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Opinion by BJsRealm posted over a year ago
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Pornstars should set an example for the audience when it comes to sexual protection yet today they are doing quite the opposite.Nobody seems to use condoms any more!This is beyond unbelievable!AIDS is lethal but they don't care much for their life&health!
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Opinion by BJsRealm posted over a year ago
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Legal Or Not?
In some countries it's been legal for decades.All providers of sexual services must pay taxes,pass regular medical tests&use all means of protection constantly.There's also a fixed price list.They even have a union to represent them+social&health security
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Article by BabyBlud posted over a year ago
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Just an article i read on the effects of alcohol and sex in general...any comments, experiences, ideas (either on alcohol or sex) welcome.



Find out why too much alcohol can be a sexual turn-off for you both.


Drinking alcohol to excess can make good sex go bad. Dr Abigael San, clinical psychologist and alcohol expert, says this is because alcohol reduces both men's and women's sexual sensitivity.

"In both sexes, sexual response is reduced by regular and prolonged drinking," she says.

"In men, alcohol can cause difficulties getting and maintaining an erection - while women may experience reduced lubrication, find it harder to have an orgasm, or have orgasms that are less intense."

Many people mistakenly believe that alcohol is an aphrodisiac. However, over time too much alcohol can actually put a dampener on your sex drive.
Sexual side-effects

Drinking too much over an extended period of time can turn a temporary condition like 'Brewer's Droop' into full-blown impotence (1). Drinking can also cause damage if you're planning to have children. Women who drink over the government’s...
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Guide by Kiasman posted over a year ago
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I trust and believe that sex is the strongest pillar of the society since time immemorial. Without sex, the society would become extinct within the next 100 or so years. When sex is used within the right context, not only does this pleasurable activity enable the society to continue existing, but can enhance human inter-relationships, strengthen the marriage institution, render people happy and productive in the modern world and oh! Save many people from doom and destruction.
I have a lot of respect for sex and I believe that sex is sacred and should be an activity that is reserved for two people who are in love within a properly established social bond. Below are some foods which have been scientifically proven to enhance sexual health, and above all are locally available. I will not explore the scientific details about them though.

ONE: AVOCADO

This fruit is rich in Vitamin B6, which helps produce serotonin, a hormone that induces a good feeling in someone. Avocados are also loaded with vitamin E, which enhances circulation and potassium (which helps regulate a woman's thyroid gland), two elements that help increase libido in both men and women....
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Opinion by northlover posted over a year ago
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yea so title says a lot of it. I'm 14, he's 15

and we've been dating for almost 9 months. we go to different high schools, so we pretty much only see each other nights and weekends. he is super impulsive, serisoly.

and he's been talking about sex for like a month, but recently, he's become more aggressive/pushy. like if we were kissing, he would get ontop of me (which is pretty normal) except he will like kind of hold me down and start doing stuff. if I tell him to stop he stops what he's doing but doesn't move, he justs tries to talk me into it. he also has started kissing me up against the door. and he holds my shoulders/hips then to.

it's getting a little scary, I have bruises along my arms from him and on my hips. he just doesn't move if I tell him. I've started avoiding being alone with him but I can't do that forever. what should I do? what do I say? I know this sounds niave but I really like him and I want to avoid breaking up with him if it's possible.
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Guide by karlyluvsam posted over a year ago
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is the passion all gone?
or is it still newly wed?
if all this heat is doing is making us stick to the bed
then there is no life to revive.
but if the hunger is still there, buried somewhere inside
covered up by the boredom we've been trying to hide
then dig it up and devour
and it will be more like a song
and less like its math
if you pull on my hair, and bite me like that
and the truth is that i can't hardly wait
and i don't care if we stay up too late
don't answer the phone
don't answer the phone
and it will be more like a song and less like its math
if you pull on my hair and bite me like that
and the truth is that i can't hardly wait
it itches so bad that i can't concentrate
don't answer the phone
don't answer the phone
and it will be more like a song and less like its math
if you pull on hair and bite me like that.
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List by trapsexual posted over a year ago
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Types of Fetishes:

