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Can anyone help me?

I recently told my best friend that I'm bisexual and she didn't seem to like it. Every time I'm trying to talk about it she is talking about something else. When I told her that we shouldn't be friends anymore cause we don't have something in common and she doesn't even let me talk about my interests, she told me that I'm the best friend she ever had and she doesn't wanna lose me. The point is that even after that she doesn't seem to accept my sexuality.
What should I do?

So how are things going with you and your friend? Did the two of you get the chance to resolve your differences? I think we all have friends who are uncomfortable discussing some issues in life...maybe she is not comfortable with her own sexuality enough to be able to understand where you are coming from. Or maybe this is just one of those topics in life that she honestly does not relate to.....hopefully you have enlightened her with some of your own wisdom: as in, just because we have different sexual interest, this doesn't mean we can't be supportive of one another. Good luck in whatever you do. Hugs

sunny1966 posted 1 month ago

thanx for asking. we are fine now. we actually didn't talk about it again and the reason is that i'm more straigh now(and getting more straigh every day XD) so now it's not that important. i guess we(me and my friend) are better this way. thanx again.

erlina41 posted 1 month ago

erlina41 posted 4 months ago

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deecool101 said:

i think u should just sit her down and say "look, i need a friend who is going 2 support me no matter what and if u cant even support my sexualaity (sry if i spelled it wrong) i dont know how this friendship is going 2 work" best of luck 2 u! im here if u need support <3

posted 4 months ago

this is what i'm going to tell her! thank u!

erlina41 posted 4 months ago

welcome!

deecool101 posted 4 months ago

shannon_tennant said:

Hello,
well to be honest if she was ur friend then she would accept you for who you are :)
so u need to different ones who love you just the way you are :)

Xxxx

posted 4 months ago

thanx

erlina41 posted 4 months ago

lucia82 said:

if she doesnt want to lose you and she doesnt want to talk about your interests then, i dont know.. maybe she isnt a good friend. but you two should talk.good luck!=D

posted 4 months ago

thanx, I'm gonna try to talk to her again about this.

erlina41 posted 4 months ago

emoloversrock said:

to me it sounds like she is trying to change you but make sure and i am sure that you are stronger than that. dont let anyone change who are and just remember you are who u and she may be upset cause you are not who she wants you to be and let her know how you feel about her not allowing you to express your feelings and ask her if she could please accept u for who you are and then you will really know if she really thinks of you as the best friend she ever had

posted 4 months ago

Snubbles42 said:

freinds arent firends if they be like that just leave her

posted 6 days ago

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