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Fanpop Does age (over 13) matter on Fanpop?
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Yes. I believe it does
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No i don't think so
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Maturity does
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It is a particular pet peeve of mine that when you don't agree or have advice to give some older fanpoppers get narked because it is coming from a young 'un.
(I am not saying this about every middle aged fanpopper of course. But there are ones as i described unfortunately)
It doesn't so much as "mean anything" but it is judged, i will try and answer everything fairly and treat everyone fair but when a 14 year old is getting dramatic you just want to go "suck it up! wait 4-7 more years and it'll get so much worse!".
11-12 I think it's fine.
but below that. I think there is stuff thats not suitable for them on this site.
I try to steer away from such.
me whether or not she should date this guy, and I told her plain and simple that in my opinion, she was way too young to be dating anyone. I didn't say she was a bad person, she asked my opinion. Who knows, maybe her parents think that is a good age to date, and when she read my response, she started cursing at me, telling me I was a horrible person for thinking that she was too young and she could do whatever she wanted. Then some of her friends piped in, telling me that I had no idea what I was talking about ( which is very funny coming from a group 12 year olds)
Obviously, she wasn't mature enough to have a relationship. when you ask a question, expect people to disagree with you. If you can't take different opinions, then you shouldn't have asked the question in the first place.
9-14 is good
Put another way: does it matter whether a person has completed high school? Does it matter whether someone grew up with the ubiquity of cellphones? Does it matter whether a person has only a vague idea of what the internet was before there were web browsers? Does it matter if a person has their own home, lives with the family, or lives with a roommate? Does a person remember the invasion of Iraq, the first Gulf War, the Falklands War, the Vietnam War, the Korean Conflict? Has the person fought in a war? All of these things represent different perspectives, and they are only a tiny fraction of the changes that can happen as one ages (or have happened already).
Do experience and environment make a difference? Of course they do. What this doesn't mean is that a person's perspective is necessarily more or less valid based on age.
Edit: fixed verb tense
Not to mention it's a site rule.
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