ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS TELL THEM TO BUY YOU A DRUM SET AND AS ALWAYS THE WILL SAY NO. THEN YOU CONVENCE THEM TO BUY YOU DRUMS BUT DON;T SAY A WORD BUT DO GOOD STUFF LIKE DO YOUR CHOURS BEFORE THEIR COMPELETING TIME OR WORK HARD IN SCHOOL. WORK THIS METHOD FOR ATLEAST UNTIL THEY SATART FEELING SORRY FOR YOU BUT IF THIS DOES NOT WORK THE BECOME BAD DONT DO YOUR CHOURS FAIL IN SCHOOL FOR PURPOSE. DONT EAT YOUR FOOD AND IF THEY ASK WHY TELL THEM YOU WILL LISTEN TO THEM WHEN THEY LISTEN TO YOU S-I-M-P-L-E SIMPLE