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How can I break up my best friend and ex-boyfriend without making it obvious?

About a month ago I broke up with my boyfriend. My best friend had the nerve to ask him out even though she knew I still liked him! And I only broke up with him because I got tierd of her say 'break up with him' all the freakin time and her mom giving me lectures about why I should break up with him. Now she is going out with him and they are like constantly making out in front of me! How can I try to break them up without making it obvious that I'm trying to break them up?
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Her mum was giving you lectures on why you should break up with him? Thats...low. Your friend doesn't seem very nice. She actually sounds rather self-centered. If she wanted you to break up with your boyfriend for her own gain, then she's not a friend. She should care about you. Also, what was her mother saying to you?
Night-Sky posted 2 months ago
 me_who_else posted 7 months ago
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teamedward22945 said:
i think you should talk to your friend and your ex, and tell them how you feel, and maybe tell them if they are going to make out or do anything that you may not like, to not do it infront of you. and since he still loves you and you still love him, just be happy knowing that. if your best friend and ex are going out and their happy, then that should make you happy. that happened to me. my best friend went out with the guy i liked but he liked us both. and i dint like it. but she was happy so i was too. but now he broke up with her, and says hes gonna ask me out..... (srry im blabbing) anyways the point is.... dont break them up. just be happy for them and maybe just have that little talk.
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posted 7 months ago 
jameswilson said:
Sounds like its not worth your time.
A friend like that doesn't sound like much of a friend at all and trying to break them up will only put you at their level.
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posted 6 months ago 
eric_eric said:
Why would you do that obviously he doesn't want you just leave him alone and ditch the friend
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posted 7 months ago 
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He said that he does still love me. But he isn't going to break up with Sarah (best friend) because he is afraid that I'm lying and I'm not gonna ditch Sarah cuz she is like totaly freakin awsome other than the whole Tyler (ex-boyfriend) thing
me_who_else posted 7 months ago
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do what you want it's your life
eric_eric posted 7 months ago
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Do you really think Sarah is a good friend, even after she made you break up with Tyler so she could have him to herself? If you think your friendship will survive that, then you should ditch the guy. Do you really think he'll stick with you in the long run? I guess it all depends on who you trust (not value) more.
bonesluver126 posted 7 months ago
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You got played you lost its over suck it up
halogod123 posted 5 months ago
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oh i didn't get played, I've been played before and know how it feels. This isn't how it feels. And just so every1 that has actually tryed to give a good answer, Tyler broke up with Sarah and is going to ask me out. I didn't even do anything to make that happen. And I ditched Sarah, she's a totaly bitch and she was just using me. Thanks every1.
me_who_else posted 4 months ago
Rodz said:
How could you still be bestfriends with someone like that? If someone is a good friend, they wouldn`t betray you from the first place. But its your life, you do whatever feels better for you. Still, she could betray you once again for sure.. And if he really still loved you.. he wouldn`t keep making out with your friend infront of you on purpose.. Sounds like none of them are worthed really!
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posted 6 months ago 
god-of-love said:
well i think that u should talk to her and let her know how u feel,if i dosent work then talk to him and tell him that u still have feelings for him.well i hope this works i did to my sister so maybe it will.bye-bye
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posted 5 months ago 
Hidanfan said:
y did u break up w/ him if u had feelings 4 em still...but i would tell em how yah feel bout the situation and c how it works out from there...
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posted 5 months ago 
gleswigiagirl said:
tell your ex why you broke up with him and tell your best friend how you feel about her making you brake up with him so that she could have him to her self!!!
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posted 4 months ago 
MISSLOVATOSTAR1 said:
WAIT A MIN ! Your friend kept saying break up with him ,you did , and now your friend is going out with him . She must of ben liking him when you were dating him . if i had a friend like that , i would yell at her so much she would lose her hearing , but thats just me , you should tell your friend how you feel , and how wrong she was to do that to you , and if shes your real friend she'll leave him ! NOW !!!
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posted 4 months ago 
daddiesgirl said:
Don't even go through with this! I say this in the nicest way possible, but maybe your friend is happy with this guy. I kno it hurts to have her play you like this but that was her choice, not yours. Just let her be even tho she backstabbed you and you'll find that things just "fall into place"
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posted 3 months ago 
breakthemup said:
Try this website service: http://look.typepad.com/breakthemup

For a fee they will help you break up a couple.
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posted 8 days ago 
Sappp said:
Don't.

You broke up with him.

Your friend might not be innocent in this, but you broke up with your ex.

Now he has someone else, but you choose to end it.

Don't ruin his happiness because you are jealous now. If you really care for him, you'll let him be happy.


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posted 8 days ago 
Oneknightstands said:
Fuck him.
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posted 5 days ago 
Nayeli53 said:
my advice: DITCH THEM BOTH. the same thing (except that it was backwords) happened to me. ny bf had broken up with my bff and now im going out with him. when i talk to my bff, i dont talk anything bout him. we just talk bout other things. i keep it delicate. if she was your true friend then she wouldnt be hurting u like that. thats wat i do when im talking to my bff; i try to not hurt her. hope i helped.
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