Hi! I'm fourteen years old and yes, a girl.
I am in my 2nd year in my local High school.
what i want to say is in my 2 years i had seen a lot of (and reported) sexual abuse. Teens my age are not thinking when it comes to sex. Sure i may think about it, or even..want it. But at my age it is certainly NOT OK.
All I am saying is to the other teens (Boy or girl) that you can love someone, just wait until your 18. (also i suggest when you meet the right person and your SURE) Because that's when you can actually have it Legally.
My friend was abused by her boyfriend 2 months ago and he is STILL in jail. (he was over 18)

Another thing.
I am young, and I honestly am embarrassed to ask this question.
If i had desires to (MM...lets go with "Pleasure") myself what is the best way to do it without hurting myself or causing any pain?

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