Acrotomophilia - The person is sexually aroused by the sight of an amputation usually of a whole arm or leg.
Adolescentilism - The person is aroused by impersonating both the dress and behavior of an adolescent.
Andromimetophilia - A woman who is sexually aroused by impersonating a man. They purposefully look like and act like a man.
Apotemnophilia - This person is sexually aroused by having a part of their body amputated either by themselves or someone else. The memory of the amputation can serve to arouse them for years. It is the act of having an extremity amputated that is arousing; thus, they have to be awake during the process.
Asphyxiophilia - This is sexual arousal caused by loss of control over your ability to breathe. Self strangulation or allowing another person to asphyxiate you.
Autagonistophilia - Unlike exhibitionism where the person intentionally exposes their genitals to an unsuspecting stranger, in this paraphilia the person creates situations in which other people could see them in the nude if the person wanted to. For example, it would be like...
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Fan fiction by Android_21 posted over a year ago
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Don't Stare
*WARNING!* Before you read this, I want you to know that I'm not saying this happened. Also, the pic was just out of random choice. I LOVE YAOI! (oops!) <--- sorry about that!

OoOoOoOo

"Agh...agh... G-gaden..." Alexa panted as her mouth was soon covered by another one, only this one was soft and warm,though it was mashing itself against her lips. She moaned again as Gaden began massaging her side, while the other hand traced intricate patterns on her shoulder blade. Gaden growled and removed his mouth from hers as she tightened her grip on his waist with her legs.

He ripped of his shirt, showing his beautifully tanned, ripped 6-pack. Gaden kissed Alexa again, but more forcefully this time. He trailed kisses down her throat and she felt a growl build in her throat. Without stopping his attack on her throat, Gaden quickly unbuttoned her shirt, only leaving the top half of her body covered with her black silk bra. Suddenly, Gaden sat Alexa up and on his lap. Gaden smiled seductively, and then whispered, his Russian accent only adding to his seductive nature, "Alexa, you want this, don't you?"
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Article by reminisce posted over a year ago
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I was always a strange child. I never once felt like I fit in. My childhood was full of hate and fear, but most of all confusion. I was brought up being told to never disobey my parents and never talk back. I never felt like I belong.

I am three years younger than my sister and have three girl older cousins. When I was younger, we used to go spend weeks at my cousins’ house. They live out in the country, surrounded by vast wilderness. One year I stayed the whole summer there. My older cousins and I would run out to the middle of fields and talk about everything. I would mainly listen. I was a shy child and never really asked questions. They always talked about boys and told dirty jokes. They would say “little Stevi doesn’t like boys yet, but you just wait”.

Around the same time I finally had a friend that I could kinda relate to. She lived across the street from our house. I am sure she heard a lot of things she never asked me about. She was much older than me, even older than my sister. My mother really didn’t like that she was my friend. I remember one day, I finally got the courage to ask her about boys. She asked me if I liked them, when I...
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Opinion by iluvsmj posted over a year ago
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Did you know?..."Ithyphallophobia" is a morbid fear of seeing, thinking about or having an erect penis.

Did you know?...According to a survey of sex shop owners, cherry is the most popular flavor of edible underwear. Chocolate is the least popular.

Did you know?...In the Aztec culture avocados were considered so sexually powerful, virgins were restricted from contact with them.

Did you know?...Marilyn Monroe, the most celebrated sex icon of the 20th century, confessed to a friend that despite her three husbands and a parade of lovers, she had never had an orgasm.

Did you know?...The average shelf-life of a latex condom is about two years.

Did you know?...14% of Americans have skinny-dipped with a member of the opposite sex at least once.

Did you know?...According to a U.S. market research firm, the most popular American bra size is currently 36C, up from 1991 when it was 34B.

