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Article by sapherequeen posted 3 months ago
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*I believe in respecting the privacy of others, so my friend's name will just be Angelica*

So I've known this person, Angelica for quite some time. When I first added her on my fanlist, she sent me a message saying hi and we just became friends that way. She seemed really nice and sweet, I liked her :)

But then, things started to get a little out-of-hand. Angelica somehow got the idea that every time I'm on fanpop I should talk to her. Whenever I was on, she'd send me a message saying how hurt she was because I didn't send her a message. Or if I didn't reply her messages within five minutes, she freaked out and send me another one saying how hurt she was that I didn't reply or something very similar to that.

It got to the point where Angelica and I had a fight and she deleted me from her fanlist. I had to have someone sent her an apology from me so she could add me back and we could repatch things.

After that, things were alright. Angelica didn't freak out so much over me not replying her messages, but sometimes she still got upset when I didn't talk with her a lot. She'd say that she just missed me and wanted to talk with...
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Opinion by Cinders posted 4 months ago
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With the rise in brutal verbal beatings on the internet these days, with kids telling other kids things they would NEVER have said to them in person, I think it's important to point out some words that should slide right off your back.

That being said, I know it's easier to pretend that words don't hurt when they actually do. This list of words, are words that I have learned not to take offensively, and I will give you an example of why each one doesn't bother me. This way, if you ever feel yourself stung by the verbal attacks of an insecure online "friend," you can read this article and know that A) you're not alone and B) we're here to help.

List of Words That Will Never Hurt Me

1) Gay. My actual sexual orientation aside, I have never, nor will I ever, consider the words "gay" or "lesbian" an insult. First of all, because some of the sweetest, funniest, bravest people I know are gay or lesbian. And second of all, if it's homophobic straight people who want to use it as an insult, well, let's just say I'd rather be "gay" then like them.
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Article by africachick posted 4 months ago
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hi,

my boyfriend of almost 9 months broke up with me and he already has a girlfriend!!! I dont know what to do and i cant gat over him. i cry myself 2 sleep every ight cause i dont know what to do! He's pretending that nothing ever happened between us!!! I really love him! All my friends tell me 2 move on but i just dont know how!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really need advice... I would appreciate it if u could help me out. PLEASE help me out...

Sincerly,
Yvone Joubert
AKA: africachick
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