over a year ago:
Both have their ups and downs, but love has a few more.
I once saw a series(that was real close to reality) where guy loses his love(she commits suicide), because he was ingaged/married to another. It was part-action/historical so after some battles with Rome they were both taken hostage(his wife and him) and because she was a great wife and treated him with love and respect he learned to love her there.
So basically you can fall in love easily, but your freinds can't be chosen easily(they often become your enemies).