First I would like to say I don't want to spark a war. I just want to explain why some of the anti-bamon reasons confuse me. And second I actually do like Delena but Bamon appeals to me more.
I hear lots of anti-bamon arguments, and I won't to defend the main ones.
1. Bamon will never happen on the show because show Bonnie isn't book Bonnie.
- That makes no sense to me because sure it's true...BUT show Elena isn't the same as book Elena, I can tell because I don't hate her. Book Elena is superficial and selfish. She is just like Katherine. And show Elena is different which I like. Plus, I could never hate Nina she's one of my favorite actors. Anyway, even though Bonnie isn't the childlike character from the books, that doesn't rule Bamon out in the future.
2. Damon will always only love Elena
- I know Damon loves Elena now and probably always will, but how will his character develop further if all he knows is Elena. Also, the one thing (and probably the only thing) I've seen Bamon and Delena fans agree on is that the love triangle can't go on forever. Eventually everyone will get tired of it, mostly everyone did in the last book, it probably will happen on the show.
3. The Nian thing
- I honestly think they're cute together. But the thing is some - not ALL- fans are crazy about them being together. To me shipping doesn't go past the show. It's way too much arguing about Ian/Nina/Kat off the show. Many people think that they are something to ship. It's their choice if they want to date NOT the fans.
4. Bamon has no chemistry
This one is simple: everyone sees different couples in different ways. If we Bamon fans see something between them and others don't - don't bash the couple and their fans. That also is for not only Bamon but EVERY couple.
5. Damon loves Elena and Bonnie loves Jeremy therefore their both endgame
- I really hate this one. This season will be only season 3. TVD has a large fanbase it will probably be on for a while I don't think the show will continued to be focused on one main couple.
6. Bonnie and Damon makes no sense
- Question: Why is that? To me NOTHING is impossible on this show, so why does Bamon have to be? When you actually look at both of the characters yeah they might not be each others favorite and yeah they are different. BUT they are alike in many ways too.
If no one sees this then I'll list them.
-There's a hero in both of them.
-They both endanger themselves to protect the ones they love.
-They are two badass characters who don't take sh*t from anyone.
-At the end of the day they will put aside all their differences to take down the enemy.
7. "I will always choose you."
- I actually liked this scene between them but the "letting Bonnie die" part was unnecessary. Despite that I still like Delena and Damon. One of the things L.J Smith said that stuck with me is Damon likes to hurt the ones he love. Of course I'm not saying they love each other, but I am saying Damon goes through a long period of denial before even admitting he cares about someone. (e.x Elena and Stefan) It's his way and it's apart of him, I can't change it but I still love him the way he is.
So, those are my thoughts. Keep in mind I didn't write this to offend anyone or start a fight. I would really like to hear comments on what people think but if they're going to be mean please don't bother.
Thanks for reading.
I hear lots of anti-bamon arguments, and I won't to defend the main ones.
1. Bamon will never happen on the show because show Bonnie isn't book Bonnie.
- That makes no sense to me because sure it's true...BUT show Elena isn't the same as book Elena, I can tell because I don't hate her. Book Elena is superficial and selfish. She is just like Katherine. And show Elena is different which I like. Plus, I could never hate Nina she's one of my favorite actors. Anyway, even though Bonnie isn't the childlike character from the books, that doesn't rule Bamon out in the future.
2. Damon will always only love Elena
- I know Damon loves Elena now and probably always will, but how will his character develop further if all he knows is Elena. Also, the one thing (and probably the only thing) I've seen Bamon and Delena fans agree on is that the love triangle can't go on forever. Eventually everyone will get tired of it, mostly everyone did in the last book, it probably will happen on the show.
3. The Nian thing
- I honestly think they're cute together. But the thing is some - not ALL- fans are crazy about them being together. To me shipping doesn't go past the show. It's way too much arguing about Ian/Nina/Kat off the show. Many people think that they are something to ship. It's their choice if they want to date NOT the fans.
4. Bamon has no chemistry
This one is simple: everyone sees different couples in different ways. If we Bamon fans see something between them and others don't - don't bash the couple and their fans. That also is for not only Bamon but EVERY couple.
5. Damon loves Elena and Bonnie loves Jeremy therefore their both endgame
- I really hate this one. This season will be only season 3. TVD has a large fanbase it will probably be on for a while I don't think the show will continued to be focused on one main couple.
6. Bonnie and Damon makes no sense
- Question: Why is that? To me NOTHING is impossible on this show, so why does Bamon have to be? When you actually look at both of the characters yeah they might not be each others favorite and yeah they are different. BUT they are alike in many ways too.
If no one sees this then I'll list them.
-There's a hero in both of them.
-They both endanger themselves to protect the ones they love.
-They are two badass characters who don't take sh*t from anyone.
-At the end of the day they will put aside all their differences to take down the enemy.
7. "I will always choose you."
- I actually liked this scene between them but the "letting Bonnie die" part was unnecessary. Despite that I still like Delena and Damon. One of the things L.J Smith said that stuck with me is Damon likes to hurt the ones he love. Of course I'm not saying they love each other, but I am saying Damon goes through a long period of denial before even admitting he cares about someone. (e.x Elena and Stefan) It's his way and it's apart of him, I can't change it but I still love him the way he is.
So, those are my thoughts. Keep in mind I didn't write this to offend anyone or start a fight. I would really like to hear comments on what people think but if they're going to be mean please don't bother.
Thanks for reading.