This is it! I found MadTheSlayer's youtube account where she posted this anew. Everyone should be able to watch it now. The best Spuffy - Bring Me to Life video that I've seen.
Buffy has had love trouble in her past but when she falls for Spike everything seems to be good, except her friends thinks she's crazy for loving him. All credit goes to Fox and the vid's creator. Made by bornbutterfly.