Alexander Rybak: It is hard for me to say "no" to sex

Well I think it's a good thing that he admits it eventhough it's something that we don't wanna hear ...

I agree. Finally he says it at loud and this is not a rumor..

yeah ı want say alot of things and ı couldnt say anything at the same time :D

well first I was a bit afraid of the comments on my message , well I'm glad that you guys think the same !

As it is an article in Iltalehti or Seura it would be nice to hear what Alexander really said.....not everything that we read is true or can be only partially true. I wouldn't believe in Seura and Iltalehti. They are Finnish Scandal magazine and newspaper. They have to sell a lot. Maybe they have found that if they tell something about Rybak it sells in Finland as well as in Norway. Just forget these stories!

in which date did he give that interview?

he gave it 10.9.09 i think.

I buy a finnish magazine SEURA and there is more about that...

kuutti, no, this is right because alex has said these things! this is an interwiev.

I have that Seura-magazine, it is kinda "familymagazine", not a gossip- or scandalmagazine. It was an interview about Humans seven mortal sins,(pride,envy,hate,laziness,greedineess­,gl­utt­ony and debauchery). That what Hanatee translated was precisely what Alexander said. But what I am thinking about this is that he is young and young men are acting like that. There are any 23-year old (or only few) who will refuse sex when it's offered! So he is like anybody else, young and normal man with normal needs and sexlife. But I can't blame only Alexander because there are allways and will allways be "fans" who are thinking it's nice to go bed with celebrities. Those girls don't understand that they are not respected and their acting isn't good. I know that Alex should have been thinking his responsible for his fans and not to do what he has done! But there are allways two persons who can say no! But it is a good thing that he admits what he has done. Allthough this wasn't quite a thing I want to hear about him...Hope you understand what I mean and sorry for my english. And by the way, I still think he is sexy, hot, sweet, cute, handsome and much more and I still love him.

In magazines and papers you read only what the reporter has written there. I believe that Hanatee has translated the article as it is in that Iltalehti newspaper or SEURA magazine BUT this is not necessarily same as the whole interview!!! It is reporters own choice what he/she writes.

Also words could have been "put into Alexander's mouth" (for an experienced reporter this is very easy to do) and then the editor can use them to get more "deliciuos" article.

I doubt that Alexander has read this article and accepted or corrected it before it was published.

i agree with you kuutti we don't know the true it is just reporters maybe they changed it!!!!!

Yes, Hanatee only translated what the reporter has written. And of course it is always reporter “own choice” how she/he set out the interview. We all know that! What Hanatee translated was only one part of that article (debauchery).
The whole article was written like Alexander himself had written it (which he of course hasn’t). And the other parts were very familiar things for all of us. We have all heard them interviews which Alexander has given past months.
Of course the article is not unquestionable truth, they never are! And maybe he hasn’t read it or he has read it and accepted it, we don’t know that. (By the way, Seura isn’t a scandal magazine, Seiska and Hymy are.)
But I don’t really understand what is the problem with this article? Is it because that sex- thing or what? That he says (or the reporter says, as you wish) that he has gone too far with some fans few times and he feels he hasn’t abused his position instead he has been abused? (You don't believe he can do that kind of things?) Or that the article tries to show him just a human been?

By the way, I have never thought that Alexander is kinda innocent or an angel (like many others in here feels) and in my opinion he isn’t stupid, he knows exactly how to play this game. Even though, he sometimes does and says doubtful things. He is now a celebrity and he is enjoying himself but fundamentally he is just an ordinary young man.

Once again, sorry for my bad English. I don’t know if I have brought out my thoughts correctly. Hope you understand my meaning.

Oh, one more thing. If Alexander hasn’t read and checked out that article I’m sure his management has. Because I don’t believe they are so naïve that not to check out his interviews!

micaelak_1 is so very right with this. others try to make alex an innocent angel, which he is not. everyone has their bad sides? gosh try to understand that ALEXANDER IS NOT PERFECT :D

I read the whole article in Seura and to have this kind of heading is quite questionable and misleading. If chosen correctly the heading should reflect the contents of the article. (Because many people read only the heading not the whole article). So why take this, a very small part of this interwiev in the end to the heading??

And Iltalehti has taken only this sex part to its article of the whole interview in Seura. To give Alex a sex maniac reputation???

