Who was meaner to Spike?

I LOVE SPIKE!!! And Buffy always left him for someone else.Or at least that is what I remember.

duh!

I picked Dru, because she was supposed to be in love with him, and yet she played some wicked head games with him. It really bugged me when Spike was stuck in the wheelchair, and she'd be messing around with Angel.
With Buffy, I'm not sure if she ever knew how she really felt about Spike. Half of the time she hated him, and she made that clear to him. I think that gave her more of a reason to act the way she did. I think she started to appreciate him more as time went on, maybe even like him, but not something that would ever turn into the relationship that he wanted.

I very much agree with TheCountess, I like what you wrote.

yeah dru may have messed with his head a bit with angel but buffy did way more damage in a couple of years than dru did in centuries!

He likes mean girls :D

drusilla u expect to be mean but buffy just treated him like a doormat not that im a big fan of spike but she did!

You Cant Deny The Truth Though...Buffy Was Meaner To Him...But Thats Only Because He was The Big Bad I Suposse...Lol

Until the very end buffy was meaner But Dru did some dammage too him 2

why are you on the spike spot if your not a big fan of spike miss mkena?

Dru was just messing around, plus she was evil, whereas Buffy has a soul and she should never have used Spike like that.

Not that Spike isn't a big boy and can make his own choices, but still.

Yeah I agree. Drucilla may have done some cruel stuff, but didnt have a soul and wasn't excatly in the right frame of mind.

Whereas Buffy knew she was using him, even though spike was so loyal , reliable and kind to her.

duh! dru doesnt even have a soul so everything she did doesnt matter, but buff......

she was so mean to him !
(though he kinda liked it)
lol

1. Dru cheats on him with Angelus.
2. Dru cheats on him with the Immortal.
3. Dru breaks up with him while he was still in love with her.
4. Dru plays around with Angelus in s2.
Buffy exploits him and treats him like her slave sex poodle, but Spike knows it and still wants to be treated this way. (btw this fact reassured me he loved her unconditionally.) Now, if he didn't know, then i would consider if Buffy was meanest.

Dru, just because she doesn't have a soul, that doesn't mean all the evil things she does were done because of that fact. Spike proved that to us, by being loyal to buffy!

Thats hard.
Buffy wasn't exactly mean to him......
xo

i do love spuffy, but she really was a jerk to him most of the time