I never care about what couples are splitting up on reality shows because I figure they are on TV for the wrong reasons and making themselves look like idiots. One thing that got me about your show was it made me feel as tough as times are there's always a way through it. I know the stress of one child never mind eight. I don't buy magazines to see the latest gossip because then I feel I am just as bad as the people trying to get the latest scoop. I hope that even with the seperation you both will reconcile because when I see you guys on TV I can see the love you both have for each other. I just hope that you guys will find what brought you both together in the first place and start from that. I would never take the time to write something in a fan club but I just hope you get a chance to read it.
I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years and have had major problems but after a few weeks apart I knew there was nobody else. I'm not saying to stay together for the wrong reasons but I hope you both get a chance to really talk and open up before you give up.
With all the bad comments regarding their marriage and kids,I am surprised we have any divorce in this country. Seems no one else has any problems with their marriages. Unless you live in the home you can't make comments, the best thing people could do is stay out of their business and let them work things out however it may be. And as far as the extended family talking dirt they should be ashamed of themselves, they are just betraying the family. Why don't they just SAY a prayer for them instead, We are not perfect human beings and we all make mistakes. LEAVE THEM ALONE, THEY LOVE THEIR KIDS AND WILL DO WHAT IS BEST FOR THEM!!!
I have been a fan of your show since the beginning and I have loved watching because you show life and these wonderful kids that God gave to you.
I am also very sorry that you are going through these rough times right now. I have never believed the tabloids nor will I ever. What I am sad about is seeing the stress that is on the two of you right now. It broke my heart watching the opening episode of this season and seeing you both very upset.
I know you get a lot of advice from different fans. But, from a married lady of 30 years (and believe me, we have had our share of problems) here are some things that saved my marriage.
1. I know in previous episodes that you are religious people. Seek God and your minister, ask for guidance and counseling. I can't believe that after 8 kids, you still are only in it for the kids.
2. Go on hiatus for awhile so that privacy can help to mend wounds and heal hearts. I know that many of your fans will understand if this occurs. I know that I will watch when you return.