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How To Know If A Guy Likes You?

Guide by chescamae13 posted 2 months ago
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1. Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he rarely turns his back to you, often leans towards you, and also looks at you a lot. If he slouches his shoulders when near you, he's romantic and cares about what you have to say. If he points his shoulders and pelvis towards you while sitting, he is definitely feeling something for you.

2. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he may either look away quickly if he is shy, or he'll try to catch your eye and hold it or make faces. This can be uncomfortable if you don't like him. If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there. When he's around you and he says/does something funny and everyone around laughs, his eyes will flicker towards you for a second to see if you laughed, too.
-His pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes. If you're around him for a long time, it could be easier to pick up on gradually.

3. Listen to what he's saying. If he likes you, and he's nervous, he'll probably start talking about himself. Many times, guys feel the need to prove themselves- especially if you talk about another guy in his company.

4. Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, and won't move his leg if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things - all are good signs of a guy liking you, unless he's a bit of a "playboy" who flirts with a lot of girls. See if he uses any of the tricks in How to Touch a Girl, and see if he uses them more with you than with anyone else.

5. Watch his actions around other girls and see if he treats you differently. Some guys flirt with other girls to get your attention. It gives them a chance to see your reaction. It helps them know if you really do like them or not. The way you can tell that they are trying to make you jealous is that they find little times when they're flirting with the other girl to look at you. His eyes will flick over and look at you. Another sign is that when you leave, he stops flirting with the other girl. That will be a harder one to pick up on, but you can have a friend look for you or something like that. You have to be sneaky sometimes to find out if a guy likes you.

6. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. For example, if you like a certain genre of music that he likes as well, he may suggest bands or artists for you to listen to. Another example, if you play sports he may ask to play against you just to show off that he's good at something you both like and then also have a reason to give you compliments as well.

7. Check for signs of nervousness Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, deep breaths, fidgeting, looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies.

8. Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him.

9. Study their reactions to your presence - do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don't?


10. Don't ignore him If he shows genuine interest in you, (i.e. smiles at you a lot in the hallway, work, etc., at least go out for a walk.)

11. Look to see if he imitates you If he mimics you, he probably likes you, such as, if you move to another table, he'll go with you.

12. Teasing If a guy teases you a lot, it might mean he likes you, but if he doesn't tease any other girl, he probably does like you.
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good thing u wrote this some dude in my technolagy class is doing A LOT of those signs!
posted 2 months ago.
 
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big smile
ZOMG thank you :D
posted 1 month ago.
 
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That's more what a girl wants to think most of that, most guys wouldn't do that, cause they get sent emails like this and they tell me how supid they are
posted 1 month ago.
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TOTALFan said:
OH MY GOD!!!!!!!
JOHNNY DOES FREAKING LIKE ME!!!!
HE HAS DONE ALL OF THOSE THINGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HE LOOKS AT ME CONSTINTLY!!!
OUR LEGS TOUCHED IN ENGLISH AND HE DID NOT MOVE!!!!!!!
HE IS ALWAYS FACING ME WHEN TALKING TO HIS FRIENDS AND HE IS ALWAYS TALKING TO OTHER GIRLS WHEN VERY NEAR ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!!!!!!!
OH AND WHEN I WAS EATING LUNCH HE WENT RIGHT NEXT TO ME!!!!!!!
posted 1 month ago.
 
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Hmm, quite useful.
posted 1 month ago.
 
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Good ! Very good this could really help me .
posted 1 month ago.
 
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worried
AWWW man! This guy at my school likes me he stalkes me.
posted 21 days ago.
 
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meh
No Offense or anything, but I get forwards like this all the time, and to be honest they just make me feel more and more stupid. Plus sometimes if a girl likes a guy they can imagine alllll of that.
posted 19 days ago.
 
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i have to agree with dancing banana....if you like a guy most chicks are automatically going to think that they like them back and really then any movement they make can make it seem that they "like you back" not trying to trash your article or anything =)

oh and how can you really prove that someone's pupil will dilate if they "like" you?
posted 12 days ago.
 
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shomill said:
It's not just guys... Girls do that stuff, too... Anyway, I have, on occasion.

BTW, where'd you get all this info? Personal experience, or out of a book? Or are you a guy, yourself?
posted 1 day ago.
 
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