I hardly ever think about sex, I don't really notice if someone is attractive, and the only times when I become aroused is if I read sex in a story (the genders of the people don't matter) What would you say my sexuatily is and why?

I can tell you that it is definitely...up to you to figure out! I know that isn't helping, but that's the way it is. Sexuality is a journey to be discovered by the person alone. I wrote an article on it ("It's Okay to be...Confused!") here, if you want to check that out.

You sound like you may be wondering if you are asexual. I'd go to AVEN (asexuality.org) and check them out. If it seems like something you'd identify with, then stick with that for a while and see if it "fits". If not, keep exploring!

still enjoying life, friends a more important on the hunt for the right equal of you, sex lust love? life is to be enjoyed with ten simple laws. enjoy.sex can be a pain. love is forever;-] you ok have heart;-]x10

nobody can tell you what your sexuality is, its a completely individual process, you may not have sexual feelings at this moment in your life but you will develop them later