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Addressing the issue: Fiction is fiction, life is real

Opinion by Chandlerfan posted 3 months ago
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First of all, I'd like to say that this has mostly stemmed from the House MD promo that made quite a lot of you fans, both old and new, flip out. This article addresses mostly that but hits on a deeper underlying issue.
Also, I’m a little pissed at having to constantly see S6 spoilers everywhere. By all means, discuss it, but mark it as a spoiler and discuss it in a forum, not on every pick/image/video you see. I haven’t managed to even see S5 yet, so this doesn’t help much. Because I now know what might happen in S6...I may as well write this article...which, by the way, has spoilers in it for anyone else who’s trying to stay spoiler-free.
The fact that I’m actually ranting in an article about this whole thing should show you exactly how serious this is. Perhaps you new fans who don’t know me don’t realise this, but the older fans who do know me will tell you that this isn’t something I usually do.
Also, if you have allergies to occasional swearing, blunt comments, or a metaphorical slap in the face, then don’t read this article. It’s your choice.
You’ve also been warned that this is a Marmite article: you’ll either love it or hate it.
Now on with the article...




Out of the following, which would you personally be more concerned about?
-Kids all over the world dying because they don’t have the necessary amenities
-Exploitation of workers who get paid next to nothing just because they know nothing about minimum wage
-Money being the inherent reason people go to war, costing more lives
-House kissing someone who’s not Cuddy in the Season 6 promo

How many of you would pick the Huddy option? Or does your love of Huddy pale in comparison to the other more serious options?

From the various comments I have seen around this spot over the past month or so, it seems to me that Huddy is THE most important thing in the world. I realise that in the Huddy spot, you’ll want to talk about Huddy and not so much the serious issues. But please, please, please, will you just consider those issues before flipping out over one misleading promo? Please can you realise that fiction is not something to get worked up about. Real life, on the other hand, is a different story. Sure, I understand that some people have issues in their real lives and come on Fanpop and flail etc. as a form of escapism. But don’t let that go too far. The show WILL end at some point and I quite frankly think it’s better if it does end at some point in the near future, otherwise the storylines will get ridiculous when the writers run out of inspiration and all the ardour with which you declared yourself a Huddy fan will dissipate before the show ends. Ship what you want. Like what you want. Just remember to put things into a little perspective before overreacting. Please.

Below, there are a few links where I found that some comments were just ridiculously over the top. I’m talking about the comments themselves and NOT the content, so can we make that clear please. Another reason why I’m posting the links is to show you that I did have a look around the spot and this article isn’t extrapolating one comment and turning it into this rant of an article. I’ve done my research. So don’t tell me I’m overreacting.

Here are the links:

House MD promo
These comments are absolutely fucking ridiculous...I mean, it’s just fiction...there are far more important things to get worked up over! I never really come on the Huddy spot a lot as it is, but I still like to occasionally wander over. I used to like the Huddy spot. Now, I don’t really want to come on this spot ever again. I no longer see the point.

Pick - what if there was no Huddy kiss in S6
These comments are (mostly) sensible...surprisingly. Yes, I’m shocked because I was expecting a lot more people to go ‘NOOOOOO!!!!’ or ‘Death to David!’ or something along those lines. I hope that emphasises the decline of the Huddy fandom, as I wouldn’t have actually expected this kind of behaviour beforehand despite the immature comments that have been posted over the past year.

Pick - what's worse; House&Lydia or Cuddy&Lucas?
Mature comments. Crikey. An apocalypse.

One of the answer...question’s...
Ohh, puh-lease! I spiralled into a state of (almost) depression just reading some of these comments. So, House is kissing another woman...big fucking deal. It adds a little realism to the whole Huddy relationship. Get over it. Please.

Remember, it's not the article, it's the comments
Thank you Hilly for trying to calm some of the fans (even if that wasn’t your intention – loving the optimism). But fans saying they’re feeling better (or not in some cases)?! Are you freaking kidding me!? If that infamous promo quite literally made you feel ill...perhaps Mayfield is better suited to you? (Bitch, please.)

Oh dear, the comments on this link
Cami, I could hug you to (almost) death for your good sense! *proceeds hugging to (almost) death* But seriously...it’s just a 2 second kiss...it does NOT ruin Huddy’s chances. Calm. Breathe. Quit panicking. It’s only a kiss. It’s only a TV show.

Fab, you are awesome. Here’s why
Someone who knows how to logically and calmly explain her point of view without sounding like an idiot. I salute you, Fab! (And of course, anyone else who made a mature comment on that forum.)


Please note, it's your right to react in whatever way you please; just keep it at least somewhat sensible.
Perhaps this will make you realise how stupid and insignificant it seems getting worked up over fiction. Perhaps this won’t affect you at all. Think of this what you will. At least I know I’ve tried.

