Dear Jon and Kate:
I have been a fan of your show since the beginning and I have loved watching because you show life and these wonderful kids that God gave to you.
I am also very sorry that you are going through these rough times right now. I have never believed the tabloids nor will I ever. What I am sad about is seeing the stress that is on the two of you right now. It broke my heart watching the opening episode of this season and seeing you both very upset.
I know you get a lot of advice from different fans. But, from a married lady of 30 years (and believe me, we have had our share of problems) here are some things that saved my marriage.
1. I know in previous episodes that you are religious people. Seek God and your minister, ask for guidance and counseling. I can't believe that after 8 kids, you still are only in it for the kids.
2. Go on hiatus for awhile so that privacy can help to mend wounds and heal hearts. I know that many of your fans will understand if this occurs. I know that I will watch when you return.
3. Kate, allow Jon the ability to be a breadwinner. Give him the chance to be productive in the work force. I learned the hard way when you take a man's need for supporting his family, you take away a part of his genetic makeup. He has to feel that he is the head of the family instead of a nanny.
4. Jon, allow Kate to have a career and encourage her to continue writing her books. Go with her and the kids on the trips.
In this day and age of divorce, it breaks my heart to hear of any marriage dissolving. You are in my thoughts and prayers. You will get through this.
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I really like Jon & Kate Gosselin show, I followed it from when it started, it's sad to see what happened. But Has anyone heard about a author who wrote a marriage book just for them Jon & Kate Gosselin. I found it and downloaded a copy is was a good book. Here is
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No, I (nor I guess does anyone else who's not close to them)won't waste my time with 'shows' like this, because I'll not be a part of the exploitation of children, and while I understand the fact that they might have needed the money very badly, what parent in their right minds would put their children through this mess?
Please look at the 'out come' of such terrible 'decisions' on the part of parents who should know better than this. Their marriage is over, I'd bet a dollar to a donut at least two or three of those children will have major 'issues' because of all this, and since the 'money grabbers' who started all this are laughing themselves stupid at Jon and Kate's messed up lives, they're bringing back this train wreck 'without' the father.
Instead of doing what's right for ALL of them, those no good, money hungry writers, producers, etc. will further put the family at odds by letting this 'sin-sickness' continue at any price.
Lastly, know you will probably delete this anyhow, but here goes. "Being religious" does not mean the person(s) are in a "religionship with God the Father and our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ", which could have very well stopped this 'circus' before it even started.
Lastly, I pray they seek your advice, by seeking God/Jesus and perhaps their minister for the help that they need right away. I won't be watching but I can and will pray (especially for the children)for them both. May God help each and every one of them.
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