over a year ago:
When Ron left Hermione:
She accepted it despite her heartbreak, and went on to fight the darkest wizard of all time. She was loyal, strong, brave, and independent. When Ron came back, she was angry at him for making her so worried. She stayed true to herself.
When Edward left Bella:
She basically gave up and forgot about every good thing in her life, like her family, friends, popularity. She felt she was nothing without her boyfriend, and sat around doing nothing. She had absolutely no pride whatsoever, and even attempted suicide just because he boyfriend was gone. A weak, spineless nimpty.