Did you know?..."Formicophilia" is the fetish for having small insects crawl on your genitals.
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Article by ImBooOK posted over a year ago
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So this new chick comes into my school and is like, very pretty. All the guys go goo-goo eyed on her and every girl is jealous of her. Well yesterday, she was in the school library and since were allowed to go there whenever to check out books, i just so happened to be there as well. She looked like she was having trouble and i (being the book worm i am) went to ask her if she needed help. she smiled and said she needed to find this book for bio and i said i would help her. so after i find this book for her we started talking and she was funny and nice. eventually at one point i said something about "Yeah, your lucky, all the guys want you and you just got here" and she got quiet. she said "yeah too bad for them i guess" and i say "what you dont date?" and what she said just made me uncomfortable. "Well, no im lesbian" she saw the look on my face, and she just turned away and muttered something i did not understand, but im sure it had to go along the lines of "Knew it"
so now i feel really bad for her..i did not mean to act the way i did...and i do not know why i felt uncomfortable because i have lived with my gay brother and his boyfriend for like 5 years. I tried telling...
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Article by ImBooOK posted over a year ago
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OK. I know in the past I have said things like "Oh I am never going to have sex till im married: and things of the sort. But is it wrong for me to think to myself, that i want to? I mean...I want to wait...i really do. But lately I have been having trouble keeping "sex" off of my 14 year old mind.
What also comes to question is how do I "please" and "ease" the need without actually having "sex"?
I am normally at this state, where I am thinking about guys like my A.R.D teacher. (He is like, well he plans school dances and is a sub and also for those who have higher grades then others by far..that sort of teacher) I mean, the guy is 9 years older then me, and he is simply the nicest and coolest man I have ever met. He is very kind and he is shy. REALLY shy. And he wears these glasses when he reads that makes him look ...sexy? I mean he is built like a college football player without so much the bulkiness. and he is more slender. (OH MY GOD SORRY) <--- hahaha lost track of my point, he makes me think too much.
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Opinion by TeamSongz4eva posted over a year ago
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"Neighbors Know My Name"

[Verse 1]
Soon as we get started makin love goin harder hear a.. (knock knock) knocking on the wall,
And as soon as he go deep getting it in then again theres a.. (knock knock) knocking on the wall,
Man my legs keep shakin I swear we breakin our new headboard headboard
And the love we make it feels so good boy you know im proud lookin in your handsome face scream your name i do it so loud

[Chorus:]
I bet the neighbors know his name
Way i screamin scratchin yellin,
Bet the neighbors know his name
They be stressin while we sexin,
I bet the neighbors know his name
his name his name
I bet the neighbors know his name
his his his...

i Take this pillow right here (grab this)
And he know im so excited if i bite it they wont hear
And you know just what we capable of, when we makin love
So the music gone be loud, I gone scream and shout
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Opinion by irena83 posted over a year ago
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Let's start slowly.
Ok. We do know that many people are being frustrated and under the stress.
And why is that?
We also know that some people have problem with trust.
Every problem has its root,right?
I'd say so.
Therefore, the childhood is very important.
Peaceful and nice, also memorable childhood is very
significant for your development.

However, your personality is developing since you started to understand or see the others and yourself.
What was your childhood like?
Any special moment?
Memories that you wish to forget?

And, what about now?
Rewind some moments that are being captured inside, and how do you feel?
Do you respect yourself?
Do you think that you're worse than others?
Do you think that luck was never on your side?

And what about peace?
The peace within?
And your thoughts?
They never sleep...

Some people have problem with communication.
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Opinion by irena83 posted over a year ago
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My name is Irena and I'm 27 years old.
I'm not the type who will point a finger at you or will dispraise you...
In fact, I'd like to understand first.
That's in my nature. To analyze and try to figure out without prejudice.
Girls between 13-17 are very curious about those things. They are curious and they wanna try.
Of course they don't want to talk to their parents, which is understandable, but they are trying to find answers some where else.
Such as older gf/bf or porn movies.
Puberty is a very risk period for both- boys and girls.
They want to try everything.
Not literally everything, but most of the things that seem to be interesting.

Discontent and stress may lead to some big problems.
They all ask if they are pretty or skinny enough, they try to fit, they try to be noticed.
And what's the price?

Consider this:
A very well behaved girl wants to fit, but it's not easy.
She's not sure about drinking alcohol,
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Review by irena83 posted over a year ago
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Sexual assault is an assault of a sexual nature on another person. Although sexual assaults most frequently are by a man on a woman, it may be by a man on a man, woman on a man or woman on a woman, adult on a child, adult on an adult or child on a child.
While sexual assaults are associated with the crime of rape, it may cover assaults which would not be considered rape. What constitutes a sexual assault is determined by the laws of the jurisdiction where the assault takes place, which vary considerably and are influenced by local social and cultural attitudes.

Every year, an estimated 300,000 women are raped and 3.7 million are confronted with unwanted sexual activity. In addition, of the approximately 900,000 children who are maltreated each year, 9% are sexually abused. It has been estimated that one in six American women have or will be sexually assaulted during their lives. Largely because of child and prison rape, approximately ten percent of reported rape victims are male.
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Article by ImBooOK posted over a year ago
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Having someone hate you is bad enough.
But its even worse when the person who hates you, actually loves you so much they don't admit it the right way. Then things get a little bit akward.

