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Ok so friends I need you help. My best friend is homophobic and I havent told her I'm pansexual. Does anyone know a(n) easy way to break it her? Thanks.

She always sees a couple and says good thing that's not us. She's even told me she's homophobic , extremely homophobic she was shocked when I friend of ours dated a girl she basically ignored them. Should I stay friends or what? please help!
 southisup posted over a year ago
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Insight357 said:
It depends on how much you need her as a friend. If you really want her to remain your friend, then I wouldn't tell her. Of course, you could still and hope that she is a good enough friend to accept it. I came out to one of my super religious friends and she was totally okay with it. So far, I'm still searching for ways to tell my other friends, but I've decided that I'm not saying it. You'll make the right decision, but if you don't feel ready, then don't tell her. Wait until you're ready! :D <3
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Missconstrictor said:
I don't think you should stay friends with her. She isn't healthy for you. As for telling her, there is no easy way. You just have to tell her. Be prepared for rejection, ridicule, and if you're not out yet, be prepared for her to tell everyone else. Honestly, if she doesn't support you, you don't need her. You're better without her, and her parasitic thoughts and opinions. it won't be easy losing her as a friend, but you'll feel better once you tell her.
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