Thanks for reading,
Chandlerfan
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Olivine said:
Wise words, Chandlerfan, wise words :) What else can I say? I agree.
posted 3 months ago.
 
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*claps*
I could not agree more with you!As Cami said,wise words :)
I love this article.
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I love this article. Maybe it'll help some of those that are so worked up put things into perspective.
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^^^ agrees with all of the above. i, personally, have tried to keep away from some of this stuff...although when i FIRST heard about it i flipped but not phsyco crazy...lol
thanks for the article...hopefully people will read and understand...
props for you :)
posted 3 months ago.
 
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Great job CF. :D
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I completely agree! Nicely said. =)
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oldmovie said:
What more can be said?
*claps for CF*

On a side note, I'm sorry this is completely off topic but I wanted to say it, its so nice to see you again CF its been a while :)
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Well as you can tell that I did say some things but that was my freaking out with out thinking about it....lol I really should have waited a while before I said anything about it. I am not really freaking out now and I am not too worried as I have also put in some places. I am dont think I would like Huddy as much if there wasnt all of this stuff going on. Lol the reason Huddy is not the same as other typical love stuff is because it is unconventional and different and that is one thing that i like about it. You may think that i am being hyprocital by saying this but I am not too worked up now and thanks for the post because you do make some really good points in it. As for me i am a new-ish fan of house so as you can imagine i am not used to all of this stuff but I am getting there. Geez I can talk a lot lol!! Thanks again for the post. :)
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*claps*
Thank you CF :))))
I also tried to bring fans to their senses, I posted an article on the House spot :P

You have no idea how much I laughed while I read your article and all the comments under those links XDDDDDDDDDDD

We are silly! XD
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salemslot said:
*claps until an arm breaks off*
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Thanks for the comments guys! =D

OM - I agree, I haven't seen you in ages! University + trying to stay spoiler-free = less chance of wandering over to the House spots unfortunately =[ But good to see you again! =D

HuddyBrave - I can see you're a nice person from when I've talked to you on the CSI:NY related spots and realise that being a new fan and all you can easily get swept up in all the excitement of fandom. I'd be lying if I said I never got excited as a new fan. But I'm glad you responded positively rather than chopping my head off because I do like you =D

Hilly - I. Must. Read. That. NOW! XD

salemslot - *hands over new arm*
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Thanks for this CF! Haven't been commenting in a while because I got frustrated being here with all those comments... gets really tedious really fast, doesn't it?

And... as I too haven't seen you in ages, Hi!
posted 3 months ago.
 
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I know what you mean THC.

And HI! back =D *uber Wilson hugs* (yes, I just made that up XD)
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Cuddles said:
*hugs cf*

You said everything that needed to be said.
*bows down before her*

Thanks for writing :)
posted 3 months ago.
 
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*hugs Cuddles back*
Thank you!
And I haven't seen you in ages! =[
I really need to be as active as I was last year so I can talk to you guys more XD
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Cuddles said:
Yeah, that's right.

Well, atm I have nothing to do.
(unfortunately)
posted 3 months ago.
 
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I wish I had nothing to do...I have too much to do *needs a stress pill* University in a week =O And I feel so unprepared for it =[

How've you been though? =]
posted 3 months ago.
 
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Cuddles said:
Wow, that's great.

Yeah, I've been quite alright. I just have some problems atm as I plan to go to America and did everything for it to work out but got no answer so far. Which makes me feel anxious.
But in general I am ok :)

How have you been?
posted 3 months ago.
 
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*huggles mum-in-law* :P
wise words!!!!!!! so well put
well done :)
posted 3 months ago.
 
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Cuddles: Aww, I hope you get your answer soon and you get to go =]
I've been pretty good myself thanks - looking forward to moving to London next week =D

Son-in-law: Thank you! =D *hugs back*
posted 3 months ago.
 
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Cuddles said:
You're moving to London?
*is jealous*

I was in London three weeks ago. It was so awesome.
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*nods* I'll be there for 4 years...well 3 because I'll be in Italy for one year =D I may consider living in London permanently after I graduate...don't worry, I'll kidnap you occasionally XD
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Cuddles said:
YAY! XD

Italy also sounds great :D
Good luck with everything
*hugs her again*
posted 3 months ago.
 
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=D
Thank you! And good luck to you too for America =]
*hugs back*
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Cuddles said:
Thanks :D
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Luckys! Lol I the farthest place I have been is half the way across the country to New York Lol so Italy sounds good! Lol And no prob when i read my old commetns I was like "Holy Cow! WTF was I thinking lol and now I am really not freaking out lol. By the way nice article! It was very true about all of us. i try to stay away from the spoliers but I just cant help my self lol! And once again I talk ALOT! Lol I really need to stop that! Lol :) Havent seen you in a while! Lol Nice to see you again. (Oh and thanks for not saying I am a hyprocite.) Lol :)
posted 3 months ago.
 
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