Yeah..it is.I feel so bad for her.My family is all nervous ansd insecure now that.So my parents atre all worryed when my older sibs go on dates or when me or the younger kids go out.Yeah it is sad..but im real close to her so im helpoing her get through it.She talks to me a lot.Itas a tuff time for my family.Exspecily her.But we will get through it somehow