I don't think she'd hate them, but she would feel different from them. She would probably hang out with Mulan the most. lol.

She doesn't really hate girly girls, she just hates the fancy dresses and pomp and circumstance since it represents to her a restricting of freedom. I think she would love girly girls like Rapunzel and Ariel since they're so high energy and rebellious. i think she would also like the more subdued Cinderella and Aurora a bit less, not because they're girly but because they're a bit passive.

Her mother is rather girly and feminine so she wouldn't hate the other DPs, just realize that they have different tastes. Plus, all of the girls have strength in their own ways which I think Merida would appreciate.

I don' think she'd hate them, but I think she would think them annoying, and a part of her wish she could be like them to please her mother.

Not really, no. She doesn't seem to be an insecure person who dislikes other people based on that. Which is what bothers me that the fandom portrays her as this girly-hating man-hating spoiled brat who only mouths off at anyone who disagrees with her. Ugh...

No, I don't think so. Sure, she doesn't like it when her mother expects her to act more feminine, but I don't think she'd dislike other girls for being girly.

I don't think she would hate anybody just for the sake of being girly? It's not like Merida hates girly things, she just would rather be herself, and she happens to not be girly.