commitment is something that men have to prepare themselves for,we cant just jump into it and expect that everything is going to be great,thats very rare. but there are a lot of patient women out there who understand that. and i have felt the same way before u just have to find the right girl,she's out there

Well I seriously doubt any chick would wanna go out with me for "Status". LOL. But the reason I fear commitment is because it brings on: arguments about the most stupidest things, having to run your plans by her, having to "make love" not sex, the constant texting, the jealousy and yes.....the belief that I have to pay for everything they want. I understand about paying for dinner and food and shit but I'm not gonna pay for a pair of shoes that cost an arm and a leg. SERIOUSLY!!! This girl i dated would go on shopping sprees and come to my place handing me the receipts so I could give her the money she spent. And I get by but I aint exactly loaded. Ok enough of the rant.
I'm not saying every girl is like this but there are hints of it in every girl. The dependency on money is rare in my opinion. I think it just gets to them

wealthy guy + me dating him = Money for me!!!

I think its more of a sub conscious thing (except for the bitch I dated. she knew what she was doing....bitch). I think from an early stage in the relationship you should mention that you don't like that in a girl (ie. Mention your past experiences). But be subtle about it.

And remember...........NEVER PAY FOR THEIR SHOES!!!!!!!