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I need help.

I ask people this all the time.
Should i get a hobby or a Bf?
I don't have either.
Plus i have no clue how to get A BF
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You say you ask people all the time. What do people say all the time when you ask this? Just curious.
harold posted 6 months ago
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fifty fifty half say hobby, have say Bff
teamalice_0 posted 6 months ago
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and 1 person says both
teamalice_0 posted 6 months ago
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hobbies are great.... but its nice to have some one hold your had too.
greeneyedvamp posted 6 months ago
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actually two people say both
JazzLover101 posted 6 months ago
 teamalice_0 posted 6 months ago
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harold said:
Get a hobby. It's always good to have a hobby, and one shouldn't try to have a BF just to have one. Relationships should be based on mutual respect and interests, so it's even possible that, by interacting with other people who share the interest in your hobby (once you have one), you may actually get a BF that way, or at least friends.
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posted 6 months ago 
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teamalice_0 posted 6 months ago
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I got a hobby... and it got me a boyfriend :)
Sappp posted 6 months ago
tooch said:
I would say a hobby is better.
Instead of worrying about a boy and all that, just find something you like to do, and make a hobby out of it.
Personally, I love reading and listening to music.
I do it all the time. And they are my hobbies.
So try and find something like that to do.

Sorry, I'm not the best at explaining things, but I hope I helped.
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posted 6 months ago 
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teamalice_0 posted 6 months ago
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yeaa tooch heres got a point bkuz with a guy 2 much drama nd a hobby is sumthinn u can enjoy:)
GwenTrentDude posted 5 months ago
snoznoodle said:
Why do you have to only have one or the other? I don't there's anything wrong with having both. And don't forget you shouldn't just get a boyfriend for the sake of it. Make sure they're the right person before you do anything just because.
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posted 6 months ago 
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teamalice_0 posted 6 months ago
adavila said:
find a hobby and maybe when you do that you´ll find a bf that also anjoys that hobby
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posted 6 months ago 
JazzLover101 said:
Try both be simple with the hobby but be yourself around a guy you like maybe he likes you to don't sell yourself short give yourself a chance just TRY being yourself the guy may even be into the same things as you including hobbies
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posted 6 months ago 
BonesMad3 said:
If you dont have a boyfriend, then a hobby is a good idea, or if it isnt a hobby, then simply work hard and play hard, i.e. get what school or work needs to be done and then spend the time enjoying yourself and doing things that you like.
I thought that i was weird not having a boyfriend, and that i wouldnt get one, and when people said you'll find someone, all i could ask was when and where, and why not now. But i have one now, and i'm grateful i didnt waste years of my life when i was younger on a relationship that held no real meaning, sorry but most relationships when you are teenagers end, most of them dont last for 10+ years, and i dont know whether mine will, but i'll have fun finding out. All in all, you dont need to get either, spend time enjoying yourself, and when the time comes for you to find love, enjoy that as well, good luck :D
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posted 6 months ago 
cuteinblack6 said:
i think u should get a hobby/hobbies .then maybe there u could find a bf. and how to get a bf its different. well since i have a boyfriend no that its different with everybody. if hes a guy who will love u really much u got a have a great personality. if its a guy who love hot girls u need to dress differrently and put some makeup on. but try not to get those kind of guys.
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posted 6 months ago 
monsy38 said:
Get a hobby that you like than find someone who also enjoys it, they might become ur bf! or find someone you like, ask for their fav hobby and you might like it so i think that if you find one you find the other
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posted 5 months ago 
MISSLOVATOSTAR1 said:
Well it's always good to have a hobby just in case the boyfriend thing dosen't work , so you'll have something two do . But that dosen't mean that getting a boyfriend is bad , cuz u'll have someone two be with just in case u don't find one .
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