My name is Lora Campbell. Im 17 years old, and i have a major dislike for my Study Hall teacher. Mr. Johnson.
He hated me from day one in this god forsaken building we call 'school' and he will forever hate me until i push my way out of this god forsaken building. Or until I die.
And the worse part of all? He is absolutely most unbelievably the most sexiest male specimen to ever been seen by the lord himself. And I love it when he gets angry at me. Weird huh? yeah i know, but you have been in this postion before right? Maybe? well you might someday.


6th Period Study Hall.
"Hey Lora, come sit with us!" my friend Lisa yelled from the back of the room. she had short spiked white hair, pink highlights, long sparkly earrings, a nose piercing, and baby blue eyes. she was one of those girls who always got A+'s, but could beat the shit out of you if you ticked her off. she was sitting with Mike, her boyfriend, a tall brown haired man, with...
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Opinion by Dragonclaws posted over a year ago
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I like pain.

Just that. That simple sentence. It sums up a simple but significant aspect of my life. We all have likes. We are often asked our favorite colors or animals, simple likes that define us. I like hot pink. I like hyenas. I like pain.

It is sexual, but it can be as chaste as a childhood crush. As kids, we are sexual even without sexual maturity. We can be attracted to the opposite (or same!) sex even without finding them hot, and we have the platonic crushes of puppy love. In childhood we are thought to be innocent, so childhood sexuality is often glossed over and romanticized as an age without the supposed sinfulness brought by mature sexuality.

A boy saying he likes a girl or a girl saying she likes a boy; this is thought of as cute. It isn’t unexpected. It’s understood that neither of them wants to have sexual intercourse because it’s accepted that heterosexuality is an innate facet of a persons’ being that is present even before sexual maturity. (It is a sad fact that homosexuality would be less accepted, but this isn’t the focus of what I have to say.)
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Opinion by ImBooOK posted over a year ago
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OK. let me get this straight. I have found out that 9/10 girls on here, UNDER the age of 16 have had sex.
WHAT were you THINKING. oh yeah...you wernt.
It is not cool to say "hey yeah look at me i had sex already im so awesome" well, its NOT awesome. your making girls like me look like Whores.
Then i hear the excuse, "well im mature i can handle this" my friend Sonja was mature, sweet. when this Guy asked her out. Me, i was a little bit concerned. she got mad at me and went off to show how "good they were together" and had sex. she got exremly sick and since of her age....the baby died. I think all you "mature" ladies out there under 16 need to grow up and become just a little bit more mature then you all say you are.
I DO NOT hate you...none of you. but i hate what you say and do. Maybe some of you were forced, maybe some of you were not brave enough to tell the other person no. i get it, i was asked to have sex before, but then again, im too young.
i really wish you all who have the same feelings as i do, talk with girls that do this. I appreciate you for taking the time to read this, and i wouldn't mind if you had some negative comments but make...
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Article by ImBooOK posted over a year ago
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Hi! I'm fourteen years old and yes, a girl.
I am in my 2nd year in my local High school.
what i want to say is in my 2 years i had seen a lot of (and reported) sexual abuse. Teens my age are not thinking when it comes to sex. Sure i may think about it, or even..want it. But at my age it is certainly NOT OK.
All I am saying is to the other teens (Boy or girl) that you can love someone, just wait until your 18. (also i suggest when you meet the right person and your SURE) Because that's when you can actually have it Legally.
My friend was abused by her boyfriend 2 months ago and he is STILL in jail. (he was over 18)

Another thing.
I am young, and I honestly am embarrassed to ask this question.
If i had desires to (MM...lets go with "Pleasure") myself what is the best way to do it without hurting myself or causing any pain?

I appreciate for those you took time to read this, and may you have a blessed new life in 2011!
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Guide by irena83 posted over a year ago
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This is a woman who will expect to give and receive 100%, and have a personal skill set ideally suited to making sure that happens. If you aren’t ready to commit to someone on that level then this sign may be best avoided. On the other hand if you want a sensual lover who wants your body and soul and isn’t afraid of what they may find then these are the ultimate.

Due to this, Scorpios are more likely to have relatively few, but highly intense relationships. She is beyond loyal, and will do anything to protect those she loves. The flip side of this is the near legendary Scorpio vindictiveness; ‘forgive and forget’ doesn’t apply to Scorpios.