Well well well
"Alex a sex maniac"??? Mmm mamamia!!! ;))

I just read this article and to be honest I am a little perplexed of his avoeux. Although I agree with his honesty, which for me is the most characteristic about him.
I THINK it is quite natural and very holy for the body and mind, to think about his sexuality ;p But I wonder what he really wants and what he seeks to prove, by embracing these girls at their concerts.

He said being in love, thinking he may have found the love of his life. But Alex, have you no fears about this? Do you think you could hurt your loved, that you kissing those girls?
You're smart enough to know that there is a big difference between making love to the woman of his dreams and spend a night of sex with no future.

ONLY YOU can know what's for YOUR EYES, is the most important! I understand that this is not always easy to manage ... But I also think that if Europe is to vote for you is that she believes in you, hoping not to be deceived.

To me you're still this boy with his head on his shoulders AND with that strength in YOUR SMILE that you will be able to face anything in life. That's all the good I wish you with a ton of love to share in the arms of your beloved.
And DO NOT FORGET, that people love you and admire you for what you are, and not what others want you to become!


I thank those who take the time to read me, and I apologize to others who would not understand lol

i think so too.
like all of you said:he is not perfect!
even if we thought so.
i still love him!!!!!!!!!

OMG, please girls! I think the most evil is she/he, who made the headline of the article! Alex said that he had have difficulties to say no thank you, but he didn´t tell what he did!!! The headline try to tell something else!
The reporter of Skavalan try the same trick, but he was not successful.

Alex is now so popular that media try to get some evil things about him and make money.

Well well well

We all have a degree of perfection, according to the criteria our experiences and our devotion.

But to be honest, (to my eyes) perfection is the agreement of a couple in love for the melody of happy!

The smile of a child is a perfection, nature is perfection, the sky is a perfection, a sunset is perfection, the finger of a fairy on the cheek of an angel is a perfection, a kind word , a caress, support perfections are indeed quite common but equally important!!! ; )



If I remember correctly, Skavalan was very good.
And I also think that some media do their jobs well.
Unfortunately not all, but we make to Generalities?!?. Maybe they mostly try to fill customer's choice section about the artist and the magazine! lol



Of course I forgot to mention the beautifull body of MY TENDER dear ALEXANDER, because for me it is... and of course,
a perfection of nature! ; )) (Oups)

ps: I LOVE U2 darling

Ninouchka, I agree with you: he is perfect! He is an angel.

Hey guys, aren’t we all a little pathetic and ridiculous. This is so absurd. We all noticed that headline, and we all were curious and read the text! And now we are arguing about his acting with his fans, has he done something wrong, is he perfect, is he a human been or an angel or whatever. It is so absurd!
He is so talented, awesome, beautiful, cute, nice, wonderful, charismatic, attractive, sexy and yes, he is like an angel! And I’m so appreciate to his parents that they have given us so well-brought-up son as Alexander is.
But I’m still thinking he’s not perfect (he has said himself that he has also a dark side). I want him to mature and that isn’t possible if he is perfect. Now he is young and he has done few mistakes (I think)? But that’s okay I don’t care, I still love him!!! To me he is like an angel, but not perfect one!!!

An angel, perfect or what ever you want but we all love him!!!

Thanks for tranlate :) And finally he said it loudly. I agree with Ingrutja "smart devil with angel's face" :)

dont be blind girls! He have said that and to me it's okay.

Patethic... he is not perfect but that doesn't mean that he is a bad person. I mean.. he is 23 years old MAN, of course he likes sex and stuff. And that is his own business.

Thanks for translating and posting this

I liked that he said that because he's honest and no one of you can believe that he's a virgin..he's a young man and many young people and older people for that sake..likes sex and it's natural thing and it's not bad to have sex...and he's not a naughty boy or a bad man he's just a normal person. I like that he's honest and I also believe that when he gets a girlfriend he won't be unfaithful. =)

Yes, MildaViolin. He is a normal single who is looking around. How can you find somebody if you don't know what you are looking for? One day he´ll find somebody, and she is not this Moa! It seems to be too difficult. (I´m sorry Alex and Moa if you read this!) The curious fact is that he speaks so openly about his private life in public. But perhaps that is what makes him so fascinating!