time.
REMEMBER JUST BECAUSE HE DOESNT SHOWER YOU WITH CONFIDENCE DONT THINK THE WORST.
3) ACTING LIKE A PARTY GIRL
If you think guys notice girls who drink or do drugs, you're right. It's hard to ignore a girl who staggers around, slurring her words, cigarette in one hand, a beer in the other. But that kind of attention probably isn’t the kind you want to attract. "I've known some girls who act really wild because they think that's what guys like," "But the kind of girl I'm interested in is one who can have fun without getting wasted." says my cousin lee.
4)BRINGING UP YOUR EX
It's natural to compare a guy you're now dating to an old flame. In fact, such comparisons can help you figure out what you find appealing about someone or help you to avoid making the same mistake twice. But you don't need to fill your date in on your observations. So what if he and your ex wear the same cologne? What's the point in telling him that your ex was also really nervous the first time he met your dad? Such comments only serve to confuse a guy or, worse, give him a complex. Don't believe it? Consider how tortured you'd feel if your date started comparing you to his ex!
5)CRITIQUING HIS APPEARANCE
You're just trying to be helpful, right? Like when you point out how much better he'd look if he wore something besides those ratty sneakers. Or cut his hair like Justin Timberlake's.
You may think you're doing a guy a favor when you're 100 percent honest with him. But remember, there's a difference between being honest and being tactful. If you find yourself obsessing over the fact that your guy could look SO MUCH better (or make better grades, or be more popular, or whatever), consider whether it could be YOU who needs to change. You may be so hung up on your image as a couple that you've forgotten why you're a couple in the first place. If that's the case, try to stop looking at your guy through critical eyes. It'll do your heart — and your relationship — good!
1)DO NOT OVER ANALYZE THE RELATIONSHIP
most guys freak when they hear the word relationship in the early days of dating. they think "oh no why did she have to go spoil things by bringing this up?!"They also often think that when a girl wants to talk about a relationship, she really means she wants to pick him apart, expose all his flaws, and make him feel like a toad. If you really feel you need to talk about the relationship, try a softer approach. Avoid issuing an order like, "We need to talk about us," which most guys find terrifying. Instead, try a more specific statement like, "For the last week or so, I’ve noticed this has been happening, and so I've been thinking this. How do you see it?" By staying low-key, you may help your guy to open up and recognize that talking about feelings doesn't have to feel weird.
2) OBSESSING ABOUT YOUR APPEARANCE
When a guy hears you badmouth the way you look, he feels trapped in a no-win situation. He knows that if he says, "Well, yeah. You could stand to lose a few pounds," he's going to upset you. And if he says, "C'mon! You look fine to me," you’ll think he's just saying that to make you feel good. So why even ASK appearance-related questions in the first place? Probably because you're looking for some kind of reassurance from him. A hint that he finds you attractive. Or that it's your inner beauty — not your outer physique — that's won him over. While there's nothing wrong with wanting a compliment, it's best not to fish for one. Guys get tired of hearing girls ask lame, obvious questions like, "Do you like my hair this way?" or "Does this dress look dumb?" or "Do you notice anything different about me?" It makes them think that a girl's insecure, and they don't want to feel responsible for bolstering her self-image all the time.
REMEMBER JUST BECAUSE HE DOESNT SHOWER YOU WITH CONFIDENCE DONT THINK THE WORST.
3) ACTING LIKE A PARTY GIRL
If you think guys notice girls who drink or do drugs, you're right. It's hard to ignore a girl who staggers around, slurring her words, cigarette in one hand, a beer in the other. But that kind of attention probably isn’t the kind you want to attract. "I've known some girls who act really wild because they think that's what guys like," "But the kind of girl I'm interested in is one who can have fun without getting wasted." says my cousin lee.
4)BRINGING UP YOUR EX
It's natural to compare a guy you're now dating to an old flame. In fact, such comparisons can help you figure out what you find appealing about someone or help you to avoid making the same mistake twice. But you don't need to fill your date in on your observations. So what if he and your ex wear the same cologne? What's the point in telling him that your ex was also really nervous the first time he met your dad? Such comments only serve to confuse a guy or, worse, give him a complex. Don't believe it? Consider how tortured you'd feel if your date started comparing you to his ex!
5)CRITIQUING HIS APPEARANCE
You're just trying to be helpful, right? Like when you point out how much better he'd look if he wore something besides those ratty sneakers. Or cut his hair like Justin Timberlake's.
You may think you're doing a guy a favor when you're 100 percent honest with him. But remember, there's a difference between being honest and being tactful. If you find yourself obsessing over the fact that your guy could look SO MUCH better (or make better grades, or be more popular, or whatever), consider whether it could be YOU who needs to change. You may be so hung up on your image as a couple that you've forgotten why you're a couple in the first place. If that's the case, try to stop looking at your guy through critical eyes. It'll do your heart — and your relationship — good!
one day i went hollywood and saw taylor lautner, made out and my friend got jelous tryed to make out with robbert pattison and told her to f-of she got angry and kicked him were the sun dont shine. me and taylor were going out then she tryed to crash thios party were in din't work and got arested and we brock her out. she went round my back and made out with taylor, i kicked HER were the sun don't shine she cryed in pain she got a gun tryed to kill me i called the cops she killed them so i used my awsome looks against her and stabed her in the eye she got pissed and killed taylor so i killed her mom. foung her in the bin kissing a rat who was biting her lip she got rabies and died. i got married to robbert and had three kids called bella, edward and jacob and lived happyliy ever after.
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