i haven`t spoken to my best friend for 2 years.We`ve known each other since 1st grade and and we easily became best friends.For the next 8 years we rarely fought about anything.Bt then we went to high school and had a fight but it wasn`t anything serious-at least that`s what i thought so.The next day i came to school and she acted like i didn`t exist.so i got angry i did too.after some time i apologized to her but she didn`t say anything.she didn`t even want to look me in the eyes.Even my friends tried to talk to her and tell her to forgive me.Soon everyone just gave up.And the worst thing is we`re in the same class and we have the same friends and go out together.And when I am near her, she always goes as far as possible which makes me angry.I tried to deal with this but i just can`t.I only feel good when she`s not around.And also sometimes i hate her and sometimes i don`t.What should i do? I hope i didn`t bother you too much.
if i were you i'd confront your friend and try to make her tell you exactly whats making her act out this way... do any of your other friends know something? ask them too
if you think its a friendship worth saving then fight for it.. if not or if your friend still doesnt want to know maybe its time to move on
i know it hurts as i once had a fantastic friend who suddenly abandoned me but time is a healer
i understand how this is a difficult situation since you have to see each other all the time.
if i were in your situation id try to just leave it though. you have done all you can apologized,talked,asked etc.
time to move on and spend time with people who dont ignore you!
Maybe something more upsetting has happened and she just needs to talk to someone. People always push away the closest to them.
Just keep trying to get through to her, If she still doesn't come around just leave her to come back to you. She might just need time or something..
You've done nothing wrong now so don't blame yourself :]
It seems like you've tried everything you can, maybe you need to ask yourself if you want someone who treats you like that to be your friend again? As sad as it is, people change.
But maybe some event has happened to her that you're unaware of, which has affected her and if it has, just leave it and wait for her to come to you about it.
Try not to beat yourself up about it, its not your fault.
So basically what everyone else has said. :)
PS Something similar happened to me a while back, where my best friend of 4 years just changed and ditched me, virtually overnight. It was awful, I was gutted and I took it so personally. But now I look back on it and the way I see it is that I now have 3 new best friends who are so great and because of that, I'm glad I'm not friends with her anymore.
I was in the same situation as you some years back. To this day i don't know why she acted like she did and she has even admitted that she has no clue what I had meant to have done to her.
Anyway after about three years we became friends again but we were never as close as we were, and the friendship slowly died for good.
I was 18 the last I saw her and i'll be 23 in two weeks.
Sometime friendships die, I doubt that you did anything wrong it's just how things go sometimes. It's sad but sometimes the best thing we can do with a frienship is let it go. If she wants to be friends again she'll let you know but regardless of what she does you have friends who do care and arnt treating you badly be thankfull you have them around.
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if you think its a friendship worth saving then fight for it.. if not or if your friend still doesnt want to know maybe its time to move on
i know it hurts as i once had a fantastic friend who suddenly abandoned me but time is a healer
i wish you the very best of luck =)
if i were in your situation id try to just leave it though. you have done all you can apologized,talked,asked etc.
time to move on and spend time with people who dont ignore you!
Maybe something more upsetting has happened and she just needs to talk to someone. People always push away the closest to them.
Just keep trying to get through to her, If she still doesn't come around just leave her to come back to you. She might just need time or something..
You've done nothing wrong now so don't blame yourself :]
But maybe some event has happened to her that you're unaware of, which has affected her and if it has, just leave it and wait for her to come to you about it.
Try not to beat yourself up about it, its not your fault.
So basically what everyone else has said. :)
PS Something similar happened to me a while back, where my best friend of 4 years just changed and ditched me, virtually overnight. It was awful, I was gutted and I took it so personally. But now I look back on it and the way I see it is that I now have 3 new best friends who are so great and because of that, I'm glad I'm not friends with her anymore.
I hope this helps <3
Anyway after about three years we became friends again but we were never as close as we were, and the friendship slowly died for good.
I was 18 the last I saw her and i'll be 23 in two weeks.
Sometime friendships die, I doubt that you did anything wrong it's just how things go sometimes. It's sad but sometimes the best thing we can do with a frienship is let it go. If she wants to be friends again she'll let you know but regardless of what she does you have friends who do care and arnt treating you badly be thankfull you have them around.
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