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Guys?! (Ha or girls) Sexual things to do with your boyfriend?!

Ok well me and my bf have decided to get more intimate in our relationship. But the thing is i have absolutely no idea what he wants me to do. I mean he could finger me, i could give him a blow job but what else is there?! Just name a few and that'd be really helpful!!
Thx!
 jacob4ever57 posted over a year ago
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Cinders said:
First of all, I'm going to stamp on the standard disclaimer that if you are under the age of 18, be very very careful and discerning in your decision to have sex. If you decide to have sex, have it safely and smartly. Also, do not have sex with anyone OLDER than 18. Because then things can get really messy.

Also: There are other ways of taking relationships to the next level that do NOT involve physical intimacy. However, I think that in this case you used "intimate" as a euphemism for sexual activity, in which case you probably don't want to hear about all the other non-physical intimacy things.

So, there are several things to do. If either you or your boyfriend performs oral sex, make sure that there is the appropriate protection against STDs (IE, use a condom/dental dam). I don't care if you're both virgins (or both claim to be)-- do it anyway.

He could finger you, as you say, or you can give him a handjob. These are both relatively low-risk sexual activities, but remember to wash your hands before and after the act.

Other low-risk activities include body rubbing and/or sensual massage. Turn the lights down low, buy some massage oil, and rub it on each other.

Sandwiching my disclaimers: Only do what you are comfortable with. Do not break any state or national laws. Don't let anyone pressure you or tell you what to do. Be smart, be safe, and use this information WISELY. Like any good sex-ed teacher, I advise you to wait until you are ready. Youth is shortsighted, so remember you have the rest of your life ahead of you. Don't rush into anything. Don't make this decision lightly. And once again, BE SMART. Be informed. Know what you're doing, and how to do it safely.

That is all.
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i like wht u said tht nice
kimmie_kim posted over a year ago
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Too clinical. I am all about safe sex, but the girl wanted 'ideas'...other than plain fingering and hand jobs. I appreciate a good strong safe-sex sentiment & disclaimer added, though.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted over a year ago
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stephmfan215 said:
no matter wat, be safe. just massage each other, where ever you want to. u cud hump, just be cafeful if u take ur clothes off during this. thats pretty much all i can think of.
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o and oral
stephmfan215 posted over a year ago
madnessman said:
Well I never had a boyfriends so I wouldnt know.. but I know what most guys like since I am one, rofl. Um..first off if your going to do anything make sure you wear a condom thats first off. Secondly you could just make out for a while and then see were it leads or something.
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You left an important part!!! Take off ur condom after sex!!!! LOL
rangarajvignesh posted over a year ago
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lol
sexygurlalert posted over a year ago
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haha
littleskittles8 posted over a year ago
93088990 said:
You could ride him, just in reverse cowgirl..
All boys love that ;)

My bf loves it when I give him a blow job, or when he takes me in doggy style ( he LOVES it when he can do it hard.. )

:)
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jee big woop...go brag somewhere else, we are not interested
ShakedaClemm posted over a year ago
KatiiCullen94 said:
Hah ok, well I always knew of some. But it wasnt until I had it I loved it.
This one would be for you. But being licked out , is the best!!


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agreed, although thats not probs the first intimate thing, thats probs comes after fingering and hand job
ShakedaClemm posted over a year ago
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Oral sex really grossedps me out, maybe I'll get used to it when it happens
allicyn123 posted over a year ago
softballqueen said:
do NOT hav sex wit any1 over 18 because they cn go 2 prison 4 satutory rape
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Miah13Rose said:
Duh...ur question doesnt make any sense!
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Beccax3 said:
Well me and my boyfriend enjoy a great sex life, and we ALWAYS try new things.. here's some things you could try..

body massage using oil, a vibrating durex ring, flavoured lube during oral, ribbed and dotted condoms AND my personal favourite.. taking turns of being dominant towards each other, telling each other what to do, men love it!
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...true...
seffro posted over a year ago
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indeed yes
Sinna_Hime_chan posted over a year ago
NitrogenDioxide said:
uhhh... spider-sit, the swiss roll and the persian vecter!
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don't ask how I know these very sexual and intimidating moves...
NitrogenDioxide posted over a year ago
vampirequeen001 said:
Two words...Sex Games
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best awnser
seffro posted over a year ago
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good one yes
Sinna_Hime_chan posted over a year ago
duleeshan said:
he think you are very sexy so then he can finger you blow job so which kind of relation ship with you both any way you want 2 leave this things shall you be my girl friend throw him

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Ryan231 said:
1: Don't Have Sex With Anyone Over 18, As It Would Be Classed As Rape Sometimes. (It Could Make You Pregnant)

2: Hand-Jobs And Blowjobs, They Are One Of The Best Methods xD
3: Use Dildos, Vibrators, Etc,. (When Pleasuring Your Partner.) Use Them Wisely.
4: Learn More Sex Positions. There Are More Than Missionary And Doggy Style. Or Cowgirl (Normal/Reverse)

5: And..Massage Each Other, Fingering Would Be Good, But DO WASH The Fingers You Used When Doing It.


Thats All I Have To Say!! :D
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sexual_teacher said:
well wat u culd do is......
'First hand job
'second make him 69 u
'third let him lick the clit
awesome ideas for sex try them
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ladydajour30 said:
Ok,i love making love to my man.but is there anything i can do other then oral sex?
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kenzie001704 said:
Sex in the shower or a romantic spot or he could tie u down and have sex or he could lick or u could
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
I am trying to gather what this next level is by what has been said (and I know this is now an older question anyway) -people kept repeating the two things you asked if there were "other" things besides those, *facepalm*

My advice to anyone is to BE CREATIVE
If you are a creative-type of person then put it to use.
Everything can be a sexy new level and experience everyday... from ice cream to popsickle licking, tastey treats drizzled or brushed with a finger, silky fabrics danced, costumes, roleplay, personas, BS&M-handcuffs or silk ties... and I am not talking about sex if you are not at that point but if you want foreplay and hand or fingers you can get creative, you can tease and tempt and play and find all sorts of things from clothes on to half-off, from ice cubes to hot massage oils someone mentioned. Massages are great. So are getting creative with your dates in where and what you do~ the list is really endless, not to mention toys if you are into that, or you can "watch" each other masturbate, if you might like that.

Someone mentioned "Sex Games" & the Taking turns being Dominant i.e. Master/love-slave/pet ;)
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I am trying to gather what this next level is by what has been said (and I know this is now an older question anyway) -people kept repeating the two things you asked if there were "other" things besides those, *facepalm* 

My advice to anyone is to BE CREATIVE 
If you are a creative-type of person then put it to use. 
Everything can be a sexy new level and experience everyday... from ice cream to popsickle licking, tastey treats drizzled or brushed with a finger, silky fabrics danced, costumes, roleplay, personas, BS&M-handcuffs or silk ties... and I am not talking about sex if you are not at that point but if you want foreplay and hand or fingers you can get creative, you can tease and tempt and play and find all sorts of things from clothes on to half-off, from ice cubes to hot massage oils someone mentioned. Massages are great. So are getting creative with your dates in where and what you do~ the list is really endless, not to mention toys if you are into that, or you can "watch" each other masturbate, if you might like that.
  
Someone mentioned "Sex Games" & the Taking turns being Dominant i.e. Master/love-slave/pet ;)
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O////O Ohhhhhhh My <333333333 I Love you Baby <33333333 and yes your very naughty and creative <333333 and me i can too >////< with you only
DarkCruz360 posted over a year ago
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