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Article by africachick posted 5 months ago
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hi,

my boyfriend of almost 9 months broke up with me and he already has a girlfriend!!! I dont know what to do and i cant gat over him. i cry myself 2 sleep every ight cause i dont know what to do! He's pretending that nothing ever happened between us!!! I really love him! All my friends tell me 2 move on but i just dont know how!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really need advice... I would appreciate it if u could help me out. PLEASE help me out...

Sincerly,
Yvone Joubert
AKA: africachick
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Hey,

Unfortunately I know what it feels like..

Your friends tell you to move on, and that's probably what you want, but that's easier said then done. There's no quick fix, no magic trick, no remedy. All you can do is wait.. and that sucks. I got through it with lot's of chocolate and an occasional cry in the shower. Looking back it all seems silly and naive, and I'm sure in time you will feel the same way. Keep that in mind!

Good luck with it, and don't go easy on the chocolate, you deserve it!

Love, Eline
posted 5 months ago.
 
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hey eline,

thanks! Trust me, I'm NOT going easy on the chocolate!!! And I cry about 2-5 times daily....

Thank you for commenting!! I'll try my best!!

SIncerly,
Yvone
posted 5 months ago.
 
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hey,
this is wat u need to do
don't cry anymore be brave in fact you should have a sleep over then have a girl's night out have fun with your galfriends and enjoy life without thinking abot him

with all due and respect
Bella
posted 2 months ago.
 
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Hey....
I've been talking and hanging out with my friends a lot and it's been helping me. I am over him, I still talk to him, we're friends...I even helped him with new girlfriend problems and he helps me with problems if i need help. A few weeks ago h told my best friend that he still loves me...she told me and I was super shocked! Then a few days after he told me friend he told me....It was super weird, cause he already has a new gf...he also asked me if I'd ever take him back...i told him that I don't know, cause there is somebody else that I like......Thanx 4 commenting I appreciate it...It really helped me....

xoxo
Yvone
posted 2 months ago.
 
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Nayeli53 said:
hi,


even though i hav never been through this, i hav more or less been through with something like this.

his name was Jay.

i had a huge crush on him. i would do anything to meet him.

then one day (i dont know if its true) i find out he has a gf.

it made me depressed.

i would wear black all of the time to show my grief. but as time passed, i slowly got over him, and know i dont feel that much love for him anymore.

so just let time heal the wounds.

oh, and if he asks u if u wanna b his gf again, listen to your heart. if its confused, then that means that youre not ready to get back with him.




PEACE and LOVE
ESPERANZA (LUCIE-LOU)
posted 28 days ago.
 
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