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what do u do when u feel like having sex but u know ur really not ready to

not going to lie but some times i feel like im sooooooo ready to have sex but then its times i feel like im not going to be ready 4 a long time plz help n no bad answers p.s im only 12 about to be 13
 geekygirl1999 posted over a year ago
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Yes masturbating, before loosing virginity, during marriage, and after, (when that certain urge hits). I believe it is normal. The body needs release physically at times, and I am not referring to dwelling on lustful thoughts. Sure you can shift your thoughts and attention away from anything remotely "sexual" or "lustful" but that doesn't always do the trick even focusing on a movie, or cooking... You do not have to have sex to rub or use a finger privately to stimulate your body parts and climax where and when you feel safe and comfortable that is private to give that release.

We tell guys to take a COLD shower!

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Yes masturbating, before loosing virginity, during marriage, and after, (when that certain urge hits). I believe it is normal. The body needs release physically at times, and I am not referring to dwelling on lustful thoughts. Sure you can shift your thoughts and attention away from anything remotely "sexual" or "lustful" but that doesn't always do the trick even focusing on a movie, or cooking... You do not have to have sex to rub or use a finger privately to stimulate your body parts and climax where and when you feel safe and comfortable that is private to give that release. 

[b]We tell guys to take a COLD shower![/b]
posted over a year ago 
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I take cold showers and it ALWAYS!!! Makes me feel aroused >//////< lol
DarkCruz360 posted over a year ago
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Yes- you are the exception (I have found) & I know- it turns YOU ON! XD hehe
Sinna_Hime_chan posted over a year ago
CornChips said:
I focus my attention onto something else.
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Sutelc22 said:
yur body sometimes gives u a signal that you want 2 have sex and thats normal,because your growing up.but in your heart,you know your not ready.i have found that its best 2 always follow what your heart is telling u because its ussually right.when the time comes,your heart and your body will both agree on it,then the time will be right.this is what i have told my children when they were growing up.take it slow.theres plenty of time 4 sex later on.good luck.
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posted over a year ago 
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thank u soo much
geekygirl1999 posted over a year ago
jester616 said:
To be perfectly frank, you can pleasure yourself. There's nothing wrong with that, and after all, if you don't know what you like, no one else will. There are books that are aimed at adolescents, such as "It's Perfectly Normal", that contain non-judgmental info about sexuality and growing up.

Congrats on being aware that there is a difference between being sexual and being sexually active. There really is no need to rush into things.
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thanks n i dont think ill be pleasuring my self tho
geekygirl1999 posted over a year ago
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Jester always gives good & considerate advice. Sometimes that sexual frustration [physically] can build up and be a real bother or really be bad when we DON'T allow ourselves to-or it will enter our dreams and can cause physical orgasm or weird dreams! -just my experience O.O
Sinna_Hime_chan posted over a year ago
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You are great! So happy to have met you, and I'm glad you like what I have to say. i always read your answers and you are very enlightening. *Hugs*
jester616 posted over a year ago
Laneer10 said:
When your in the shower, go on your hands and feet (so our stomic is facing up) and put your pussy under the water. The water pressure has to be hard-ish.
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