They say its a girl show, but I find it not true

^agree! I don't see why guys can't watch... It would be nice if a few more guys post here as they might offer a different perspective/expanation of a scene/character/episode :-)

Yeah I agree. I would love to have a guys point of view. Just to see what they think about the show compared to how we girls feel.

yes but also he doesn't want people 2 c the good in him as they will expect it and he doesn't want 2 live up 2 anyone's expectations

I agree, ggdelena. And beyond not wanting the responsibility of expectations, I think his fear is that he CAN'T live up to any good expectations. All his life he's been compared to Stefan and told he wasn't good enough, so I don't think he's just being selfish like, "Don't count on me because I don't care what happens to you." I think he just feels like a failure and is afraid that if someone trusts him, he'll only let them down and they'll reject him all over again. It's like what he told Jessica on the road that night...he WANTS to be a better man, he just doesn't think he's capable of it, so it's better if people don't have good expectations of him so that he can't let them down. I think that's just so sad, because he has such a good heart and I hate that people keep overlooking that in him!

yaa

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^^Thank you!!

i liked it before

banners looks bad..

It looks like a daycare advertisement, all flashy with bright colors and giant banners everywhere. I definitely preferred the more sophisticated look

I signed every petition possible. :)