Almost inconsistently, your Scorpio woman will want more personal space than many signs do. This is partly due to her private nature, and partly because every experience must be carefully analyzed and the precious emotions absorbed and savored.

Scorpio woman sexuality
You can call Scorpio women many things, but prudish or unsexy will never be one of them! They exude sexuality, have healthy imaginations and aren’t afraid of experimenting. Scorpio rules sex and death, and like many other...
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Review by irena83 posted over a year ago
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The Taurus Female
Taurus women are sensual, classy, and ladylike but also quite stubborn and set in their ways. They look for a solid, settled, and grounded partner, but also one who has enough "edge" to intrigue them.
Although strong and rather set in their ways, Taurus women are also feminine and beguiling. They are respectful and don't like upsetting words or environments. Appeal to their nose, always. They love fresh, clean, and uncomplicated scents. Touch is magic to them, and they love long, sensual kissing sessions.


The Taurus Male
Taurus men are sometimes a little on the macho side, but they are also very respectful, calm, and mostly in control. They are not the mushy emotional types, and there is absolutely nothing flaky about them. Taurus men are as solid as they come.

Sex, food, money, and security...these are the staples of life to a Taurus man. Fill these basic needs, and your Taurus man is likely to be quite content. You don't want them to get too content to the point that they take you for granted, however. Taurus men seldom get carried away romantically speaking. They are realistic, sometimes maddeningly so to...
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Article by irena83 posted over a year ago
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In line with the above comments on shifting moods, sex can also be highly variable and dynamic. If you’re in-tune with him this can make for a fantastic range of lovemaking styles, though always with an underlying romantic current and flavor. Again though, if you have trouble reading and empathizing with his moods you may start to feel like nothing you do can please him.

In short, cancer is an unpredictable sign, with a little of everything at different times. This can make them far more exciting and unpredictable lovers than the standard nurturing image would portray. While being perfect for almost anyone, this can equally make it very hard for a less emotional partner to give them exactly what they need at any given time.

The common advice is to tell a Cancer partner that you love them 20 times a day. While this certainly works, it misses the point, that they want to be understood. Because they’re so good at understanding and empathizing with others they feel let down when this isnt reciprocated, regardless of whether through neglect or a lack of the needed emotional skills to do so.
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Review by irena83 posted over a year ago
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Taurus sexuality
Your sexuality is strong and deep, though not necessarily electric on the surface. Sensual, but conservative, you prefer a cosy courtship, replete with good food and wine in copious quantities. Ruled by Venus, the goddess of beauty and desire, you are strikingly attractive, in a somewhat statuesque way. Your sensuality and readiness to please make you a desirable partner for one who seeks a solid, secure and long-lasting relationship.

You have a marked fondness for all pleasures of the senses, but, of course, do not give yourself lightly to mere passing fancies. This reflects your great strength and loyalty. Elegant, erotic Venus stimulates your earthy appetites, which can be voracious when awakened. Indeed, your sexuality is more readily aroused when your appetite for edibles has been assuaged. Let's get first things first! Taurus has hungers and can be quite methodical in the satisfaction thereof. The pathway to the connubial bed is strewn with foodstuffs...
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Review by irena83 posted over a year ago
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Aries (March 21 to April 19)
As the prime and primal sign of the Zodiac, Aries finds pleasure in raw and high-adrenaline experiences. They can count musky scents, bed knocking (as in knocking the bed against the wall, floor and, if really gifted, the ceiling), morning sex, hair-pulling and wrestling among their fetishes.

Taurus (April 20 to May 20)
Drawn to sensual experiences, Taureans want to have the whole enchilada in any encounter. They tend to enjoy the big and beautiful, anything involving food and sex, deep kissing, hickies (as Taurus rules the neck), and of course, chocolate.

Gemini (May 21 to June 20)
The busiest sign of the zodiac zips into full throttle thrills by fixating on objects and activities that move fast and furious. You can count on them keeping their short-spanned attention on a pair of hands, oral sex, lipstick, tickling, high-speed sex, sex toys and witty banter.

Cancer (June 21 to July 22)
You'll stroke a Cancer's fetish bone if you have anything that reminds them of feeling loved. They tend to adore breasts, leather (since it hugs the body), nipple-play, belly-rubbing, fur, sucking,...
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